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Thu Nov 04, 2021 4:16 pm

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My first date is a quick coffee or walk around town of 1 hour max, not a 3 hour deep convo about life and making a connection. The goal is not to pull or get a connection. It's to get her off her phone, to see me as a "real life person", and to assure her I'm not a psychopathic serial killer.

I do pull on the first date if it feels right. But since I tend to meet girls for a first time during the day-time and we only have limited time, I go for the short date during which we agree on a time & place for a more "elaborate" date (movie & wine.)

K thanks that clarifies a lot.

Makes me feel even dumber for delaying yesterday.

Argh. Lesson learnt.
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Fri Nov 05, 2021 4:35 am

Nov 4

- Took the day off to relax
- Did a lot of self reflecting.
- Had a date... she cancelled
- Got maybe 20-25 matches. 2 new dates.
- thought the girl from yesterday ghosted but she responded like 18 hrs after my good morning text.

...

The best thing to come out of today is I had space to organize myself. So it feels more clear what I need to do each day to hit my goals.

A few other thinga but nothing worth mentioning rn.
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Sat Nov 06, 2021 5:55 am

Nov 5

~ 25-30 matches bitches
4 #s
1 new date setup

... Tired af.
... But
Feeling more inspired lately.
Definitely wanna hookup more and go to a better city.
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Mon Nov 08, 2021 6:32 am

Nov 6-7
5 dates


Question for y'all
Anyone know a good simple structure for escalation and avoiding last minute resistance. I know full well Andy talks about this but I find his advice on the subject is too principles focused and hard to apply in the moment. I need a more do this then that source of info that explains why I need to do what.

If that exists or even something you guys have found useful please share it.





1st girl
She was visibly nervous and shaking when I got there. I think I did a good job cooling her down and relaxing her.
Pulled once. Didn't try again.
Tentative 2nd date Wed. Maybe...


2nd girl
Couldn't make it cuz of her kid.
In the midst of setting up Wednesday
(Low probability imo)


3rd girl
Long story short she didnt understand we had a date today. Rescheduld for tomorrow.


4th girl
Coffee date. Cute. Very cute.
No pull.
She was pretty boring honestly. Not a strike against her.

5th girl
Cool. I liked her and I could tell she was into me. I was into her. Date just had that vibe. Pulled. Made out. But she wasn't getting into it. So it ended. Felt like some slow down or calibration would've worked. But she made it seem like a big deal & I bought into it. And then it ended.

I think better move would've been ease off. End making out. And then go again for the makeout 5 minutes later.

But who knows.


funny stuff
Girl on tinder saw me on a date and called me out for not saying I was on one.
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Another funny thing about that date. .
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Mon Nov 08, 2021 8:33 am

https://web.archive.org/web/20130221053 ... ion-guide/

Boytoy from the grave (/Danish business world). He’s an old school GLL guy and his guide really helped me

Also agree with Andy. Screening harder feels counterintuitive tbh but yields the best results.
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Mon Nov 08, 2021 10:32 pm

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"We'll grab a drink, have a flirt, and if we like each other we'll go back to my place and get nasty in the bedroom. Sound good?"
Fucking thank you for permission to use this.
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Tue Nov 09, 2021 3:28 am

@Radical thank you as always for dropping value bombs
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Tue Nov 09, 2021 3:31 am

Nov 7

Date... catfish
2 cancels.

Approaches 0/4

Gonna message girls in 15 minutes. Sitting at ~10 messages to get to.

@KillYourInnerLoser that's some intense screening dude.

I'm gonna experiment this week with being more specific with my intentions.

Some girls just don't get it.
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Tue Nov 09, 2021 5:06 am

Tell us more about the catfish. Worst I've gotten is they're just fatter than their pics. Was it even the same person?
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Tue Nov 09, 2021 7:45 am

Nov 7
Easy lay


So this just happened...

Girl messaged me tonight and wanted to meet and hookup.
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Came over.
Put on a show.
Put her legs on mine. Massaged them.
Brought her close and made out and then she just sat ontop of me and made out. She went for my dick before I made any attempt at her crotch.

