The IronWill Project: Year 3 of MAC DADDY: Realising My Greatness (Moving On: Off To The Sun?!)

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Fri Jan 14, 2022 8:42 pm

How was the girl you make out with ? Physically I mean
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Fri Jan 14, 2022 8:48 pm

Outside appearance, pretty fat.

Inside, absolutely beautiful.

She was so sweet, kind, and I felt amazing being near her.

That day was precious and you know how hard I grind every damn day of my life.

That day was a day that was truly worth it. Walking around London holding her hand, man, I would go through all that suffering and hell again for that experience with a smile on my face.....I was filled with joy and pride.

It will come together for me bro, but looks are so important and it is painful that you can only go so fast. It takes so long.

But we must find a way.

Since uploading content (wrapped that up at 7pm) I've worked for 2hrs on the dating apps. Going to put in another 30 mins work and then do copywriting for 1hr. Then bed.

Tomorrow, date with the girl I am talking about above, hanging with the bros, and off to the clubs to see if I can make anything happen.

MAC
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Fri Jan 14, 2022 8:58 pm

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Outside appearance, pretty fat.

Inside, absolutely beautiful.

She was so sweet, kind, and I felt amazing being near her.

That day was precious and you know how hard I grind every damn day of my life.

That day was a day that was truly worth it. Walking around London holding her hand, man, I would go through all that suffering and hell again for that experience with a smile on my face.....I was filled with joy and pride.

It will come together for me bro, but looks are so important and it is painful that you can only go so fast. It takes so long.

But we must find a way.

Since uploading content (wrapped that up at 7pm) I've worked for 2hrs on the dating apps. Going to put in another 30 mins work and then do copywriting for 1hr. Then bed.

Tomorrow, date with the girl I am talking about above, hanging with the bros, and off to the clubs to see if I can make anything happen.

MAC
Everything good man, you should be fucking proud. Success is exponential, don't forget. When we'll have figured it out, it's gonna be a hell of a ride like the legend of the forum
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Sat Jan 15, 2022 8:45 am

YE BUDDY

We will make it bro mark my words, you do not understand how fucked my head is if I have a goal I am not able to stop I do not understand why God made me like this LOL

Anyway bros lets fucking hustle

Got up feeling good

Few pretty ladies starting the chat with MAC on Bumble. And now, as Manga and Crisis say, they GHOST

(lol)

Off to see girl from date #9, let's call her Danish girl, in about an hour

Hanging with her for a few hours just enjoying life. And then coming home, 2 hrs copywriting hustle, and then hanging with the bros, Timmy, Matt and Carl having dinner and sisha.

And then I'll ask the homies if they want to do a bit of bar hopping for a few hrs. Even just 2hrs will help us IMO.

Affirmations, done. Read 1 page of the Daily Stoic. Now going to do some core work. Dermapen. Quick bit and we're off to the races.

Will listen to GLL's audios on the AA program on my journey for some self dev maxxing.

I was looking solid in the mirror muscle wise today. Gains are coming. Progress pics coming. My program has me training for one more week, and then taking 2 weeks off! In those two weeks, I will still do cardio.

Wishing my bros out there a productive weekend. Do not back off 1 inch, trench war fare mentality, take every fucking foot of ground you can from the enemy.

KEEP HAMMERING

UNTIL WE BECOME SUCCESSFUL, WE GRIND

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Sat Jan 15, 2022 8:54 am

Lady who flaked for date #10 yesterday texted me at night asking to talk on the phone, I told her it's all good and we'll talk over the weekend. She is only in London one weekend a month. She is cool with casual. She ain't easy on the eye, but she isn't obese which is positive. One of the metrics I do have is as I go through hardcore self improvement, the ladies have to get progressively less fat - this was Timmy's strategic advise btw lol

I will call her on Sunday or something build rapport and go for a drink with her when she' back in a few weeks.

10 lays in 2022, starting from 0, is a serious task.

You got a goal stick to it, nobody else is gonna do it for you!

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Sat Jan 15, 2022 5:11 pm

Back from 2nd date with Danish girl. She's great, and really fun to be around. Had a coffee in Spitalfields market, went for a quick bite in same market, and then hung out in Brixton and had a hot chocolate in a quirky spot in Brick Lane. We made out twice in diff spots, just briefly. But it was nice, and she did look at me with a crazy look in her eye after I'd get done kissing her.....god damn girl....I needed that

Was interesting with her today, she was flitier, and mentioned a few sexual things which gave me the impression she was want to explore things sexually. I was talking about the outdoors, as in hiking, and she mentioned that she thinks it's really nice "doing certain things" in a tent on the earth. She did also mention that she likes the idea of coming off as conservative, and she is with most people, but with the right person, she likes to explore different things. On our first date, she did ask me if I had any kinks, and like a twat I said "No I'm a very vanilla boy" which she laughed about. Interesting developments with having this gal in my life.

