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Ouki-
Posts: 4 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Sat Jul 23, 2022 12:22 pm
Goal: Get absolute confidence
Age: 26
Motto: What ya do scream so loud I cant hear what ya say

Sat Jul 23, 2022 1:15 pm

Hi there.


I, Ouki, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.


I'm going to focus towards action 100%.

To make it short, I'm 26, at 24 or so I already had 2 long relationships (1-2 years long) but had enough of not being more proactive with my sex life. I started cold approach and all was exciting I had success 3-4 lays pretty quickly and quickly settled down with a gorgeous russian girl I met on the streets.

Then the nightmare began, I became emotionnaly dependant, in a fucking lockdown context, which ended in me loosing all confidence and power in the relationship, loosing my mental health and the girl. It destroyed me. I developed irrational thoughts and beliefs out of nowhere like i couldn't get it up and satisfy my girl blablabla. The relationship ended 1,5 years ago now.

My confidence died at that time, I feel I still have some blocages but I feel much much better now and I grew up. So I want to stop waiting and hoping, and work hard on my life.

I might create a topic because I want to get the best of yours advices guys.


My goals:

1) Get strong strong confidence
2) Get 15-20 lays and get better at sex
3) Start developing a business.


My strong points:

1) I'm a social guy by design
2) I keep the gym progress straight
3) It might have take 1+ year but I can commit


Thanks for reading. Hope we'll share and help each other good.
I value two things very hard: priority to action, and understanding and help between men.
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kunnaboy
Posts: 1 | Thanks:
Joined: Mon Jul 25, 2022 6:51 am
Name: Adam
Goal: Get laid obv
Age: 18
Motto: What up

Mon Jul 25, 2022 6:59 am

I, Adam, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
Where do I post my pics so y'all rate me
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silad5005
Posts: 1 | Thanks:
Joined: Mon Jul 25, 2022 10:50 pm
Goal: Gain weight
Age: 22

Tue Jul 26, 2022 12:09 am

Sup guys, I'm silad5005. I'm a 22y old guy from middle europe, currently pursuing engineer's degree. 182cm/60kg, mostly a "fine" type of guy. As we know, "fine" is not okay.

I, silad5005, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously. The lists below are my "todo" before 2023.

Goals (most important):
- finish engineering degree
- learn programming language
- get laid (current body count: 1, so the goal is 2)
- buy some jewelry and a watch
- start wearing perfumes
- buy more good looking clothes

"Sidequests":
- gain some muscle (sidequest coz it's really fkin challenging to both study at university and gain muscle mass)
- make any amount of money off programming
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Roko
Posts: 4 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Tue Jul 26, 2022 6:14 pm
Goal: Complete AA program
Age: 19

Tue Jul 26, 2022 6:20 pm

I, Roko, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously

I’m currently 19 years old. Been in one relationship ~ 2 years. I feel as though women are attracted to me but I’m never able to pull the trigger on them due to anxiety.

My main goal is to fix this and be able to go after the women I want to without feeling anxious.
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Crisis_Overcomer
Posts: 1017 | Thanks: 720
Joined: Sat Jul 25, 2020 7:25 pm
Goal: Earn $5,000/month
Age: 33
Motto: Motion beats meditation

Tue Jul 26, 2022 7:21 pm

@Roko for your avatar, you need a picture showing you. It can be cropped or blurred. You got 3 days to do so, otherwise you'll get banned
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LexLuthor
Posts: 1 | Thanks:
Joined: Tue Jul 26, 2022 10:43 pm
Name: Mark
Goal: Be Fearless
Age: 42
Motto: One drip fills the bucket over time!

Tue Jul 26, 2022 10:51 pm

Word
Im Kodak
I, Kodak, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

42 from the US, living in Las Vegas - been to 19 different countries, looking to start a portfolio of businesses and develop great relationships with women

Never plan on being married again
I want to sleep with 100 different girls (let's start there)
Going to use online, approaching and social to do it
Current short term goals
- drop to 150 lbs, currently 174
- looking to get my getting women system up and running by the end of summer
- looking to start investing by the end of summer
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Roko
Posts: 4 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Tue Jul 26, 2022 6:14 pm
Goal: Complete AA program
Age: 19

Wed Jul 27, 2022 10:58 am

@Crisis_Overcomer
Thanks man I’ll do that now
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Jamgoth
Posts: 141 | Thanks: 50
Joined: Fri Jul 29, 2022 11:28 pm
Name: James
Goal: Get laid (1/100)
Age: 29
Location: DC

Sat Jul 30, 2022 12:03 am

I, Jamgoth commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Short term goals:
-Take better Tinder Photos
-Lose Virginity (sorta... I've paid escorts but it was a very unsatisfying experience and I'd rather know a woman actually wants to fuck me rather than just doing it for the money)

Long term goals:
-Build muscle to the point where people would say I'm hot instead of average
-Voice lessons so I don't sound so nasally
-Tan so I'm not so pasty
-Better sense of style
-Get into and succeed at a top grad school
-Be more comfortable in social settings, particularly nightlife
-Get good enough with Tinder and cold approach to where I feel like I can get laid whenever I want (within reason of course)
-Get multiple girlfriends/FWB (basically to the point where I feel like I have options and can pick the woman I actually like the best instead of the first one that comes along)
-Start kicking things off my Fuck-It list
-Get a good paying job, or enough passive income to not need a job, or both
-Get a place of my own

About me: To make a long story short in high school I was super obsessed with getting into some ivy league type school. Getting a girlfriend just wasn't on my mind as a teenager. Well, I got into Carnegie Mellon but I was so burnt out that I failed out after half a semester. I basically fell into a deep pit of depression to the point where I wouldn't consider myself a functioning human being. Over the years I did kind of slowly pull myself out of it to the point where I'm doing well in my classes again and could hold an okay job, but I was basically really isolated during this time and a lot of my social education that most people pick up in their teens or early 20s I'm behind on. I'm trying to go back to CMU for grad school, not because I actually want to but because it's closure for that part of my life.

