Zoom First Date + My Place Second Date

spinaroonie · Sat Oct 17, 2020 2:27 pm

My city is back in lockdown with most indoor spaces closed and limits on large gatherings.

This makes meeting new girls more challenging.

As we approach winter, going out for walks in the cold or meeting at a park in the dark is also less appealing.

I've suggested wine and movie dates at my place but many girls are not comfortable with the suggestion.

How receptive would girls be to a virtual first date over Zoom and - if there's chemistry - a second date at my place?

Any guys here have luck with this approach?

Radical · Sat Oct 17, 2020 3:00 pm

No don't do zoom. Screen harder for girls that'll come straight over.

If you aren't getting enough matches to find one then the issue is your pics.

SIGMA_1234 · Sat Oct 17, 2020 3:02 pm

Radical wrote: ↑
Sat Oct 17, 2020 3:00 pm
No don't do zoom. Screen harder for girls that'll come straight over.

+1. I used to send nudes and do online calls with girls. They just ghost me after a while, so it's a waste of time. Now I just meetup girls in my car and makeout/ fuck them.

spinaroonie · Sat Oct 17, 2020 3:09 pm

Radical wrote: ↑
Sat Oct 17, 2020 3:00 pm
No don't do zoom. Screen harder for girls that'll come straight over.

If you aren't getting enough matches to find one then the issue is your pics.

Appreciate the reply.

How many girls have come straight to your place from apps in the past few months? Curious.

spinaroonie · Sat Oct 17, 2020 3:10 pm

SIGMA_1234 wrote: ↑
Sat Oct 17, 2020 3:02 pm

Radical wrote: ↑
Sat Oct 17, 2020 3:00 pm
No don't do zoom. Screen harder for girls that'll come straight over.
+1. I used to send nudes and do online calls with girls. They just ghost me after a while, so it's a waste of time. Now I just meetup girls in my car and makeout/ fuck them.

Same question. How many girls have you met in your car in the past few months?

SIGMA_1234 · Sat Oct 17, 2020 3:28 pm

spinaroonie wrote: ↑
Sat Oct 17, 2020 3:10 pm
Same question. How many girls have you met in your car in the past few months?

Not much. Only restarted online dating last month, but I met 4 girls. 1 was just a blowjob, 1 is just full-on makeout and some pussy masturbation, 2 I fucked.

Radical · Sat Oct 17, 2020 3:52 pm

When I was in Melbourne during lockdown 2 came straight over and 1 invited me to hers

This isnt necessary for me anymore as ive moved somewhere where bars are open

spinaroonie · Sat Oct 17, 2020 3:56 pm

Radical wrote: ↑
Sat Oct 17, 2020 3:52 pm
When I was in Melbourne during lockdown 2 came straight over and 1 invited me to hers

This isnt necessary for me anymore as ive moved somewhere where bars are open

Nice. Which app was this and what age were the girls?

spinaroonie · Sat Oct 17, 2020 3:57 pm

SIGMA_1234 wrote: ↑
Sat Oct 17, 2020 3:28 pm

spinaroonie wrote: ↑
Sat Oct 17, 2020 3:10 pm
Same question. How many girls have you met in your car in the past few months?
Not much. Only restarted online dating last month, but I met 4 girls. 1 was just a blowjob, 1 is just full-on makeout and some pussy masturbation, 2 I fucked.

That's solid for one month bro. Same question - which app and what age were the girls?

SIGMA_1234 · Sat Oct 17, 2020 4:22 pm

spinaroonie wrote: ↑
Sat Oct 17, 2020 3:57 pm
That's solid for one month bro. Same question - which app and what age were the girls?

Ages 20-24. The girl who gave me a BJ wasn't from a dating app. Everyone else mostly came from Bumble. Bu remember this is in a different country from yours most probably.

dashedhopes · Sun Oct 18, 2020 3:42 am

Couldn't imagine how awkward a zoom date would be with a random girl.

Aloofus · Mon Oct 19, 2020 3:45 pm

I've not dated much during COVID, but I definitely wouldn't do zoom.
I had a pretty healthy rotation coming in, and only add someone in when I need to.

The few I've met really didn't have issues with coming straight over, or inviting me over to their place.

spinaroonie · Tue Oct 20, 2020 12:58 am

Aloofus wrote: ↑
Mon Oct 19, 2020 3:45 pm
I've not dated much during COVID, but I definitely wouldn't do zoom.
I had a pretty healthy rotation coming in, and only add someone in when I need to.

The few I've met really didn't have issues with coming straight over, or inviting me over to their place.

Nice! What age were these girls who came straight over and from what app?

SIGMA_1234 · Tue Oct 20, 2020 1:09 am

@spinaroonie will there be any difference if Aloofus tells you what age these girls are? All we see is you just theorizing without taking action. Heck, will you even take action? Otherwise our typing here is essentially worthless.

I don't blame you. I was like this 4 months ago. But understand that all this theorizing will just result to nothing without action. I theorized for 1 1/2 years, and without action, I never sticked my dick in a pussy or sent job applications or made money (made a bit of money with some affiliate referrals in web design woohoo!). So, will you want to get your theories right? Or will you want to get laid?