What do you do after the first date / how do you ask for a second date?

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Readytokillthebeta01
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Mon Nov 09, 2020 5:59 pm

I'm curious because with the last few girls I've gone on first dates I'v been trying out different approaches for how to get the second date going.
Do you usually text the next day, wait a few days, only text when you're trying to set up the next date?
I'm interested to hear some different takes.

@KillYourInnerLoser I've followed your online dating guide and it's worked really, but I don't think it includes anything about what to do after the first date /setting up second dates, unless I missed it?
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Mon Nov 09, 2020 8:07 pm

I am not the most experienced in here, but i would say just ask ,if they like you they will accept. If not next one.
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    Mon Nov 09, 2020 8:47 pm

    There is an easy scheme if you need it.

    Have you reached your goal on the date (likely getting laid)? If yes then do whatever you want to do. If no, set up another date and try reaching it again. Repeat until neccesary.

    Doesnt really matter how you do it, unless you wait so long the girl forgets your existence (so a few days likely). Shot her a quick message after tho, she will not be left wondering whether the date was succes and the same goes for you.
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    grodmeister general
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    Tue Nov 10, 2020 2:13 am

    what are you doing for first dates, Girls should be wishing you would go on a second date with them!
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    l0vebone
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    Tue Nov 10, 2020 2:52 am

    smash on the first date so you can just tell her to come over
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