I'll ask her for a drink in the week, which may be tricky as she does work until late and week days aren't usually great for her. But she does like me and she is likely to be down. If I can get her down here in the week for a few drinks in the evening, maybe if she just comes to see me after work. Think we do need to escalate things physically - can try to bring her back to mine and get into it.

It'll be my legit first time (lol) as the only other time was the high class escort, which was beyond awkward. I expect this will also be awkward, but if I can see her a tonne and we smash regularly, that will do a lot for my life and it's direction.

Hustling on the dating apps now. And then we're going for a meal and some hookah. Then, going out with the boys for a few drinks. They may be out later than me, as they don't approach in the day their focus is more towards the night.

MAC
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Sat Jan 15, 2022 6:59 pm

Good stuff MAC. I'm happy to see you just enjoying yourself hanging out with a woman. By all means keep moving toward sex, but I think just having positive experiences with a woman will really help heal that past trauma you have with women
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Sat Jan 15, 2022 7:05 pm

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It'll be my legit first time (lol) as the only other time was the high class escort, which was beyond awkward. I expect this will also be awkward, but if I can see her a tonne and we smash regularly, that will do a lot for my life and it's direction.
Yeah, it probably will be. I've had sex a grand total of 3 times, and I am pretty confident that my sexual ability is quite comparable to yours.

Having sex a few times, or once with an escort, you're basically gonna be a virgin in terms of your ability. But then again, you have the knowledge of some (albeit minimal) experience. I'd say remember what Andy said, "My job is just to have fun", that's literally it. Sex is supposed to be fun, if you have fun, then mission accomplished.

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Sat Jan 15, 2022 7:56 pm

MAAAAC is maxxing out
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Sat Jan 15, 2022 10:26 pm

YESSSSSSS Just as I thought. Mac is indeed killing it just as I knew he was. Just imagine 1 year ago from now going on a date with this Danish chick. Maybe you wouldn't have believed the progress you made? And yes, there is nothing better than when cute girls give you 'that look.' It can be very healing and therapeutic.
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Sun Jan 16, 2022 12:06 pm

Thank you brothers for your ongoing support in my journey, I truly appreciate it and these messages are invaluable. It does a lot for your psyche and as each of you know, ever win you yourselves have fills me with joy. I thrive with other people and community. And I have the upmost respect for men with goals who are working hard to improve. Support from you means a lot to me.

Date with Danish girl had me feeling great. Just great. I am learning a lot about women, and also, some pretty shitty stuff about guys. This girl is a good person, she treats me well, we split everything, she is very conscientious, I like the way she touches and strokes me etc. Feels good mayne. Wounded warriors get off on this shit, so ladies need to bring these vibes. She does sometimes attract proper weirdos. She says a deliveroo driver came to see her last year to drop off her order, and the first thing he said when he saw her was "I like your face" and then asked for her number. She told him she has a boyfriend, but the deliveroo guy told her, well your bf isn't here, and I don't mind...she then told him they are going to be married so she is sorry but she can't. Apparently, the dude was creepy as fuck and she just wanted him to GTFO. Anyway, she was just visiting London at the time. She came back a year later - and last week, she ordered on deliveroo again.

SAME DRIVER. He hadn't seen her in a fucking year, but he remembered all her details, asked her where her boyfriend is, if they got married, all that shit, how this and that was. He asked for her number again. She fobbed him off.

The average dude in 2022 is a fucking degenerate man. Women can also be a bit gross in our day and age and finding good ones to spend time with is challenging, But men are NO BETTER.

I am working on healing my pain from the past, I am going to find someone to work with and am going to actually put time aside each week to actively work in healing past trauma. But I am still a woman lover despite my harsh experiences. And it pains me to hear that girls I like go through this shit.

We need to level the fuck up as men, become elite tier gods, jacked to the hilt, amazing style, health, fitness, social skills and confidence, with serious money in the bank - and then we lock one up for ourselves and have a happy life together. That is how we as individuals can make an incredible contribution to the world. Through living a life of excellence and ensuring those you love thrive in life.

I could whine about my past, I could get stuck in that and take the Blackpill, and then I would have failed in my mission as a man. I wrote about this in my life authoring post on the 1st page.

But to me, the greatest glory is taking the burden you carry, playing the hand you are dealt, and not letting ANYTHING make you become a bad person., embittered person.

If people smile when they see you, your friends laugh when you're around them, and every person you interact with is left with the impression you are solid and together as a human being, this is the impetus that turns the wheel of civilisation. And I will push that wheel onwards, no matter what.

