[Out of my chest] I like milfs... Is it bad?

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Lonely_Rottweiler
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Tue Jan 04, 2022 9:40 am

So here's my story, when I was exposed to my first nudie magazine, which led to my crippling porn addiction that I still have to purge out of my system, I have been attracted to older women, I always thought that it was very ambitious of me to like them, being raised on a religious household I was told to "not commit adultery". So I developed a system where I would try to look at their fingers for rings before staring at their boobs, but I'd still feel bad after that (I debated with myself if I liked boobs or milfs but it was definitely milfs).

Last year, I was feeling down and just burnt out, I decided to see a masseuse to unwind and just hopefully feel happy again for maybe only a brief period, Her name is Eliz, she is forty years old, has three children, she is beautiful and is petite but still curvy on the hips and her clothes would fit her body tightly, our conversations were the best I had in years and we both lost track of the time... I remember telling her that if I wanted to lose my virginity I would be comfortable doing it with her, she laughed thinking that I was joking, but told me that we would discuss it the next time we went out.

So that next time, I was feeling suicidal because of my past relationship that ended two years ago... It was pathetic of me to think that my ex and I would still be friends so she decided to warn me that she will take legal action... being a sensitive basterd, I took that personally. I burned the bridges with her and our common friends... I was left with only suicidal thoughts and a hobby knife.

since I didn't have a friend to hang out with at that time to talk about this and to not kill myself at the holidays. I called Eliz to just bawl and vent out... then we talked about the sex... She sees it as a form of massage for the right price (Please don't judge me)... So I went for it. I lost my Virginity to Eliz... (Please don't tell my parents), She gave me a Massage and she told me to strip when we were warmed up I kissed her and tried every position I could think of. It was a bit awkward because I bought those performance condoms that I didn't know at that time had this numbing lube applied on my penis, I made her orgasm twice which felt like an amazing achievement... I still had to remove that numbing lube on my penis before finishing though...

I didn't feel suicidal as before. Eliz and I still chat, and I can't wait to see her again... I feel guilty about having to pay her for sex... Maybe I'll try to have an FWB with someone like her that I don't have to pay and play with their emotions to have sex (Any advice on seducing women that are older than me, guys?), Anyways this was on my chest for a long time.

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Tue Jan 04, 2022 1:19 pm

Just do what feels right for you. You can reach a point of having sex with milfs/cougars without paying them. The site and forum are dedicated almost 99% to the noble cause of having sex with women so you're in the right place.

As far as more specific advice: hit on 100 older women by following a system. You're going to have sex with 0-1 (or more, shit's random) of them. From there, rinse and repeat. The process is simple but far from easy. Only thing preventing you from hitting your goals is your ego.
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Tue Jan 04, 2022 3:03 pm

Thanks for the reply Crisis_Overcomer, another question, older women probably have a job, a proper circle of friends, and guys around them, What can I do to be more interesting so that I won't be a social leech when they enter an FWB with me?
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Tue Jan 04, 2022 3:32 pm

Problem is it's harder to find older women into younger men. For instance, on dating apps, girls over 22-23 rarely show interest in me. I don't think it's bad, as long as you're two consenting adults, I don't see the issue?
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Tue Jan 04, 2022 3:41 pm

Lonely_Rottweiler wrote:
Tue Jan 04, 2022 3:03 pm
Thanks for the reply Crisis_Overcomer, another question, older women probably have a job, a proper circle of friends, and guys around them, What can I do to be more interesting so that I won't be a social leech when they enter an FWB with me?
I would get rid of this focus on MILFs. When you're just starting out, you won't be able to choose the women that you get. Sorry, that's just how it is.

Right now, just focus on increasing your value so that you will be attractive to women in general.

Lift weights. Fix your style. Beard. Grooming. Tonality. Body language. Get nice photos taken and sign up for the apps.

THEN, go on dates with as many girls as you can, regardless of age. Some of them will be older, some won't.
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Sat Jan 22, 2022 2:40 pm

Lonely_Rottweiler wrote:
Tue Jan 04, 2022 3:03 pm
older women probably have a job, a proper circle of friends, and guys around them, What can I do to be more interesting so that I won't be a social leech when they enter an FWB with me?
Take this with a grain of salt because I never fucked older women (not into MILFs). But if you want to be more of value to older women as FWBs, you're competing (?) against older dudes with more experience & money. So what do they usually not have? More often than not these older dudes may have let their health go. My guess is for you to get jacked if you wanna attract these MILFs.

