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Toast
Posts: 872 | Thanks: 1100
Joined: Thu Feb 04, 2021 12:31 am
Name: Devin
Goal: Japanese Plate
Age: 29
Motto: The Time to Hesitate Has Ceased
Location: Tokyo
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Sun Oct 10, 2021 7:10 am

Dewm wrote:
Sun Oct 10, 2021 4:22 am
Yeah I get cam girl matches all the time they only farm tinder to get dudes to pay for their cam site they never ever not once in a million years meet the dudes. They're just looking for orbitters.
Makes sense. I figured was much as well as the chick got farther along
Japanese Lay count -10

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Reservoir
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Name: Dimitri
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 30

Sun Oct 10, 2021 10:03 am

I find that whenever you try to invite a girl out or get her digits and she comes up with a counter-proposal ("lets chat some more first", "send me dirty pics first", "check out my camshow" etc)... things don't go your way if you follow her lead.

Her response is either "alright, I'm down for meeting you!" or it's something that'll end up wasting your time.
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Holden
Posts: 1620 | Thanks: 562
Joined: Sun Apr 18, 2021 1:36 pm
Goal: Rotation
Age: 28

Sun Oct 10, 2021 11:57 am

Yep. "Let's talk some more on here [Tinder]" is an instant unmatch. Nothing good ever came of it.

Nowadays I also tend to swipe left on girls who only put their IG handle in their bio and nothing else and if they have those classic wannabe Instagram model poses on there. Just looking for followers. I like to think that me swiping left on these hot girls also helps my own ELO score, but that's pure speculation on my part.
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Toast
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Joined: Thu Feb 04, 2021 12:31 am
Name: Devin
Goal: Japanese Plate
Age: 29
Motto: The Time to Hesitate Has Ceased
Location: Tokyo
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Sun Oct 10, 2021 2:14 pm

Reservoir wrote:
Sun Oct 10, 2021 10:03 am
Her response is either "alright, I'm down for meeting you!" or it's something that'll end up wasting your time.
Good thought to have on this issue.
Holden wrote:
Sun Oct 10, 2021 11:57 am
Nowadays I also tend to swipe left on girls who only put their IG handle in their bio and nothing else and if they have those classic wannabe Instagram model poses on there.
Yup, tons of those her in San Francisco. Just girls trying to sell their onlyfans or increase follow count

Thanks for the input
Japanese Lay count -10

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Toast
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Joined: Thu Feb 04, 2021 12:31 am
Name: Devin
Goal: Japanese Plate
Age: 29
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Location: Tokyo
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Wed Oct 13, 2021 7:44 am

Little update

None of my dates followed through over the weekend

1 New number - Date set up for Wednesday at 6
Flake rescheduled for Wednesday but I haven't given the time or location. Don't really care cuz she was annoying. Ill shoot her a text in the morning and fully expect her to ghost 👻 100%

Got a number of a girl who unfortunately flew back home to japan. Fuckin bombshell of a girl. She said she wants friends/ tour guides lol. Will be back in January. Ill text her occasionally to keep the vibe alive but wont really put much effort into it. Having a hot Japanese girl as a friend would be cool but it ultimately has a less then 1% chance of going anywhere.

Stats so far:
5 Boosts
117 Matches
112Numbers
1 Date
5 Flake?
1 👻
No P in V
Japanese Lay count -10

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Radical
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Joined: Sat May 30, 2020 12:02 pm
Name: Cam
Goal: Funnel/Product Building
Age: 29
Motto: Take drastic action

Wed Oct 13, 2021 7:49 am

When you gonna make the move towards Japan yourself? Next year?
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Toast
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Wed Oct 13, 2021 8:04 am

Radical wrote:
Wed Oct 13, 2021 7:49 am
When you gonna make the move towards Japan yourself? Next year?
Submitting my application for a 1 year student visa as I'm typing this. If all goes according to plan, the school accepts my application, and the country opens next year then ill be over there in April. If the country stays closed and the school accepts my visa. I'm just sitting on my hands until the travel ban is lifted and ill have a fast track as soon as it opens.
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Thu Oct 14, 2021 6:25 am

Date ghosted today. Hit her up a few hours before and no confirmation text. On to the next one ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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Thu Nov 04, 2021 6:39 am

Im not dead everyone lol. Still just doing my thing.

