Ed's Tinder and Stuff - February Abundance

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Jake
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Thu Jan 28, 2021 12:08 am

#1 definitely has the best vibe to me although the jacket+shirt combo in the others is pretty dope
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Radical
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Thu Jan 28, 2021 12:11 am

1s good, looks very natural

I like 4 as a picture but she completely steals the attention tbh lol
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Thu Jan 28, 2021 12:26 am

pussypounder9000 wrote:
Thu Jan 28, 2021 12:05 am
Any tinder results/change?

I think you're making the best expression in #1, but she looks kind of stiff and staged. #2 looks more natural, but that's just me.
No major change in results yet, I just used it for two Tinder boosts this week. At first I had it as my first photo, but that might be a little to blunt. I switched it to my second photo.

And yeah I love the framing, composition, and posing in #2. But my expression is kinda dopey.
Jake wrote:
Thu Jan 28, 2021 12:08 am
#1 definitely has the best vibe to me although the jacket+shirt combo in the others is pretty dope
I still like the outfit. I'm going to use it again in another shoot.
Radical wrote:
Thu Jan 28, 2021 12:11 am
1s good, looks very natural

I like 4 as a picture but she completely steals the attention tbh lol
She's definitely a professional. In almost every photo we took she looks great, but I only look good in like 5% of them 😅
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✅ Lose virginity
✅ Have sex with the same girl a second time
✅ Overcome AA
✅ Get to 135 lbs with 10% bodyfat
✅ Have ongoing sex (fuck buddy) with a really hot girl
⚪ Find a hot girl and focus on having really high quality sex
⚪ Have a relaxed, carefree, youthful, open minded, ongoing relationship with a hot girl
⚪ Get to 140 lbs with 10% bodyfat

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Thu Jan 28, 2021 12:30 pm

3 would be my favorite. Something a bit artistic, but warm about the mix of lights in it, + you look good.

I think your hair looks too unkempt and greasy in #1, funny how we all have different opinions.
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Thu Jan 28, 2021 2:12 pm

I love 3, 5, and 7. Kickass job, both you and Joe.
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Thu Jan 28, 2021 2:15 pm

A wild @Crisis_Overcomer appears
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Thu Jan 28, 2021 2:41 pm

Radical wrote:
Thu Jan 28, 2021 2:15 pm
A wild @Crisis_Overcomer appears
It uses Quick Forum Comment.

Its super effective.
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Thu Jan 28, 2021 2:51 pm

Crisis_Overcomer wrote:
Thu Jan 28, 2021 2:41 pm
Radical wrote:
Thu Jan 28, 2021 2:15 pm
A wild @Crisis_Overcomer appears
It uses Quick Forum Comment.

Its super effective.
Andy and I were saying you're like the absent dad that comes back every year or so with gifts

Did you get the milk you went out for?
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Thu Jan 28, 2021 6:13 pm

Radical wrote:
Thu Jan 28, 2021 2:51 pm
Crisis_Overcomer wrote:
Thu Jan 28, 2021 2:41 pm


It uses Quick Forum Comment.

Its super effective.
Andy and I were saying you're like the absent dad that comes back every year or so with gifts

Did you get the milk you went out for?
I did but while out I turned into a vegan.

So I brought you kids high-estrogen, low-testo, definitely-natural almond milk.
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Mon Mar 29, 2021 4:36 pm

I've been doing a few more photo shoots with models, so I have some updates on that coming soon.

But first a big update: After struggling with the AA program in 2019-2020, and ultimately taking a break during COVID-19, I re-started approaching in the past few weeks. I've doing "warm up drills" of just stopping girls and giving compliments.

On Friday, I had my first cold approach where I actually asked a girl for her number. She gave me her number, we had a date Sunday night at a bar near my place, we went back to my place, and we had sex! I'm feeling super accomplished and feeling great about approaching more 😁

So I'm currently batting 100% for asking girls for their numbers and then having sex with them 😅. @Radical isn't this similar to your story when you stared approaching?
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Mon Mar 29, 2021 4:45 pm

BIG CONGRATS DUDE!!