Also, ditto what @pancakemouse says. I'm gonna ditch girls the better part of this year to improve my looks & money, so always find ways to better yourself as a man.
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Tue Jan 04, 2022 9:40 am
since I didn't have a friend to hang out with at that time to talk about this and to not kill myself at the holidays.
Nonsense. I just read you're from the Philippines. I'm also from the Philippines, grew up in a very hardcore Christian conservative upbringing, lost my virginity around your age, and looked like a fat nerd when I joined these forums. I joined these forums to fuck bitches, be a better man, and also get over my very bad depressive thoughts, too. Now, I lost 7 kg, fucked more than 3 girls during the pandemic, & have a freelance business.

Feel free to DM me, I'd be happy to be your friend. Our country is also becoming so woke & feminized that there's not much healthy masculine spaces to be in & grow, & we men need to band together as much as possible.
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Fri Jun 03, 2022 10:52 am

Brothers

Okay, update time

I realized that MILFs aren't what they look like in real life. Porn really messed up my expectations of women, and I, without a clue about what a relationship looks like, just settled on MILFs, I would still like to meet older women as I vibe with them better than people my age, but I need to learn that they aren't like the pornstars I watch because they aren't the sex-deprived women that I thought they are
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Fri Jun 03, 2022 12:16 pm

If you want to watch porn that is slightly more realistic, consider watching amateur porn. It's more authentic.

Quitting porn would be even better though.
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Lay count: 7
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Milestones/Goals:
- Get 3 lays this year (COMPLETED)
- Plate (COMPLETED)
- Two plates simultaneously
- Three plates simultaneously
- Do first approach
- Threesome with two girls
- 135x5 bench (currently 120x5)
- 185x5 squat (currently 155x5)
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Fri Jun 03, 2022 12:47 pm

Or stop watching porn completely, it's even a better option... I know, easier said than done, but that is the best choice.

BTW, about your preference for MILFs, nothing wrong with that. If you vibe with older women and you want to date them so be it !
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Lord Rey wrote:
Fri Jun 03, 2022 12:47 pm
Or stop watching porn completely, it's even a better option... I know, easier said than done, but that is the best choice.
Squilliam wrote:
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Quitting porn would be even better though.
Been working on that for the longest time, Like, It is only this year I can go to sleep without edging. So baby steps.
Lord Rey wrote:
Fri Jun 03, 2022 12:47 pm
BTW, about your preference for MILFs, nothing wrong with that. If you vibe with older women and you want to date them so be it !
True! but I like to get to know women my age as well because I feel like I barely scratched the surface of socializing, and I don't know if anyone has expirience on this, but do older women date and have sex casually?
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Fri Jun 03, 2022 4:45 pm

Lonely_Rottweiler wrote:
Fri Jun 03, 2022 3:40 pm
True! but I like to get to know women my age as well because I feel like I barely scratched the surface of socializing, and I don't know if anyone has expirience on this, but do older women date and have sex casually?
I'm 22 and haven't dated girls older than their mid 20s so take this with a grain of salt. I would think younger girls are generally more open to casual sex, although there are plenty of older women into that too. The thing is, girls in their 30s are more likely to want to settle down and be serious, rather than fuck around.
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- Two plates simultaneously
- Three plates simultaneously
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- 135x5 bench (currently 120x5)
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Fri Jun 03, 2022 5:22 pm

You're 24 years old. If you like MILFs and they know your age then it's clear as day that you are not going to be their next boyfriend/husband. They know the deal.

I used to bang tons of older women. It was great. They're straightforward and are not jealous at all (in my experience so far). A lot of them actually give me advice on things going on in my life and then they bang me. I'd just up my age on dating apps and would match and go from there.
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PinchePendejo wrote:
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I'd just up my age on dating apps and would match and go from there.
Do you mean straight up lying, or putting your real age in your bio to game the system?
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Lay count: 7
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Milestones/Goals:
- Get 3 lays this year (COMPLETED)
- Plate (COMPLETED)
- Two plates simultaneously
- Three plates simultaneously
- Do first approach
- Threesome with two girls
- 135x5 bench (currently 120x5)
- 185x5 squat (currently 155x5)
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Squilliam wrote:
Fri Jun 03, 2022 6:04 pm
PinchePendejo wrote:
Fri Jun 03, 2022 5:22 pm
I'd just up my age on dating apps and would match and go from there.
Do you mean straight up lying, or putting your real age in your bio to game the system?
On bumble I’d put my age in the 40s and tell my matches my real age during conversation. If I put my real age in my bio on bumble then the app would automatically change my age for me. On tinder I would do the same, but put my real age in my bio. For some reason tinder didn’t care.
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