Boosted today cuz I was bored.

13 likes, 4 matches.
Whittled down to 10 girls messaged
1 converted to a number.
1 said "for sure yea" and never gave number - big titty asian chick who I wanted to convert the most lol. Thats how it goes. What u want doesnt happen.

I work 9-5 and weekends off now so my schedule is way more open for evening dates. No time constraint to go to work after a date at 7pm lol.
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pancakemouse
Posts: 1768 | Thanks: 1052
Joined: Sun Nov 14, 2021 4:14 pm
Goal: Master cold approach
Age: 33

Mon Nov 15, 2021 3:28 pm

13 likes, 4 matches is crazy good for a Boost.

In San Francisco I'm lucky to get two matches I actually like even from a Sunday evening boost - 90+% of the Boost likes I get are fat chicks. I generally only swipe on 6.5s or above though...
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Radical
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Mon Nov 15, 2021 3:44 pm

Damn @pancakemouse San Fran sounds horrible if that counts as a great boost there

Glad to hear you're alive @Toast
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pancakemouse
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Mon Nov 15, 2021 3:57 pm

The problem with SF is that if you have high standards it's really hard to get laid consistently. I did pretty well on Tinder 2016 and 2017, 15-20 lays a year. Then I basically had my fill and said "I'm gonna go after 7s or better". San Francisco probably has the least amount of women above a 7 than any other major US city. 7s in SF are basically treated like 8s and 9s in other major cities - unbelievable amounts of male attention.
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Dewm
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Name: Brady
Goal: Love Myself
Age: 35
Motto: Fuck Bitches Get Money
Location: New York, NY

Mon Nov 15, 2021 3:58 pm

Radical wrote:
Mon Nov 15, 2021 3:44 pm
Damn @pancakemouse San Fran sounds horrible if that counts as a great boost there

Glad to hear you're alive @Toast
Can confirm San Francisco is horrible. lol I kid but it's a fun city in it's own right.
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Sprezza
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Joined: Thu Jun 18, 2020 12:55 am
Goal: Freedom
Age: 25
Motto: Keep pushing it!
Location: Gothenburg, Sweden

Mon Nov 15, 2021 9:24 pm

pancakemouse wrote:
Mon Nov 15, 2021 3:57 pm
San Francisco probably has the least amount of women above a 7 than any other major US city
Dewm wrote:
Mon Nov 15, 2021 3:58 pm
Can confirm San Francisco is horrible
Any reason to why it is like that? SF seems like a very cool city to visit
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----Have an online independent business netting me 5000$ in total for 2022
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----Allow myself to have time for hobbies such as learning a new language, reading/listening to something interesting (0/12 months)
----Get the fuck out of Sweden during bad months (Oct-April)

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pancakemouse
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Mon Nov 15, 2021 10:02 pm

Sprezza wrote:
Mon Nov 15, 2021 9:24 pm
pancakemouse wrote:
Mon Nov 15, 2021 3:57 pm
San Francisco probably has the least amount of women above a 7 than any other major US city
Dewm wrote:
Mon Nov 15, 2021 3:58 pm
Can confirm San Francisco is horrible
Any reason to why it is like that? SF seems like a very cool city to visit
Which types of women a city attracts is all about what the city values.

San Francisco values: counterculture, tech, career, new age hippies.

Girls go to San Francisco because it values them for their brains, not their beauty. It's a good place to find intelligent, socially conscious women.

But if you want beauty: Vegas, Nashville, and Miami are all markets that value pure looks.
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