Been impressed with your effort, and the model thing is fairly innovative

Andy gets it wrong all the time and tells people it was my 2nd... it was my 3rd approach and my 7th approach i got lays from
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Mon Mar 29, 2021 10:26 pm

@KillYourInnerLoser i dunno man, you saw me get blown out on the first two as well as i did them both with you

@Ed_ Some advice specific to you from someone thats stood roughly in your spot

Early success like this can be a little weird to handle mentally

1. You might experience a lack of hunger moving forward
- ignore that as much as you can
- you need to capitalise on the momentum for the sake of killing your AA as much as you can
- it will literally never be easier to approach than when you riding high as you are now, trust me. You want to use that positive energy while you have it

2. No matter what you tell yourself logically this will have subconsciously affected your expectations
- off my first 20 approaches in Melbourne i got 5 numbers and 2 lays
- I then did like 60 straight up rejections in a row in Sydney
- the reality of the numbers game is that it is insanely random and cold approaching is probably the most random version of it
- I had stupid thoughts like 'If i do too many approaches now i fuck up my impressive lay to approach ratio' - definitely ignore that shit
- when you go through your brutal patch realise its normal and to be expected
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Tue Mar 30, 2021 4:31 am

Grats man @Ed_!!!

@KillYourInnerLoser @Radical didn't BIB get laid on their very 1st or 2nd approach as well?
27 years young.

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Wed Mar 31, 2021 1:50 am

Overdue update on my Tinder photo journey:

Working with models -- the hard way

The previous model shoot I did, I connected with the model through Instagram. After her, I reached out to over a dozen other models on Instagram, but I wasn’t able to find any interested in working on photoshoots.
Then I tried Seeking Arrangements. I created an account just for looking for models and I sent over 200 messages on the first day offering $200 for a photoshoot. That resulted in my account getting flagged and almost banned 😐

I did end up connecting with four women from SA, but two of them flaked on the photoshoots and the one I did work with didn’t have any professional model experience (she also didn’t charge for the shoot, so I guess you get what you pay for).

@joe_ronimo and I did the photoshoot with that girl (see the “Studio Model” photo) along with the help of a photographer friend of mine who was visiting Austin -- but honestly it wasn’t worth all the hassle. Between finding the model, arranging the day/time of the shoot, working with the camera and photography equipment, planning the shots, choosing outfits (for me and her)... it was a lot of stress, not fun, and I wasn’t able to focus on myself enough (posing, framing, etc.)

Local (semi-pro) photography -- the easy way

I messaged a few local photographers on Instagram who looked like they have a talent for edgy photos with women. I connected with one photographer and arranged a shoot with one of the models from SA. That photoshoot went much better -- I was able to focus on myself and let the model and photographer take care of most of the details. See the “Street” photos below for the results.

The entire photoshoot ended up costing me $150 for the photographer plus $200 for the model -- so not cheap, but way less hassle. I’m planning more shoots with that photographer; he has a studio space, all the gear we could need, and he has connections to models (and for less than the $200 I’ve been paying).

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I just reset my Bumble and Tinder accounts with the latest photos. See my full spread below. We'll see how it works 🤞
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Current Goals:
✅ Lose virginity
✅ Have sex with the same girl a second time
✅ Overcome AA
✅ Get to 135 lbs with 10% bodyfat
✅ Have ongoing sex (fuck buddy) with a really hot girl
⚪ Find a hot girl and focus on having really high quality sex
⚪ Have a relaxed, carefree, youthful, open minded, ongoing relationship with a hot girl
⚪ Get to 140 lbs with 10% bodyfat

📸 Avatar credit to Bman

My log and Tinder photos thread
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Wed Mar 31, 2021 4:07 am

Dude - your photos came out sick. Well done! :)
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