Went down on her made her come once.
Then banged her pretty hard missionary and she came twice.

Night and day from yesterday's girl who didn't wanna do anything.




Value is I had nothing from the last 8 dates besides 3 pulls that didn't go anywhere.

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Tell us more about the catfish. Worst I've gotten is they're just fatter than their pics. Was it even the same person?
Same person just like maybe old pics? She was like very overweight dude. Like she came into the cafe and I thought. There's no fucking way that's her. And it was.

She talked about going to the gym on tinder. So I was like ok she's probably in decent shape then... Nope.
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@Radical thank you as always for dropping value bombs
Always

Yeah those fast and super forward hook up girls are random

I never really got those til this year and then i had like 3 in a month. My theory was its related to the lockdowns and more girls got used to doing that sort of thing

But then Andy has stories like that from 2017 so whatdoiknow
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Tue Nov 09, 2021 11:08 am

5 years ago or something I matched with a girl that was down to meet after 5 messages or so. She later told me she always had a fantasy of meeting a stranger for very fast sex

Right time, right place

When a girl acts stuck-up or is being difficult, remember girls like these exist and they're out there. Enjoy
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Sat Nov 13, 2021 7:03 am

Nov 12

Day Game
1/6

Rusty af, but got them in.
Tryna do a real session again reminds me of all the things I hated about Calgary. After the sheer volume I've done on tinder and comparing that to Approaching volume at the mall. It feels like going from a highway to gridlocked traffic.

I just know I need volume and it's near impossible to get that here.


Maybe night game would satisfy me.


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Dates

Not much to report, been getting cancelled on as always. Had a shisha date with a really cute girl 2 nights ago. She refused the pull and then ghosted. Got a long just fine. But the rapport dates are useless.

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Almost got laid same night again with a very fucking hot Asian

She's like 100% my type.

She tells me she wants to hookup tonight on tinder. Snap each other to make sure we look good. She likes the selfie. I like hers but she screened hard for dick size.

I'm not small. But I'm not huge either.

Sent her a dick pic.

5 minutes later she says she can't something urgent came up but suggests Sunday at 8pm.

The time suggestion is good. But...
I don't trust girls like this. As interested as she seems now. It cools off.

My thoughts are that she went to find the guy with the biggest dick and used that.

... But you never know.
Either way she missed out.


All that being said it affirms the desire to buy and use bathmate. Procrastinating on it. I'm not small in the pants but if Im going this hard at fucking girls my dick should atleast be remarkable.

Picked up 4 #s today. Need to be more on top of messaging girls once I get the number.

I got a shot ton of numbers yesterday but 0 dates scheduled.
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Sat Nov 13, 2021 7:11 am

Manganiello wrote: ↑
Sat Nov 13, 2021 7:03 am
Day Game
1/6
Congrats, top 5 volume on the forums.
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All that being said it affirms the desire to buy and use bathmate.
Don't use this outlier as a reason to buy a bathmate man. Sure, it's clear your spaghetti girth prevents girls from plating. But for all you know, she could have been a troll. I doubt she was messaging a ton of other dudes at the same time.
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Sat Nov 13, 2021 7:17 am

Crisis_Overcomer wrote: ↑
Sat Nov 13, 2021 7:11 am
Manganiello wrote: ↑
Sat Nov 13, 2021 7:03 am
Day Game
1/6
Congrats, top 5 volume on the forums.
Manganiello wrote: ↑
Sat Nov 13, 2021 7:03 am
All that being said it affirms the desire to buy and use bathmate.
Don't use this outlier as a reason to buy a bathmate man. Sure, it's clear your spaghetti girth prevents girls from plating. But for all you know, she could have been a troll. I doubt she was messaging a ton of other dudes at the same time.
I always wanted to buy it. I know this is an almost never again scenario.

Tbh it's because I want the confidence of being able to slam a girl like no one else shell ever meet can.


... Top 5. Ya sadly.
Most guys on here would benefit if they dropped 80% of their self improvement goals and talked to more girls instead.
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