For so many years I just wanted to be like the other men I saw, they were walking around interesting cities with women, they were dressed well, smelled good, looked interesting, charismatic and confident. And they had women who loved them. When I would wake up hungover as fuck on a Sunday morning, I would scroll through these guys Instagram and just imagine what it would be like to be them. Their physique, their health and wellness game, just everything about them.

I am moving my life closer and closer to this, and there is nothing but pride I feel in myself. It is a feeling that stays with you.

I hung out with the bros last night after my date. We had a proper catch up and status update on our goals. I led the project planning meeting and got a status update on all KPIs. I cringed internally at how quickly I go into project manager mode. But the guys kind of are cool with it LOL. Anyway, we are are clear about our goals and we are working hard.

Carl, Timmy and myself were going to head out to the local venues, but Carl and I ended up just hanging out at my flat and having a few drinks and just shooting the breeze.

Nightgame isn't really my thing. I want to go down the cold approach and online dating route. And may explore other avenues also. But being out super late in the clubs just screws up my day the next day and at 30, IMO it can really age you and screw with your hormones.

Plus I legit do not really want one night stands, I need something on going man.....

So I was happy to catch up with my friends.

Feeling good this morning.

Women are SO IMPORTANT. They do not understand the power they have over a man, and how much they can either heal or damage our psyches. The Bastard and I talked about this on the phone yesterday and he gave me some exceptional insight. A woman being interested in you and showing you kindness, decency, and being vulnerable with you, expressing her truth, man, it can lift up the entire structure of your being. Sorry, but it can.

I was without that for 30 years. And I am now having to go through a trauma healing process because of it! This however will heal me and unlock my ability to properly cold approach, so I will keep cold approaching every day, but I will keep it at a lighter dose and I will put a plan in place for healing past trauma. Andy will do a bit of coaching with me, which will help kick the process of moving forwards off.

I will overcome this like I did many things already. Like I lost the weight, like I started gaining muscle, like I improved style, like I began going on dates and learning to connect and build relationships with women. I will overcome this no problem, trust me.

Victory will come.

Until then.....we work.

THE PHOENIX PROJECT WEEK 9

SUN 16/01/2022

Actions
(1) Core
(2) Meal prep
(3) Content: shoot 5 videos
(4) Dermapen
(5) Breathwork: 2 x 45mins
(6) Read Letting Go
(7) Research healing past trauma

KEEP HAMMERING,
MAC
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Sun Jan 16, 2022 7:53 pm

Working and working away. Did my weekly shop, cleaned the flat, hustled on the dating apps, and shot 3 YouTube videos. I can only upload vlogs here, but the following video topics were shot today

-The Longterm Effects of the Blackpill
-Living In The Void: The Lack of Men's Groups and Peer to Peer Support in 2022
-Female Dating Strategy: Bad Faith, Distorted Consciousness, and Embitterment (Female Incels)

Just shooting my mouth as per.

(1) Core (DONE)
(2) Meal prep (FAIL, move to tomorrow)
(3) Content: shoot 5 videos (partially DONE, shot 3, battery died, will shoot 2 more tomorrow)
(4) Dermapen (In process)
(5) Breathwork: 2 x 45mins (Fail)
(6) Read Letting Go (In process)
(7) Research healing past trauma (In process)

Notes:

Working hard on the dating apps, 2 numbers: 1 petite looking Spanish chick. Asked her for a drink on Tuesday, she says she might, and she'll let me know tomorrow. We'll see. I'm not gonna hold my breath lol. But she is a good texter, and I get the feeling she is a good girl. Respect her decision either way. The other is a Chinese lady who says she would meet me for a coffee. I'd be stoked to. We'll see

Otherwise, matched with a lovely girl on Bumble, 35, 5 ft 11, and has a lovely big butt. She is a terrible texter, gives short and crappy replies. I just went to shoot my shot and asked her for a drink. She said she doesn't vibe with casual, but she would be down to meet me on a purely platonic basis. I agreed, and on WhatsApp, she is a slightly better texter. I pushed to see if I could get her to meet me this week, as I am away on the weekend. No dice. She said she'd be up to meet me this weekend. I told her it'd have to be next weekend. I'll push to meet her next weekend.

It is very unlikely anything will happen between us, as she is clear that she would only see me on a platonic basis. And that's fine. But, she does seem interesting as a person and the more women I can meet, the better it is for my mind and my overall process. Shit, I am clear in the script I use that I want something casual but ongoing, so just having more girls I can see on an ongoing basis will be realllllllly fucking awesome for me man.

Back at it tomorrow.

