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benstrong26
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Tue Jun 23, 2020 6:57 pm

I'm starting my journey into online dating and am wondering what do you do if you don't have time to meet right away?

I've been using Andy's Tinder template and it has been successful for me so far. In one weekend I've gotten 4 numbers with girls who want to meet. Logistically this is starting to get challenging, especially as I'm going to be out of town for 4 days starting Thursday.

I've managed this by scheduling some of the dates for the week I'm back, but I acknowledge that's not ideal. How do you all manage this? Do you slow down matching with girls if you know you can't meet in the next few days?
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Tue Jun 23, 2020 11:26 pm

I slow down matching, and just accept if I can't meet girls for a week or so, most of them will "fall off" and won't end up meeting me.

You can also do what Ive done a lot: meet for a quick "mini-date". Tell her you're super busy but you have 30min free, and "We'll grab a quick coffee and get to know each other". Meet her for 30min, then leave.

You're far more likely to bang a girl doing this (have a longer second date and try to have sex then), compared to waiting a week for your first date.
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Wed Jun 24, 2020 12:18 am

KillYourInnerLoser wrote:
Tue Jun 23, 2020 11:26 pm
I slow down matching, and just accept if I can't meet girls for a week or so, most of them will "fall off" and won't end up meeting me.
+1. Currently, my country is still in some form of lockdown, and I still can't go out to meet on dates. Since improving my online dating profile, I get way more matches, and I have to drastically slow down because I know they will fall off if we don't hang out ASAP (happened to me already).
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Wed Jun 24, 2020 2:22 am

I appreciate the advice guys. COVID is definitely making things more complicated (my state is suffering exponential growth right now).
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Thu Jun 25, 2020 1:24 pm

I also follow BDs dating template (short quick first date, second date at your place).

I've had 3 dates in a night before. What you can do is space them out, and pick close by (but different) venues. So that night I did something like 715, 830, and 10 (second bar was 10 minutes away from the first, and the last was 15-20).

Slot each girl an hour and say at the beginning you're meeting up with a friend in a bit so only have an hour.
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Thu Jun 25, 2020 2:36 pm

Aloofus wrote:
Thu Jun 25, 2020 1:24 pm
I also follow BDs dating template (short quick first date, second date at your place).

I've had 3 dates in a night before. What you can do is space them out, and pick close by (but different) venues. So that night I did something like 715, 830, and 10 (second bar was 10 minutes away from the first, and the last was 15-20).

Slot each girl an hour and say at the beginning you're meeting up with a friend in a bit so only have an hour.
Interesting approach, with COVID I really only have one bar that I feel comfortable going to (it has a big patio). When things get back to normal that might definitely work for me.
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Thu Jun 25, 2020 2:37 pm

Aloofus wrote:
Thu Jun 25, 2020 1:24 pm
BDs dating template
Who's BD?
Your friendly closeted pervert

Goals:
-Job applications: 5/ day but minimum as 5/week
-30 mins. of Mandarin TV shows to improve Mandarin

COVID-19 Quarantine specific:
-daily home workouts
-15 swipes in Bumble/ Tinder or talk to 1 girl (whichever comes first)
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Tue Jun 30, 2020 12:21 pm

SIGMA_1234 wrote:
Thu Jun 25, 2020 2:37 pm
Aloofus wrote:
Thu Jun 25, 2020 1:24 pm
BDs dating template
Who's BD?
Blackdragon. He's a non monogamous relationship blogger.
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