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Tue Sep 22, 2020 3:22 am

Yes I know there's only one ";"

In Swift that's valid so shhh.

I'm frustrated.

Matched with this girl on OKC. She's seems totally into me, was excited to meet up.

But she cancelled last minute.

Now she seems to be putting me in "text buddy" status... But it's obvious she's cool to meet up.

I ignored her when she flaked cause fuck that noise, but she reached out again so I invited her over. She fucking ignored my invite and is trying to start a fucking text convo...

She's obviously interested, but I don't want to reward her seeking attention without it moving towards a meet. What do?

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Tue Sep 22, 2020 4:31 am

If you're going for the instalay, accept that most girls won't be done for that (move on from this one).
If you're willing to be more accommodating, you can:
- suggest somewhere that's not your place (by the way what's with the google links? I'd be thinking you're a bot)
- give more advanced notice (busy now, free tomorrow, or the day after)
- mention two days this week that work for you and ask which is good for her
- ask when she's free

You don't have to be "alpha" and tell her to come straight over. Would you drop everything to go hangout with a dude you met one time and hardly know just because they seem sort of cool?

All that said, if you are going for the instalay, your method is probably fine. Just need to hit a TON of numbers for that.
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Tue Sep 22, 2020 4:40 am

Edited my response after I read yours more closely.

Only invited her over because everything was closed when she reached out.

I feel like if I ask her when she's free or suggest another time I'm implicitly saying it's okay for her to flake again.

I wanna figure out how to move this towards a meet but without implying it's okay to change plans last minute.
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joe_ronimo wrote:
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She's seems totally into me, was excited to meet up.
Basic rule : until you put your pennis in a girl's buhjaina, you can't know if she's totally into you. Her responses look like she's excited but it might just be her personality.

I'm very big on setting the right expectations from the beginning. So, I suggest from now on to say "<your intro, whatever that is>. I'm not looking for anything serious right now because <reason>. But I'd love to grab a drink and see if we click. What do you think?>. Unless you do this, girls might expect a text buddy.

As for what to do with this girl: Suggest a meeting in an area around your place. If she changes the conversation again, you're wasting your time. Either tell her that you both are looking for different things or don't reply to her (I consider it impolite when people act like they didn't see/hear a question and don't want to waste time with them).
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Crisis_Overcomer wrote:
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joe_ronimo wrote:
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She's seems totally into me, was excited to meet up.
As for what to do with this girl: Suggest a meeting in an area around your place. If she changes the conversation again, you're wasting your time. Either tell her that you both are looking for different things or don't reply to her (I consider it impolite when people act like they didn't see/hear a question and don't want to waste time with them).
Thanks for the feedback and insight.

I decided to take yours and tweak it a bit - went direct and clear but inviting.

It'll either throw her off if she's not down to meet, or it'll point her towards meeting up, if she's just a little nervous. Either way I'll know.
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I swear, every cunt on this forums is a coder
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sudo show_me_your_titties

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I swear, every cunt on this forums is a coder
(I ain't hating; I studied computer science at university)

i aint

i stupid clearly
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sudo show_me_your_titties

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while (cock in pussy):
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Y’all are nerds. :ugeek:

I was right. Turns out she was just nervous.

Did the whole “it’s only fun if we’re both having fun” and we’re on for tomorrow baybay.
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Thanks again for the help @Crisis_Overcomer
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Tue Sep 22, 2020 6:42 pm

good stuff joe. if either party is uncomfortable then neither party can be their authentic and fullest self. glad you two are figuring it out

`while true {textGame = 0; textGame ++}` results in textGame continually oscillating in value between 0 and 1, and never actually increasing :{
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nipple-flip wrote:
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`while true {textGame = 0; textGame ++}` results in textGame continually oscillating in value between 0 and 1, and never actually increasing :{
Fuck... You're right.
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