Nov 6-7
5 dates
Question for y'all
Anyone know a good simple structure for escalation and avoiding last minute resistance. I know full well Andy talks about this but I find his advice on the subject is too principles focused and hard to apply in the moment. I need a more do this then that source of info that explains why I need to do what.
If that exists or even something you guys have found useful please share it.
1st girl
She was visibly nervous and shaking when I got there. I think I did a good job cooling her down and relaxing her.
Pulled once. Didn't try again.
Tentative 2nd date Wed. Maybe...
2nd girl
Couldn't make it cuz of her kid.
In the midst of setting up Wednesday
(Low probability imo)
3rd girl
Long story short she didnt understand we had a date today. Rescheduld for tomorrow.
4th girl
Coffee date. Cute. Very cute.
No pull.
She was pretty boring honestly. Not a strike against her.
5th girl
Cool. I liked her and I could tell she was into me. I was into her. Date just had that vibe. Pulled. Made out. But she wasn't getting into it. So it ended. Felt like some slow down or calibration would've worked. But she made it seem like a big deal & I bought into it. And then it ended.
I think better move would've been ease off. End making out. And then go again for the makeout 5 minutes later.
But who knows.
funny stuff
Girl on tinder saw me on a date and called me out for not saying I was on one.
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Another funny thing about that date. .
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