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MakingAComeback
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Goal: 3k Per Month Post Tax
Age: 32
Motto: POSITIVE SELF TALK

Tue Aug 02, 2022 8:37 am

KILLING IT DUDE

Keep hammering,
MAC
-Your friend, Ravi

Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential

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Sewerdog
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Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 5:13 pm
Goal: Make money
Age: 29

Tue Aug 02, 2022 9:13 pm

Hit my OLD numbers. tried to get a girl from tinder out for a drink, she seemed down but then she made up some excuse about doing her friend's hair so will un-match. I actually got a few matches from some very attractive girls when I was in Brighton over the weekend and they replied to my messages which is cool.
I might try a match.com profile and see if that's any good.

Looksmaxxing:
Workout done before work this time which feels good to get a jump start to the day
Defecit maintained
Skincare routine done
Healthy diet
Used the bathmate for 10mins too
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Sewerdog
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Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 5:13 pm
Goal: Make money
Age: 29

Wed Aug 03, 2022 8:53 pm

OLD: All numbers hit, ran a boost too.
Started a match profile and sent 50 likes. Less good looking women there but they all seem local.

Looksmaxxing continues
Cardio done
Defecit maintained
Used bathmate again

Seemed to burn through my time so fast today, need to devote some time to side-hustle development.
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Sewerdog
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Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 5:13 pm
Goal: Make money
Age: 29

Thu Aug 04, 2022 9:02 pm

OLD: numbers hit, asked a girl for a drink this weekend, another sais she's free next week so will see.
Looksmaxxing continues: will add dermarolling and nizarol shampoo into routine.
Took a day off from the bathmate
Defecit maintained
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Sewerdog
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Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 5:13 pm
Goal: Make money
Age: 29

Sat Aug 06, 2022 3:36 am

OLD: Numbers hit, hopefully got a date on Sunday.

Went out and met a good friend/mentor today. He's a combat vet, has a PhD in neuroscience and a fit wife. Talked about moving out of my small town and onto better things. He said I'm capable of finding my way and I told him to stop being fat lol.
Saw a female friend too, its crazy how many guys she has after her. She got absolutely shitfaced and threw up but still had someone to drop what he was doing and drive her home at 3 in the morning!

Workout done.
Defecit maintained.
Used bathmate
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Sewerdog
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Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 5:13 pm
Goal: Make money
Age: 29

Sun Aug 07, 2022 11:09 am

OLD: Tinder numbers hit, missed on the other apps.
Date later today seems locked in

Friends birthday party was ok:
Talked to this one girl for a while but she bounced without saying anything.
Ask for number: failed
The bar in oxford was really cool though, so many absolute stunners.
I definitely get lost in crowds and don't have that extraverted ability to talk to loads of people but it was good fun to get out.

Looksmaxxing:
I won't drink much for a while now
Been in a hard defecit for the last two days
Skincare routine maintained

Moving out stuff:
I could keep my job and move to Oxford which is decently sized but expensive af. Or risk taking a hit to my salary and go somewhere bigger. Its time to get serious about this - I will be out of the house by October even if I have to wing it.
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Sewerdog
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Goal: Make money
Age: 29

Sun Aug 07, 2022 9:40 pm

Date 3: she's a bit bigger than in her pictures. Great vibe and conversation but I'm not that attracted to her so it feels a bit platonic. Happy I got another date in though, I was super nervous but felt more chilled out and made just a nice human connection with her. She actually took the train down to see me too. Faced my demons and feel content.

OLD: Numbers hit, working on new leads.

Social: Asked the girl from last night out, she says she's not looking to date as she's just come out of a relationship. Pleased that I asked and my intentions were obviously clear.

Looksmaxxing continues: I'm going to be super healthy this week and treat myself well. I want to limit social drinking too: I use it as a crutch but holy shit if I drink too much I get waves of anxiety and this bleak dread just oozes into my mind; not very fun lol.
Also I smoked a cigarette on both nights - won't do this again, I deserve to be healthy
My weight stayed the same - I'm following my diet plan still so hopefully I'm just holding onto water weight and glycogen and the fats still coming off.

Job search failed: I've at least told one of my best mates about it and my folks know too now and seem pretty supportive which is really cool.

I finish work early on Fridays so I can drive into Oxford Fri,Sat,Sun and do day approaches at least 3 days a week. Even if I just compliment one woman it'll be a start. If I bottle it anyone reading this please call me a cunt haha
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Sewerdog
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Goal: Make money
Age: 29

Mon Aug 08, 2022 8:31 pm

OLD: I took a day off after yesterday's date going well and feeling drained, will be back on it tomorrow.

Looksmaxxing:
Cardio done
Harsh defecit today so I can hit 104kg by the end of the month
Skincare done, my face actually feels smoother.
If I can sort out/kinimise the bags under my eyes and get lean I think I'll actually be in a really good position- then it'll just be my mental bullshit holding me back- which I know I can overcome.
Researched hair-preserving shampoo from MPMD, will also find a good dermaroller to buy tomorrow.
Looked into tanning peptides as I'm very pale and burn easy, not keen on injecting but they seem interesting.
Got a dickmaxxing routine on the go which I'd highly recommend to people who've gone through years of sexual repression as it makes me feel more potent.

Pretty slow day and the early shift 5am start was brutal after a weekend of drinking/socialising/date

I've been 28 for a month now! But I am moving slowly forwards.
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Sewerdog
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Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 5:13 pm
Goal: Make money
Age: 29

Tue Aug 09, 2022 8:04 pm

OLD: Hit all numbers, trying to get dates on the weekend so will be boosting Wed, thurs, Fri.

