Toast's Tinder 👻Ghost Chronicles👻
- Toast
- Posts: 872 | Thanks: 1100
- Joined: Thu Feb 04, 2021 12:31 am
- Name: Devin
- Goal: Japanese Plate
- Age: 29
- Motto: The Time to Hesitate Has Ceased
- Location: Tokyo
- Contact:
Had a date set up for 7pm for drinks at a bar
Girl re scheduled for 730
at 715 she said "You're going to hate me. Something unexpected came up and i dont get paid till friday. Can we reschedule?"
I said "yah, I hate you. jk. I'll text you next week to set something up"
Fully expect her to flake/ again.
Boosted at 730-8
got like 1 like
4 matches as of writing this post
shit boost
Gunna see if a later boost nets better results like @Reservoir said.
probably will boost closer to 9-930 tomorrow
One old match converted to a number.
Date set up for saturday at 6
Need to add better pictures as well.
Funny thing was while swiping during my boost my old plates profile who ghosted came up. Would have super superliked had i not spent them all on cute asian chicks.
Stats so far:
3 boosts
74 matches
25 replied
7 numbers
1 date
1 Flake
1
Girl re scheduled for 730
at 715 she said "You're going to hate me. Something unexpected came up and i dont get paid till friday. Can we reschedule?"
I said "yah, I hate you. jk. I'll text you next week to set something up"
Fully expect her to flake/ again.
Boosted at 730-8
got like 1 like
4 matches as of writing this post
shit boost
Gunna see if a later boost nets better results like @Reservoir said.
probably will boost closer to 9-930 tomorrow
One old match converted to a number.
Date set up for saturday at 6
Need to add better pictures as well.
Funny thing was while swiping during my boost my old plates profile who ghosted came up. Would have super superliked had i not spent them all on cute asian chicks.
Stats so far:
3 boosts
74 matches
25 replied
7 numbers
1 date
1 Flake
1
- Toast
- Posts: 872 | Thanks: 1100
- Joined: Thu Feb 04, 2021 12:31 am
- Name: Devin
- Goal: Japanese Plate
- Age: 29
- Motto: The Time to Hesitate Has Ceased
- Location: Tokyo
- Contact:
Boosted today at 9-930
Boost netted 10 matches
1 like that was not fat lol
A lot better conversion then when i swiped earlier in the day at like 7 or 8. Whenever it was
3 or 4 of them conversed back
none converted to numbers
issue I'm having is that even though im setting my distance to 20miles im matching with girls 50+ miles away. Im sure its possible to get girls to drive that far. Ive done it before with cold approach, but it seems more unlikely
Date for last Friday with a cutie 21 yo flaked. Said she's "maybe free Friday" expect a
2nd girl was down for dessert tonight, but i had to try and set a date for another day as i was busy that day
@Manganiello shamed me for doing this cuz it was a cute Asian girl.
My plate keeps me sexually fulfilled so I'm no so hungry rn to flake on my friends for a girl who would most likely ghost anyway.
3rd girl I'm supposed to have a boba date on Saturday. Shall see if she's actually down to take public transit 45ish min from Oakland to meet me. I think she's a time waster cuz she wants to practice English, but ima try anyway cuz this boba spot is tasty and ya never know.
Stats so far:
4 Boosts
88 Matches
10 Numbers
1 Date
2 Flake
1
No P in V
Boost netted 10 matches
1 like that was not fat lol
A lot better conversion then when i swiped earlier in the day at like 7 or 8. Whenever it was
3 or 4 of them conversed back
none converted to numbers
issue I'm having is that even though im setting my distance to 20miles im matching with girls 50+ miles away. Im sure its possible to get girls to drive that far. Ive done it before with cold approach, but it seems more unlikely
Date for last Friday with a cutie 21 yo flaked. Said she's "maybe free Friday" expect a
2nd girl was down for dessert tonight, but i had to try and set a date for another day as i was busy that day
@Manganiello shamed me for doing this cuz it was a cute Asian girl.
My plate keeps me sexually fulfilled so I'm no so hungry rn to flake on my friends for a girl who would most likely ghost anyway.
3rd girl I'm supposed to have a boba date on Saturday. Shall see if she's actually down to take public transit 45ish min from Oakland to meet me. I think she's a time waster cuz she wants to practice English, but ima try anyway cuz this boba spot is tasty and ya never know.