Because I wasn't meeting (or fucking) girls during this period I developed really low self esteem involving women. I did get a job as a delivery driver and would sometimes use the money to buy a high end escort, but, this did not help my self esteem issues and I consider myself a virgin. I'm not going to argue semantics of whether or not this counts. I fell into a hopeless, despair, woe is me blackpill attitude. A couple months ago, at a research internship I'm at in a different university, one of the girls in my dorm building asked me out for drinks. It went well, and the night after we basically spent some time alone, it was in a public lounge, but it was late at night and no one else was there. And she was flirty with me hard, escalating sexual tension, asking me what my type was, what turned me on sexually, and I got that she was interested, but because I was so inexperienced I didn't know how to reciprocate. In hindsight I should have made a move but again, this was new to me and I didn't know how to. After that night she moved onto other guys. And as much as this experience was painful, it told me that I have decent enough looks and social skills that I can get laid if I just learn how to put myself out there and break my habit of isolating myself in my room. So that's what I'm here to do.
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NoMoreSticks
Posts: 1 | Thanks:
Joined: Sun Jul 31, 2022 1:28 pm
Goal: 81 kgs-> 75
Age: 20

Sun Jul 31, 2022 1:33 pm

Yo.
Sticks here.
I, Sticks, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm a 20 year old european guy.

Current goal: Lean out from 81 kg to 75
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Manganiello
Posts: 1710 | Thanks: 2021
Joined: Fri Jun 05, 2020 2:25 am
Name: Brandon
Goal: Career Launch
Age: 33
Motto: Embrace your Darkside
Location: Seoul

Sun Jul 31, 2022 6:24 pm

NB275 wrote:
Sun Jul 31, 2022 5:52 pm
I , Nicolas , commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

About me :
-22 years old
-Germany
Hey dude make sure you add an avatar to your profile that is a picture of you.
It can be blurred out or a bodyshot if you want to hide your identity.

We ban/delete accounts after 3 days that don't do this.
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Past Goals:
🗡️ AA Program Log
☀️ Lost vCard from Day Game Post
🇰🇷 Moved to Korea Post
🔥 OLD Log & Lays Log


How I got 9 lays in the first 6 weeks on Tinder
[Guide]

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Comet
Posts: 30 | Thanks: 23
Joined: Tue Aug 02, 2022 1:44 am
Name: Matt
Goal: Complete AA program
Age: 28
Location: Toronto

Tue Aug 02, 2022 10:58 pm

Hi everyone,

I, Matthew aka Comet, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 26 from the Bahamas but living in Canada. I was previously in a small town but moved to Toronto a couple weeks ago to work on myself. I like to travel and try out craft beers!

My ultimate goal is to KNOW that I can get laid.

Some short-term goals of mine:
- Find a job in the new city
- Make some friends
- Complete the AA program

Looking forward to getting to know some of you!
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Youbaldwhereyourbeardat
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Sun Jul 31, 2022 10:55 pm
Name: Nick
Goal: Solve Women
Age: 40
Motto: No rejection, know peace

Wed Aug 03, 2022 4:59 am

Hey Fellas,

I, Nick aka Youbaldwhereyourbeardat, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Im a 40yo widowed man filled with guilt and anguish. In pretty good shape. I am good at escalating when I know a woman likes me, however I am terrified of rejection when approaching women.

goals
. get competent at cold approach
. financial security through investments

I know this is a short first message, but it is a start.
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Slickbackkhair
Posts: 215 | Thanks: 25
Joined: Fri Oct 16, 2020 12:39 am
Goal: Sleep 30chicks in2years
Age: 30
Motto: Do the work every damn day

Thu Aug 04, 2022 1:32 pm

Hey everyone

I'm slickbackhair. And I'm committed to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

In the past year:

- I've already lost 14 lbs (got 4 more to go.)
- Upgraded my style (want to take this up a notch.)
- Finally passed 10k per month with my copywriting biz

And now:

- I'm on the path to sleep with 30 women in the next 2 years.

Why that number and in that timeframe? No idea.

But what I do know is this.

I've been going out every night for the past two weeks to get used to being out at night.
Been doing 1 chick a day for a while now. And even got photos taking for OLD.

The momentum is already here and I'm going to hit that goal.

Love you all.
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Radical
Posts: 1726 | Thanks: 1439
Joined: Sat May 30, 2020 12:02 pm
Name: Cam
Goal: Funnel/Product Building
Age: 29
Motto: Take drastic action

Thu Aug 04, 2022 1:34 pm

What up @Slickbackkhair

Thought you already had an account haha
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hush
Posts: 193 | Thanks: 81
Joined: Thu Aug 04, 2022 4:18 pm
Goal: build my physique
Age: 29

Thu Aug 04, 2022 4:29 pm

Hi guys, hush here.

I'm turning 30 in November, I'm french. I discovered KYIL this morning after looking for old Wall Street Playboys articles, stumbled upon Good Looking Loser, noticed the forums were dead and that people had migrated here. I know how helpful it is to have a journal in such a community so... here I am.

I'm in a serious relationship - it's been 6 years :)

My goals are:
Build a good looking physique (I had to stop working out for 2 months after a surgery, lost almost all my muscles)
Look better by taking care of my skin and clothes (I have decent skin except for black spots, I work from home so don't pay much attention to my outfits unfortunately)
Build a social circle / social skills (I turned full antisocial during covid lockdowns)

I, Hush, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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