Looksmaxxing:
Defecit maintained, batch cooking done for the rest of the week. Diet healthy.
Skincare routine maintained
Bought hair-preserving shampoo
Bought some collagen supps.
Looks like a bit of money for a proper dermapen so will do more research.
Still interested in tanning peptides.
Will look into getting an ear piercing.
Dickmaxxing routine maintained, I think I'm making small gains but it could also be the fat loss at this stage.

Life stuff:
Car needs fixing up
Overtime offered at work- will be used to pay to car and more improvement products

Anxiety is still high, probably clearing alchohol from my system - optimism is returning though
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Sewerdog
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Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 5:13 pm
Goal: Make money
Age: 29

Wed Aug 10, 2022 7:39 pm

OLD: Numbers hit, ran a boost, asked 4 different girls out this weekend but they all sound busy. On Tinder I'm no-longer blind swiping to try and get the algorithm on side so I'm sending 300 likes now instead of 200 random ones.

Looksmaxxing:
Defecit maintained
Diet healthy
Skincare routine maintained
Still mewing
Dickmaxxing done
Not sure how effective at-home dermapens are so holding off buying one for now.

Listened to motivational stuff on ig and it actually helped so I'll try to add a daily point of gratitude.

Gratitude: I'm grateful that I have the opportunities to face my fears and grow as a man.
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Sewerdog
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Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 5:13 pm
Goal: Make money
Age: 29

Thu Aug 11, 2022 7:13 pm

OLD: All numbers hit. I'm matching with better looking women but they ghost way more often. Will have to upgrade pictures and look at my messaging. I have about 5 'maybes' for a date this weekend so hopefully one comes through. Another boost run.

Looksmaxxing:
Cardio done 30 mins of burpees
Defecit maintained
Diet healthy
Skincare maintained
About to use regenepure shampoo
Dickmaxxing done - I'm sure its slowly working, will take measurements for scientific purposes lmao.

Tomorrow:
Get car to garage
Head into Oxford and do one approach: this will consist of a compliment and trying not to shit myself.

I am grateful I am healthy
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MakingAComeback
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Age: 32
Motto: POSITIVE SELF TALK

Fri Aug 12, 2022 3:00 pm

KEEP WORKING

At home dermapens are fine dude. We've tested a bunch, they work perfectly. What is your concern?

I bought mine for about £100 off Amazon.

Oxford is nice, and when I visit, I do get the odd match. Some great girls there too.

MAC
-Your friend, Ravi

Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential

My FB Group for Consistent Performance & Goal Achievement
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Sewerdog
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Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 5:13 pm
Goal: Make money
Age: 29

Fri Aug 12, 2022 10:34 pm

CA: I failed today - that means I'm a cunt. Walked around for 2hrs and saw so many pretty women but I did nothing. It just felt super alien the idea of going up to a random girl. I also had a strong paranoia that people would be watching me. Felt some emotions welling up heading back to the car, like I've been asleep at the wheel for 28yrs and can't wake up. Fuck it. I'll be back out there tomorrow.
Note: I didn't feel insecure about my looks but I was worried about my energy.

OLD: All numbers hit, looks like I have a date this Sunday in my town too and hallelujah she isn't fat!
The one from last Sunday has agreed to come out again but has clocked on I wasn't attracted to her - is date 2 worth it just for more xp?

Social: go to a meetup tm and talk to 1 woman.

Looksmaxxing:
Defecit maintained
Workout done
Skincare maintained
Diet healthy - ran out of veg yesterday
Dickmaxxing done

Mindset:
CA makes my mental shit come up big time: get can't afford the luxury of a negative thought on audible.
Spend time visualising.
MakingAComeback wrote:
Fri Aug 12, 2022 3:00 pm
At home dermapens are fine dude. We've tested a bunch, they work perfectly. What is your concern?
I heard they don't go as deep so are less effective, granted that doesn't mean they don't work at all. I'd like to get one I can use for skin and scalp so will keep hunting for one.
Appreciate your encouragement!
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Sewerdog
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Fri Aug 12, 2022 10:54 pm

Also found this from last weekend, could be a decent tinder group pic?
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Drama
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Joined: Tue Jun 21, 2022 2:21 am
Name: Dave
Goal: Get on top of my shit
Age: 30
Motto: Most men live lives of quiet desperation

Sat Aug 13, 2022 8:15 am

Sewerdog wrote:
Fri Aug 12, 2022 10:34 pm
CA: I failed today - that means I'm a cunt. Walked around for 2hrs and saw so many pretty women but I did nothing. It just felt super alien the idea of going up to a random girl. I also had a strong paranoia that people would be watching me. Felt some emotions welling up heading back to the car, like I've been asleep at the wheel for 28yrs and can't wake up. Fuck it. I'll be back out there tomorrow.
Note: I didn't feel insecure about my looks but I was worried about my energy.
Don't beat yourself up. The more you get into your own head about how you're a pussy for not approaching, the more that becomes real.

Don't worry, it's a hard thing to do and getting somewhere does take time, but luckily there are a lot of resources on here and GLL about this.

If you're really bad with women and literally can't talk to a girl, do the AA program, or at least do enough of it so that you get over the idea of speaking to a random girl as "weird".

After you've done some of the AA program, decide if you want to complete it or you can just go out and approach.

Approach less hot girls first to get used to it. Then build your way up to the hotter ones.

It's honestly not a big deal. You think it's weird, you think people are watching and you think she's going to react horribly, but they won't. Seriously even if you're stuttering over your words, shaking, etc. Basically anything short of pissing your pants, she will think it's endearing and will most likely give you a good response.

Even if they are rude and give you a shit response, at least you did it, right?

Rejection is better than regret.
Goals 2022:

90kg BW @ 10% BF - 87/90 @ 12%/10%
Fuck a 9
Earn 500K- 66/500
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