Will have to hold off AA program for a day or two as Andy has suggested it may be wise for me raise my issues in the weekly coaching call before I get back into the program. I think I could do like 45mins of just the time drills while deeply letting go and figuring out how I can begin to reduce my deep resistance and internalised emotional responses.

Where there is a will, there is a way. If you want it bad enough you can damn near bring the moon down from the stars. And I want success BAD. So I am sure I will find a way to be able to start approaching women every day without getting really overwhelmed and stuck badly in my deep and intense emotions.

Just being able to approach freely will be success. I don't care if any of the girls ever are interested in me. I have so much work to do on myself right now it's not even funny.

SMV is king and before you're totally maxed out, it is a grinder of an existence where every day is pure hustle.

But for the right girl, for a relationship where we're crazy about each other and are both on our way to elite lives, I would be willing to grind myself into a fine powder a million times over.

For the right girl, it will have all been worth it. I know it will come.

MAC
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Sun Jan 16, 2022 8:29 pm

MakingAComeback wrote:
Sun Jan 16, 2022 7:53 pm
SMV is king and before you're totally maxed out, it is a grinder of an existence where every day is pure hustle.
Hah. It really does seem like in today's culture there 99% of the rewards come after crossing the finish line.
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Sun Jan 16, 2022 7:53 pm
think I could do like 45mins of just the time drills while deeply letting go and figuring out how I can begin to reduce my deep resistance and internalised emotional responses.
Just my 2c. the SRA cycle applies to everything. Based on what you wrote, the stress you were applying was very obviously far in excess of what you could recover from before the next session. Sometimes you need to titrate the dose way below what your ego wants to admit. When I decided I was going to start walking everyday, I got so much foot/calf pain/soreness that I realized I literally wasn't capable of walking 6 blocks on a daily basis to start. We're talking about fucking walking, something everyone can do. Talk about humbling. I think your plan is good, and it seems like you have things you need to work through as well. Don't be ashamed to start smaller.
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Zug wrote:
Sun Jan 16, 2022 8:29 pm
MakingAComeback wrote:
Sun Jan 16, 2022 7:53 pm
SMV is king and before you're totally maxed out, it is a grinder of an existence where every day is pure hustle.
Hah. It really does seem like in today's culture there 99% of the rewards come after crossing the finish line.
MakingAComeback wrote:
Sun Jan 16, 2022 7:53 pm
think I could do like 45mins of just the time drills while deeply letting go and figuring out how I can begin to reduce my deep resistance and internalised emotional responses.
Just my 2c. the SRA cycle applies to everything. Based on what you wrote, the stress you were applying was very obviously far in excess of what you could recover from before the next session. Sometimes you need to titrate the dose way below what your ego wants to admit. When I decided I was going to start walking everyday, I got so much foot/calf pain/soreness that I realized I literally wasn't capable of walking 6 blocks on a daily basis to start. We're talking about fucking walking, something everyone can do. Talk about humbling. I think your plan is good, and it seems like you have things you need to work through as well. Don't be ashamed to start smaller.
It's true Zug man. You really really have to have it dialed in nowadays. I think once the male in self improvement maximses their physique, is at a lower bodyfat, and has muscle and style, radical improvements in outcomes happen. I think we will see this with many of us. But in getting there, there is a lot of grind.

This is an EXCELLENT POINT!

3-4hrs was just way too much for myself sadly. I like to go hard as fucking shit in life. I am happy to absolutely beat the crap out of myself at every level. But if it doesn't lead to improvements, it's counterproductive and hence an ego exercise.

I am going to have to back it allllll the way down while I let go and heal more. Hell, I think 1 approach a day could be deeply healing for me. I don't know. I will speak to Andy and the coaching group.

I am up to 202 / 203lbs, up from 198lbs, as I have been slightly lax on diet for a few days. My slightly lax, I mean, I may have 1 small bar of bar of chocolate and a few spoons of peanut butter. It was a decent mental break. But I must be strict again.

At 200lbs, I still have the dreaded FACIAL FAT.

Losing it is critical in this mission.

WIll keep pushing and will see where my weight is on Saturday.

I worked hard this week. Tomorrow, I get up and put in another solid week to become a better man,

Edit: if I back down in the approaches, I will have to up the online dating or copywriting/content creation. I can't cruise. I can't live with myself if I am taking the easy road in life. I want to grind. But I need to do in a way that moves me forward.

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Sun Jan 16, 2022 9:05 pm

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It is very unlikely anything will happen between us, as she is clear that she would only see me on a platonic basis.
Seems like a complete waste of your time that could be spent elsewhere man. id politely decline tbh

I understand chasing experience, but you wont learn anything useful hanging out with a chick you find cute that isnt interested in you
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