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Rustrike
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Sat Sep 12, 2020 12:51 pm



Women say I'm attractive IRL. Yet my match rate is very low and majority of matches are flakes when I try to progress to a number/date.

28M 6'2 using Hinge and Bumble in London. Filters set to age 20-32, 15mile radius.

Is there anything off-putting in my photos?
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Sat Sep 12, 2020 12:52 pm

You're attractive dude, don't stress. Pics just suck (low-quality crappy smartphone photos).
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Sat Sep 12, 2020 2:15 pm

Rustrike wrote:
Sat Sep 12, 2020 12:51 pm
Women say I'm attractive IRL.
You're very good looking. You also live in London. You're going to kill it. I'm kinda jealous ngl

Your main goal is to become an entrepreneur? I hope you start a log.
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Rustrike
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Sat Sep 12, 2020 3:25 pm

Luke95 wrote:
Sat Sep 12, 2020 2:15 pm
Rustrike wrote:
Sat Sep 12, 2020 12:51 pm
Women say I'm attractive IRL.
You're very good looking. You also live in London. You're going to kill it. I'm kinda jealous ngl

Your main goal is to become an entrepreneur? I hope you start a log.
Nah man, it sucks here, you're competing against so many chads/thyrones and city boys. You have to be like in top 5% to regularly bang 6s and above off dating apps. I think I make top 25% and it's a ton on flakes you have to go through to bang a 6 or 7, not even talking about 8s and 9s...

I'm doing amazon fba atm. Not sure what you mean by log?
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Sat Sep 12, 2020 3:51 pm

Rustrike wrote:
Sat Sep 12, 2020 3:25 pm
Luke95 wrote:
Sat Sep 12, 2020 2:15 pm


You're very good looking. You also live in London. You're going to kill it. I'm kinda jealous ngl

Your main goal is to become an entrepreneur? I hope you start a log.
Nah man, it sucks here, you're competing against so many chads/thyrones and city boys. You have to be like in top 5% to regularly bang 6s and above off dating apps. I think I make top 25% and it's a ton on flakes you have to go through to bang a 6 or 7, not even talking about 8s and 9s...

I'm doing amazon fba atm. Not sure what you mean by log?
Listen, you guys have to understand that YOU'RE PART OF THE PROBLEM :D

You keep approaching random, maybe even below average girls while you yourself are maybe slightky above average,
If you as a good looking guy hit on 5s and 6s, NO SHIT they're going to think that "oh, it must mean that I'm an 8" etc.

I'd suggest everyone STOP SIMPING, which means stop hitting on every girl you find "good enough", stop fucking around and trying to increase your notch count etc. Stop swiping on every girl who you find "good enough" on tinder.

"Chads" and "Tyrones" are the problem too, it's not just women. No, most normal, average looking guys are the biggest problem, trying to simp, approach random chicks etc.
Start looking for only girls who are EQUALLY attractive to you AND more attractive than you are. Stop wasting time on girls who are just "okay-ish". Stop inflating their ego.

But again, that's just me - this is a "get laid" forum so it seems like people most likely wont understand that mentality :D STOP GOING THROUGH 6-s and 7-s IF YOU'RE LITERALLY ABOVE THAT (I'm not saying you are, no offence lol. You look like a decent 7.5 - it's more that I'm generalizing).

But yes, I agree with Andy - you'll probably just need to take more professional looking photos. (Or, then again, don't - and show that you're good enough the way you are while at the same time becoming better every day. Maybe if most guys had that mentality - we wouldn't have this extreme difference in men and women getting laid/having relationships)

Edit: too much mental wanking on my part. I apologize for bitterness. Professional looking photos, that's it. By logs he means daily logs on your progress, goals etc. Leaving it here for "future me"
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Sat Sep 12, 2020 4:08 pm

@MattsCrib what did you add to this conversation by writing this essay?
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Sat Sep 12, 2020 4:09 pm

boblikestacos666 wrote:
Sat Sep 12, 2020 4:08 pm
@MattsCrib what did you add to this conversation by writing this essay?
You're right. I made an edit.
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Sat Sep 12, 2020 4:13 pm

Hmm, it still seems to me that bigger cities are better. Maybe because in Ireland I have the best time - by far - in Dublin.

Oh, I mean progress logs like the one Sigma and AGF have.
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Sat Sep 12, 2020 5:18 pm

Bad pics like Andy said

There's a couple in there that could be like a 6th or 7th pic but nothing good enough for 1-3
Current Shit: I have to upload 1 video a day to youtube for 365 days

Fuck you Andy (jk love you)
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Sat Sep 12, 2020 7:39 pm

@MattsCrib makes sense, the reality is though that chances to get out on a date a 7 and above from a dating app are close to zero unless you're a chad or amazing in any other way (like financially), so you're basically trying to be realistic and go after 5s and 6s.
But of course, it wouldn't be this way of there wasn't an army of simps and betas constantly making 5/6s feel like they all deserve Brad Pitt
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Sat Sep 12, 2020 7:44 pm

@Luke95 I'd imagine Dublin is much better in terms of competition and craziness/pickiness of girls. No wonder they say irish girls are better than english...
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Sat Sep 12, 2020 7:46 pm

Leave the reddit level talk to reddit

All this mental masturbation achieves nothing worthwhile

Get a professional photographer to take photos of you have them edited. Then run those and get back to us on how many more girls you sleep with

If you really want to go all in - get the money together to afford Andy's revamp service. This would be the fastest way to a good profile
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Sat Sep 12, 2020 8:13 pm

I genuinely think that the grading system was devised by dating dorks to sell expensive coaching to normal dorks.

For me, the best system is the boner test. As long as you'd have sex with her, it doesn't matter if she's a -10 in the eyes of others. You're still having sex with a girl you like, while all the dorks blame girls and other guys for their failures.
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Sat Sep 12, 2020 8:38 pm

For me its like
Girls I wouldn't have sex with
Girls I would have sex with
Girls I really want to have sex with

3 categories. Easy as
Current Shit: I have to upload 1 video a day to youtube for 365 days

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Sun Sep 13, 2020 12:53 am

Rustrike wrote:
Sat Sep 12, 2020 3:25 pm
You have to be like in top 5%
Then get in the top 5%. That's not even hard, given you're already attractive. Go all-in on taking good photos and you'll be there in 3 months. Buy the camera I recommend (this one), use my tinder guide and get cracking right now.
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