Does Anyone Have Experience Being a Sub?

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Wed Sep 30, 2020 2:30 pm

Does Anyone Have Experience Being a Sub?

Some really cute chick matched with me on Tinder. When we moved on to chat in a different app, she upfront told me she wants a submissive guy, because that's what gives her pussy the tingles. So if anyone has any experience with that, I'd love some insight.
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Wed Sep 30, 2020 3:40 pm

Go in with no experience and try it

She will lead for the most part. If you dont like anything you dont have to do it

My experience with the couple of dominant chicks ive had has not been that great though. The sex was fine but its not my thing and the girls were a bit dickish
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Wed Sep 30, 2020 4:30 pm

Zero experience but I think Andy had met a few girls like that. However when he boinked them, they loved being submissive and it was a "wtf" moment for him.

Do you really want the lay that much though?
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Wed Sep 30, 2020 4:45 pm

No experience being a sub, but I do have switch tendencies if I'm with a girl who's into that (now is the time lol). Been fantasizing about being drowned lately. I haven't had sex with a woman who's full into being dominant, though. Seems different.

I'd say just go check it out and play with it, and if you have doubts, read this:

When I was with my ex girlfriend in the beginning, *she* was the one who initiated "beat me the fuck up" motif into our relationship. I was terrified for couple weeks after, I remember like it was yesterday. That was my first BDSM experience (and so was hers), and it was way over the top, but what the hell we were kids really. That event though paved road to other great experiences that maybe would not have happened, and those other experiences shaped how I like and understand sex.

Btw my ex gf was true sub, but I never understood her (or any woman's) drive to be submissive until I've started getting those urges with a girl who is curious about switching it up. So think of it this way: sexuality is fun, go play with it, and the more you play and let go, the more you'll understand not only yourself but also the other person, and help yourself and the other, and you'll have even more fun.

PS.: Can't wait to choke on water for breath. lol
PPS.: I kinda miss the super submissive vibe as well tho. The grass is so vividly green on the other side like someone's turned gamma to 200% it hurts my eyes.

Question: Do women lose attraction towards men who are into being sub? Assuming she's into it as well, will that reduce her attraction to me seeing me as sub sometimes? /unnecessarilyafraid
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Wed Sep 30, 2020 9:04 pm

Ive fucked quite a few girls like that. And I've taught a few girls to be dominant, including Imogen and a few others.

A bigger question is: are you at a point where you can handle being submissive? Or is it something best left for when you have stronger boundaries? Are you at a point where you can tell the difference between dominance and abuse? Will being submissive bring out your "nice guy" tendencies (which you have), and lead to you just being a doormat for this woman? Should you be playing with dominance/submission/BDSM when you've only had sex once?

Ask yourself these questions first.
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Thu Oct 01, 2020 1:33 am

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Wed Sep 30, 2020 9:04 pm
A bigger question is: are you at a point where you can handle being submissive? Or is it something best left for when you have stronger boundaries? Are you at a point where you can tell the difference between dominance and abuse? Will being submissive bring out your "nice guy" tendencies (which you have), and lead to you just being a doormat for this woman? Should you be playing with dominance/submission/BDSM when you've only had sex once?
What if I just wanted to try it out, even if I had sex just a few times (not once) so far?
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Why are you asking me?

You're a big boy, you need to ask yourself these questions.
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Thu Oct 01, 2020 2:54 am

Fuck it. I'm going for it then. If she's open to meeting up right away, I'll report back here.
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Mon Aug 30, 2021 5:30 pm

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Thu Oct 01, 2020 2:54 am
Fuck it. I'm going for it then. If she's open to meeting up right away, I'll report back here.
Please do, I'm eager to know your experience.
Been talking to this girl in fetlife who is a friend of an ex sub of mine and is hot, but she is a switch and told me she would be the the one shibaring my ass lol.
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Mon Aug 30, 2021 6:20 pm

@Lema hey man. This was a long time ago. Back then she was pretty demanding to me that I couldn't meet up with her on my terms. Not to mention, moving around back then was pretty tough, so it was just not meant to be.
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Mon Aug 30, 2021 9:39 pm

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@Lema hey man. This was a long time ago. Back then she was pretty demanding to me that I couldn't meet up with her on my terms. Not to mention, moving around back then was pretty tough, so it was just not meant to be.
Thanks for the answer man, sorry I didn't realize this was some time ago.
Funny, just matched with a girl on Bumble asking me if I was a Dom, she says she is a switch but could play bottom if we have a good chat lol.
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Tue Aug 31, 2021 4:43 pm

Haha go for it. You should make a log & tell us about it!
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