Get ton of matches because of extremely good pictures, but dates are disappointed when they see me IRL

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Sun Jul 04, 2021 8:53 am

I'm thinking if it is even worth pursuing Tinder at this point.

Yes, I have hundreds of matches, because I have amazing pictures, which also have been edited a bit (blur in background, color opacity, contrasts, etc...).

But in real life the girls are visibly disappointed, because my face simply doesn't look as good as in pictures.

Partially it's probably my fault, since I've lost like 5 kgs of muscle mass during Covid and grew out my hair from short to long.

Will work on regaining that lost mass and get a shorter hairstyle.

Meanwhile, is it even worth going on Tinder dates if I know the girls are going to be disappointed by my looks?

Would you continue Tinder dating at this point or focus on day game (like I'm doing now).

Also, I noticed the girls you can get from day game are WAAAY hotter than from Tinder.
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Sun Jul 04, 2021 9:28 am

It's the same with girls. Quite a lot of them are hotter in Tinder/ Bumble than IRL. So nothing too bad.

Also, I am still banging chicks from Bumble so far. And I'm scheduled to bang a chick this coming Saturday, too. Thinking if I should book a motel lol

But more importantly, please share your pics in Tinder & a normal unedited selfie of you. We can't really help you if we don't even know what you & your face looks like. If you're scared of letting your face out, start a private thread, then.
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Sun Jul 04, 2021 10:23 am

No girl will notice loss of 5kg of muscle just by looking on your face. Just get your hair in order and you will be fine.
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Sun Jul 04, 2021 10:51 am

Sometimes wrote:
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Meanwhile, is it even worth going on Tinder dates if I know the girls are going to be disappointed by my looks?
When you say you've been on dates and seen the girls are visibly disappointed, how is that shown? Also, what's the sample size (i.e. how many girls has it happened with). You can't necessarily write off all the girls on Tinder just because of a few.
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Sun Jul 04, 2021 3:23 pm

Can you post you tinder profile for us?

It's clear your physically fit from your profile picture, but we know very little else. We need to see you face, style and genereal appearance to give you better direction.
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Sun Jul 04, 2021 9:31 pm

Are you sure they are dissapointed by your looks? Is this feedback you received multiple times from girls who went on a date with you?
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