Stats so far:
4 Boosts
88 Matches
10 Numbers
1 Date
2 Flake
1
No P in V
- Manganiello
- Posts: 1710 | Thanks: 2021
- Joined: Fri Jun 05, 2020 2:25 am
- Name: Brandon
- Goal: Career Launch
- Age: 33
- Motto: Embrace your Darkside
- Location: Seoul
Basically committed a federal offense.
- 50 karma points.
- Dewm
- Posts: 346 | Thanks: 140
- Joined: Mon Dec 21, 2020 6:53 am
- Name: Brady
- Goal: Love Myself
- Age: 35
- Motto: Fuck Bitches Get Money
- Location: New York, NY
any big city will always have girls using passport / global. The radius of your search and hers will overlap like a Venn diagram. That’s why they’re so far away. When I lived in SF I found it hard to meet with someone in Oakland lol. I never put my radius above 10 miles. One time I matched with a girl in San Jose and she didn’t wanna come to me so it just wasn’t gonna happen. I’m not traveling for potential pussy only for a sure thing!
Goals
Love Myself
Love Myself
- Finish my screenplay and make that movie.
- Produce a comedy show that makes me money
- Lose weight and gain muscle
- Toast
- Posts: 872 | Thanks: 1100
- Joined: Thu Feb 04, 2021 12:31 am
- Name: Devin
- Goal: Japanese Plate
- Age: 29
- Motto: The Time to Hesitate Has Ceased
- Location: Tokyo
- Contact:
Issue is im running out of chicks in that 10mile radius. So i have to extend it.Dewm wrote: ↑Thu Oct 07, 2021 9:22 pmany big city will always have girls using passport / global. The radius of your search and hers will overlap like a Venn diagram. That’s why they’re so far away. When I lived in SF I found it hard to meet with someone in Oakland lol. I never put my radius above 10 miles. One time I matched with a girl in San Jose and she didn’t wanna come to me so it just wasn’t gonna happen. I’m not traveling for potential pussy only for a sure thing!
Ive had girls come from marin and richmond for a date, but that was cold approach. And the girl from richmond just worked out here so it worked out.
Just gotta keep trying i guess. Its not impossble for a girl to come from oakland, but im 100% not leaving my 3 block radius to go and date lol.
- Dewm
- Posts: 346 | Thanks: 140
- Joined: Mon Dec 21, 2020 6:53 am
- Name: Brady
- Goal: Love Myself
- Age: 35
- Motto: Fuck Bitches Get Money
- Location: New York, NY
Haha I hear you. I was the park date guy over covid. There’s amazing parks like Dolores, McCaren, or Golden Gate yet I would be like yeah meet me at this soccer field lol.Toast wrote: ↑Thu Oct 07, 2021 9:39 pmIssue is im running out of chicks in that 10mile radius. So i have to extend it.Dewm wrote: ↑Thu Oct 07, 2021 9:22 pmany big city will always have girls using passport / global. The radius of your search and hers will overlap like a Venn diagram. That’s why they’re so far away. When I lived in SF I found it hard to meet with someone in Oakland lol. I never put my radius above 10 miles. One time I matched with a girl in San Jose and she didn’t wanna come to me so it just wasn’t gonna happen. I’m not traveling for potential pussy only for a sure thing!
Ive had girls come from marin and richmond for a date, but that was cold approach. And the girl from richmond just worked out here so it worked out.
Just gotta keep trying i guess. Its not impossble for a girl to come from oakland, but im 100% not leaving my 3 block radius to go and date lol.
The one time I broke my rule to meet a 20yrold was Redwood City. Date was awful and didn’t go anywhere I say I learned my lesson on that one but I keep making the same mistakes.
Goals
Love Myself
Love Myself
- Finish my screenplay and make that movie.
- Produce a comedy show that makes me money
- Lose weight and gain muscle
- Toast
- Posts: 872 | Thanks: 1100
- Joined: Thu Feb 04, 2021 12:31 am
- Name: Devin
- Goal: Japanese Plate
- Age: 29
- Motto: The Time to Hesitate Has Ceased
- Location: Tokyo
- Contact:
Ya i drove to Haight which is only 15 min from my house. Tried to pull to her place cuz she lived there but it didnt work out. After that its like logistics for pull over anything else.
