Rate my online dating pictures.

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Sin Silver
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Wed Jun 09, 2021 12:26 pm

As part of day 3 of approach anxiety, I'm taking up online dating again. All of these pictures are at least 1 to 3 years old, I really need to take new pictures since I started updating my style and fashion.

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The most up to date picture, taken a little over a year ago. My grooming, weight and style is much better greater here than it has been before. Minus points for being a shopping selfie, but I took it whilst I was trying out that coat.

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My current profile pic, I took it after getting a really nice hair cut and beard groom
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Really old, I should probably delete this.

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Me getting my PhD. Might use the last picture instead. is it worth me showing of my higher education?
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I've heard my friends aren't doing much for me here, but I like this pic. My hair is on point, and I think it make same look really interesting.
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Not online, but possibly a better alternative to the full body pic of my in my PhD regalia. However, I don't really really think it shows my degree.

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Wed Jun 09, 2021 5:40 pm

Just IMO, I don't like any of the last four, you look kind of ... dopey (?) in 3, 4, and 6. 5 doesn't seem terrible but the guy in the background is smiling kinda weird.
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Sin Silver
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Wed Jun 09, 2021 6:56 pm

I have to agree, shows how far I have come lately, thanks!
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Wed Jun 09, 2021 7:01 pm

I would says the same, the first 2 are really good but I would ditch the last 4, they just drag you down IMO. The 5th one is not so bad, but not on the level of the first 2. I would delete them and take new ones completely.

Also sorry to ask it here, but how the fuck do I insert images in the middle of my writing. I know theres a insert image button but what do I do with it, the only way I've been able to add photos is by the "add files" option and it just stack up the photos in the bottom right of my post
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Wed Jun 09, 2021 9:45 pm

Master wrote:
Wed Jun 09, 2021 7:01 pm
Also sorry to ask it here, but how the fuck do I insert images in the middle of my writing. I know theres a insert image button but what do I do with it, the only way I've been able to add photos is by the "add files" option and it just stack up the photos in the bottom right of my post
There is a button to insert a photo in the post after uploading it with 'add files' at the bottom.
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Thu Jun 10, 2021 3:51 am

2 cents: I only like the 1st pic, but I don't like the pose at all. In fact, that's the only one I like; the rest I don't even like.

Have a dedicated photoshoot; also try showing your jawline when taking photos. That will be easier to show when you lose more weight.
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Thu Jun 10, 2021 8:02 am

Thanks for the input everyone. I am in dire need of new photos! I'll arrange taking some with a friend.
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Thu Jun 10, 2021 10:55 pm

Sin Silver wrote:
Thu Jun 10, 2021 8:02 am
I'll arrange taking some with a friend
let me know the process !

i too would like to know how to convince a friend to take good pictures of you - for a dating app !

i'm on the lookout for people where i am currently

and could use the guidance
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Sin Silver
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Fri Jun 11, 2021 3:58 pm

Yaxir wrote:
Thu Jun 10, 2021 10:55 pm
let me know the process !

i too would like to know how to convince a friend to take good pictures of you - for a dating app !

i'm on the lookout for people where i am currently

and could use the guidance
I literally told them I wanted pictures for online dating! I was a little shy at first, I won't lie, but I feels good to fight through the shame of wanting help dating.
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