I appreciate all the recognition you guys have given for my recent profile improvements, but unfortunately the past month of Tinder has not been fruitful:
1 month of Tinder Platinum:
- 13 boosts
- 1 4-hour super boost
- 5 super likes per day (always on reasonably attractive women -- not usually out of my league)
- Total $126 dollars spent
Results:
- About 5 matches a day
- ~18 numbers
- 3 lame dates with weird / unattractive women
- 1 date with a cute girl that I messed up by not making a move
- 1 very mediocre sex
I’m getting burned out and frustrated from the time, energy, and financial investment I’m making, and not seeing any results. There are probably tweaks I can make to my profile, messaging, etc. to improve things. I could also focus on other apps (Hinge / Bumble) -- but I don’t have the energy for any of it right now and I’m currently approaching it from a pretty negative mindset.
Staying up late messaging girls has also been messing with my sleep recently.
I’m planning on taking some time off from all dating apps and just focusing on cold approaching. There are still a few more weeks of the college semester here, so it’s my last chance to enjoy the “bountiful sidewalks”, before things get quiet until August. I can probably commit to 2-3 hours a day to going out, and without the online dating option, I’ll really feel the pressure to not make excuses and actually approach.
I have some more photoshoots planning coming up also, so we’ll see what improvements I can make to my profile. This will also help me stay on top of my sleep scheduling and make sure my gym training/diet is 100% on point.
Current Goals:
✅ Lose virginity
✅ Have sex with the same girl a second time
✅ Overcome AA
✅ Get to 135 lbs with 10% bodyfat
✅ Have ongoing sex (fuck buddy) with a really hot girl
⚪ Find a hot girl and focus on having really high quality sex
⚪ Have a relaxed, carefree, youthful, open minded, ongoing relationship with a hot girl
⚪ Get to 140 lbs with 10% bodyfat
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Bman
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