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ouli126
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Mon Sep 27, 2021 7:08 am

Hello ,

My name is Max , 35M from Paris ,France.
First, I would like to thank everyone on this forum (which i have read a lot) and apoligize for my english .

Never had great results on apps , I used to be on tinder once but I screwed my elo by liking every women and my picture was horrible (fat , not groomed at all etc).
So , one day , I have deleted my tinder account in order to reset my elo and improving myself during the off tinder period.

Now , I improved a lot thanks to fitness and good books .
I have paid a professional photographer (pictures with white t-shirt and bordeau shirt),not particularly happy with the result .
I have made a few more during my 2 weeks vacation.

https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/ ... sp=sharing

Feel free to give me advices on which one are the best ones or idea for new ones, although I have to admit that I struggle to get a good bio but i am working on that.

Thanks for your help !
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Wed Sep 29, 2021 4:50 pm

Hello ,

for now , I started my bumble account with the pictures that i have renamed actual old profile 1.2.3.4 on the drivedoc.
I wonder if this is the best choice.

Thanks
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Welcome Max! Good job on the weight loss. Paris must be good for dating, some wonderful women there I bet. What do you think?

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Wed Sep 29, 2021 5:07 pm

Hello ,

From my small experience , Parisian girls are often on a defensive stance when it comes to cold approach but my akwardness might be the reason .
Physicaly speaking , of course they are beautiful but don't fall in the cliché , there are ugly people everywhere ;D
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Mon Oct 18, 2021 6:49 am

first feedback :

After 2 weeks using tinder and 2 other app :
boost used on tinder : 2
likes received : 3
girl that I liked : 2
Message answered (using template on site translated in french ) : 0
other app 1 : 1 match with a girl i dont really like but trained to chat with her .
other app 2 : 1 match but 0 answer

I guess my picture are still bad , to me they seem either staged or I give the feeling to be unconfortable in front of a camera, a friend told me to drink 2/3 beers before shooting to be at ease .
i am not giving up lol !
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Thu Oct 21, 2021 4:49 am

There are some solid pictures in there. Which ones are you using for your profile right now?

Receiving three likes in two weeks is horrible. It might be because you're not swiping so Tinder deprioritizes your profile (you said you swiped on a total of two girls).
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Thu Oct 21, 2021 3:42 pm

hello ,

Thanks for the feedback , on tinder i am using picture 1/2/3 (number on the googledrive) .
I have tinder gold so i am not swiping much but i used 3 boost .

to have matches with cuties to (just) have fun i would like to use a shirtless picture but i have no clue which one would be good enough.

match number update => 6
but still no answer

thanks again for the feedback.
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Thu Oct 21, 2021 3:55 pm

12 is a really good picture, and bitches love dogs. I'd use that as your first pic. It looks like the sole of your shoe is falling apart, though, so I'd try to crop that out.

I would use 15 next, then some combination of 16 and/or 23.

You would benefit from some edgy necklaces/rings/bracelets.

Even with Tinder Gold, you get 5 Superlikes a day, so you should be using those everyday. Inevitably that will result in swiping right and left on some girls in between the ones you choose to Superlike, which should be sufficient for Tinder's algorithm. I also heard that if you always swipe right, Tinder hides your profile, but idk if that's true.
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Fri Oct 22, 2021 9:59 pm

ouli126 wrote:
Mon Sep 27, 2021 7:08 am
a friend told me to drink 2/3 beers before shooting to be at ease .
I wouldn’t do this. Nobody but Henry Cavill can pull off still being sexy while drunk. Plus the alcohol relaxes the muscles in your face making it droop causing you to look old and saggy.

Try instead maybe one of the high five drills from the AA program to put you in a good mood. When you are happy you’ll be way more relaxed.
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Fri Oct 22, 2021 10:46 pm

ouli126 wrote:
Mon Oct 18, 2021 6:49 am
first feedback :

After 2 weeks using tinder and 2 other app :
boost used on tinder : 2
likes received : 3
girl that I liked : 2
Message answered (using template on site translated in french ) : 0
other app 1 : 1 match with a girl i dont really like but trained to chat with her .
other app 2 : 1 match but 0 answer

I guess my picture are still bad , to me they seem either staged or I give the feeling to be unconfortable in front of a camera, a friend told me to drink 2/3 beers before shooting to be at ease .
i am not giving up lol !
Bonjour! C'est bien de voir plus gens Français. Je ne suis pas Français, mais j'aime la culture et la langue.

Félicitations de ta perte de poids!

La quantité de boosts c'est petit pour deux semaines. Et aussi, ce n'est pas importante de surveiller les statistiques, ratios etc. Juste utilizer la quantité de boosts, swipes etc. nécessaire d'avoir les matches, dates, fwb etc. Et tous les temps améliores tes photos.

Mon Français n'est pas parfait, j'espère que j'ai écrit correctement.

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Sat Oct 23, 2021 4:41 am

Hello ,

Thanks for the feedback !
Your french seems to be far better than my english , thanks for the effort !

I'll try to improve my pictures when I can .
i'll shoot a few tonight when ill go out with friends to have a "social picture" , i am alone on all the picture and i have read that a group shot might add value .

Also i have a question with the "hello , I am ___ , Watcha up to?" , a female friend told me that from the girl standing point , almost all men are opening with a classic introduction like that one .She told me that i should make cold read from pictures instead and open with that . Not saying the guide is wrong but I wonder if parisian girls are not too sophisticated for a standard opener like this one (still no word from any matches at this point).

no new match at this point.
never loose my hopes , I keep going on !
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She told me that i should make cold read from pictures instead and open with that
You're not going to get laid from a few matches. You're going to get laid once your pics are good enough to get hundreds of matches, and at that point you won't have time for unique openers.
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Sat Oct 23, 2021 4:53 am

ok ,

i'll prioritize improving my pictures then and stick to the template when i'll get more matches.

Thanks for the suport :)
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ouli126 wrote:
Sat Oct 23, 2021 4:41 am
Hello ,

Thanks for the feedback !
Your french seems to be far better than my english , thanks for the effort !

I'll try to improve my pictures when I can .
i'll shoot a few tonight when ill go out with friends to have a "social picture" , i am alone on all the picture and i have read that a group shot might add value .

Also i have a question with the "hello , I am ___ , Watcha up to?" , a female friend told me that from the girl standing point , almost all men are opening with a classic introduction like that one .She told me that i should make cold read from pictures instead and open with that . Not saying the guide is wrong but I wonder if parisian girls are not too sophisticated for a standard opener like this one (still no word from any matches at this point).

no new match at this point.
never loose my hopes , I keep going on !
Merci! D'être honnête, j'utilise une traducteur pour la vocabulaire que je ne souviens pas.

Pour les conseils de t'amie, c'est importante seulement ce à quoi les filles réagissent. La majorité des filles dit que c'est important de écrit quelque chose drôle, ou personnalisé, mais le même quantité des filles vont répondre à une message template en tant que une message personnalisé.

C'est plus effort d'écrire messages personnalisés, et tu gaspille de l'énergie.

Andy écrit de cette sujet, mais je ne souvient pas l'article ou podcast.
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