- Toast
- Posts: 872 | Thanks: 1100
- Joined: Thu Feb 04, 2021 12:31 am
- Name: Devin
- Goal: Japanese Plate
- Age: 29
- Motto: The Time to Hesitate Has Ceased
- Location: Tokyo
- Contact:
Little update with matches.
Boost yesterday got me 12 new matches today
1 girl converted to number
accidentally converted a fat chick into a number cuz i didnt look at her profile before starting the convo cuz i was mass texting matches.
1 chick is being difficult and doesnt want to drive to meet me.
said she would come out to dance. I said there is a bar with a dance floor. 100% will tomorrow
Other chick is 1+ hr away but comes to SF on the weekends. Asked if i ever left the city. Said i did and asked to meet on Saturday. Said she would hit me up if she's in the area. Another
Stats so far:
4 Boosts
102 Matches
11 Numbers
1 Date
2 Flake
1
No P in V
Boost yesterday got me 12 new matches today
1 girl converted to number
accidentally converted a fat chick into a number cuz i didnt look at her profile before starting the convo cuz i was mass texting matches.
1 chick is being difficult and doesnt want to drive to meet me.
said she would come out to dance. I said there is a bar with a dance floor. 100% will tomorrow
Other chick is 1+ hr away but comes to SF on the weekends. Asked if i ever left the city. Said i did and asked to meet on Saturday. Said she would hit me up if she's in the area. Another
Stats so far:
4 Boosts
102 Matches
11 Numbers
1 Date
2 Flake
1
No P in V
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- Posts: 221 | Thanks: 124
- Joined: Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:01 pm
- Name: Timmy
- Goal: Lay Pipe & Make Mulla
- Age: 29
How many boost's y'all doing in a week, 5?
365 Project
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
Financial/Work
Fitness/Looks
- 1 post a day to my log: 0/365
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
- AA program (31st December)
- 10 lays w/ all new girls (31st December) (5/10)
Financial/Work
- Earn £500 p/m outside 9-5 (31st March)
- Earn £500 p/m online (31st December)
Fitness/Looks
- Bulk to 76kg w/ 2 mini-cuts (31st December)
- 2 new tattoos (31st December)
- Build a minimalist, fuck boy wardrobe (31st December)
- Toast
- Posts: 872 | Thanks: 1100
- Joined: Thu Feb 04, 2021 12:31 am
- Name: Devin
- Goal: Japanese Plate
- Age: 29
- Motto: The Time to Hesitate Has Ceased
- Location: Tokyo
- Contact:
Im only at 4 boosts so far.
Most of my matches come post boost in the next day or so. In the 30 min or so of boosting im generally only getting 5 matches. The rest come after the fact.
Im too cheap to boost 5x per week lol
- Toast
- Posts: 872 | Thanks: 1100
- Joined: Thu Feb 04, 2021 12:31 am
- Name: Devin
- Goal: Japanese Plate
- Age: 29
- Motto: The Time to Hesitate Has Ceased
- Location: Tokyo
- Contact:
Boosted today from 9-930
Matched with maybe 5 people during the 30 min of swiping.
Dates lines up for friday both ghosted
1 contact i reached out to never got back to me
1 contact set up for saturday isnt free till next week
Converted another number. Date lined up for tomorrow
she wants to grab a drink and play pool. Not my cup of tea or ideal date in the slightest. I know a bar that has a pool table so ima bring her there and just hope its full and then go for movie pull without wasting time playing pool. Might even screen her and see if shes dtf and then bounce and not play pool. Idk ill have to think about it
100% do not want to waste an hour drinking and playing pool
Another chick converted into a number. Possible date for tuesday. Will message her on Monday to get
Stats so far:
5 Boosts
111 Matches
11 Numbers
1 Date
4 Flake
1
No P in V
Matched with maybe 5 people during the 30 min of swiping.
Dates lines up for friday both ghosted
1 contact i reached out to never got back to me
1 contact set up for saturday isnt free till next week
Converted another number. Date lined up for tomorrow
she wants to grab a drink and play pool. Not my cup of tea or ideal date in the slightest. I know a bar that has a pool table so ima bring her there and just hope its full and then go for movie pull without wasting time playing pool. Might even screen her and see if shes dtf and then bounce and not play pool. Idk ill have to think about it
100% do not want to waste an hour drinking and playing pool
Another chick converted into a number. Possible date for tuesday. Will message her on Monday to get
Stats so far:
5 Boosts
111 Matches
11 Numbers
1 Date
4 Flake
1
No P in V
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- Crisis_Overcomer
- Posts: 1017 | Thanks: 720
- Joined: Sat Jul 25, 2020 7:25 pm
- Goal: Earn $5,000/month
- Age: 33
- Motto: Motion beats meditation
Ya know, you could just tell her you're not down for this idea and suggest a simple drink. The point of having a plate is that you can say no to requests you don't like, not become a beta cuckToast wrote: ↑Sat Oct 09, 2021 11:57 amshe wants to grab a drink and play pool. Not my cup of tea or ideal date in the slightest. I know a bar that has a pool table so ima bring her there and just hope its full and then go for movie pull without wasting time playing pool. Might even screen her and see if shes dtf and then bounce and not play pool. Idk ill have to think about it
100% do not want to waste an hour drinking and playing pool
- Toast
- Posts: 872 | Thanks: 1100
- Joined: Thu Feb 04, 2021 12:31 am
- Name: Devin
- Goal: Japanese Plate
- Age: 29
- Motto: The Time to Hesitate Has Ceased
- Location: Tokyo
- Contact:
Lol shit ya, good pointCrisis_Overcomer wrote: ↑Sat Oct 09, 2021 12:17 pmYa know, you could just tell her you're not down for this idea and suggest a simple drink. The point of having a plate is that you can say no to requests you don't like, not become a beta cuckToast wrote: ↑Sat Oct 09, 2021 11:57 amshe wants to grab a drink and play pool. Not my cup of tea or ideal date in the slightest. I know a bar that has a pool table so ima bring her there and just hope its full and then go for movie pull without wasting time playing pool. Might even screen her and see if shes dtf and then bounce and not play pool. Idk ill have to think about it
100% do not want to waste an hour drinking and playing pool
I will do that
- Toast
- Posts: 872 | Thanks: 1100
- Joined: Thu Feb 04, 2021 12:31 am
- Name: Devin
- Goal: Japanese Plate
- Age: 29
- Motto: The Time to Hesitate Has Ceased
- Location: Tokyo
- Contact:
Interesting turn of events with a chick from tinder. Looking for input from anybody with experience in this unique situation.
Matched with a chick. Converted to a number quite quickly. Didnt even get through the whole script and she suggested talking over whats app.
Hit her up on there. Tried to set up a date twice but she defelected.
She asked what i was looking for on the site.
I said "im looking for a girl to put a baby into. jkjk. im not looking for anything serious, but you never know"
She thought it was funny and said "shes looking for someone whos open minded and to work through her kinks."
her kink being that she is a cam show girl. She asked if i was down to give it a shot.
Ive never done anything like this before so im interested.
EDIT
Further coneversing with this chick. It seems as though she is just trying to get me to pay for a show lol
Just wondering if anybody else has encountered this situation before.
Her texts seem somewhat scripted and @Manganiello thought so as well.
She probably just farming dicks on tinder for her show but whatever.
Shes hot and this is unique so im not opposed.
Input appreciated
Matched with a chick. Converted to a number quite quickly. Didnt even get through the whole script and she suggested talking over whats app.
Hit her up on there. Tried to set up a date twice but she defelected.
She asked what i was looking for on the site.
I said "im looking for a girl to put a baby into. jkjk. im not looking for anything serious, but you never know"
She thought it was funny and said "shes looking for someone whos open minded and to work through her kinks."
her kink being that she is a cam show girl. She asked if i was down to give it a shot.
Ive never done anything like this before so im interested.
EDIT
Further coneversing with this chick. It seems as though she is just trying to get me to pay for a show lol
Just wondering if anybody else has encountered this situation before.
Her texts seem somewhat scripted and @Manganiello thought so as well.
She probably just farming dicks on tinder for her show but whatever.
Shes hot and this is unique so im not opposed.
Input appreciated
- Dewm
- Posts: 346 | Thanks: 140
- Joined: Mon Dec 21, 2020 6:53 am
- Name: Brady
- Goal: Love Myself
- Age: 35
- Motto: Fuck Bitches Get Money
- Location: New York, NY
Yeah I get cam girl matches all the time they only farm tinder to get dudes to pay for their cam site they never ever not once in a million years meet the dudes. They're just looking for orbitters.
Goals
Love Myself
Love Myself
- Finish my screenplay and make that movie.
- Produce a comedy show that makes me money
- Lose weight and gain muscle