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MakingAComeback
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Goal: 3k Per Month Post Tax
Age: 32
Motto: POSITIVE SELF TALK

Sat Jan 28, 2023 8:29 am

leealde1 wrote:
Sat Jan 28, 2023 8:21 am
Hello everyone new here, want to see what this place is about
Hey bro!

Please edit your post with the line Andy specifies in the original post. That's our standard format for all intros.

We ban accounts that haven't done this within 3 days :)

LETS GO,
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dreamhacker
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Joined: Sat Jan 28, 2023 2:40 pm
Goal: Approach 1000 girls
Age: 39
Motto: don't think, do

Sat Jan 28, 2023 3:03 pm

Hey all, I'm a 39 yo dude- who has a pretty awesome job and lives a very exciting and interesting life. I travel the world with rock band. I just moved from LA to NYC and have one of the best possible logistical setups in the city. (WSP)

I'm pretty decent with girls, tinder, and can get laid pretty consistently. I'm just having a difficult time approaching (though I did have my first official daygame lay the other day, AND an official night pull within 30 mins of meeting the girl)

But the goal is to be able to walk up to any girl I see and say hi, be more social in general, and get that IDGAF social freedom.

I need to get this aspect handled and this seems like a great support system and first step.

Can't wait to see everyone meet their goals!
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adscftwtf
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Joined: Sat Jan 28, 2023 9:09 pm
Goal: Get laid
Age: 24

Sat Jan 28, 2023 9:19 pm

I, Bharath, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hi I'm Bharath, a PhD student in theoretical physics in Switzerland. My primary goal is to get laid more.

I am not a virgin, and was in a long term and long distance relationship that lasted 3 years and ended 4 months back. Since then I have been trying to get laid on Bumble and Tinder with zero success. I've only had sex with my ex-gf and then with someone in a fwb situation with my flatmate for a month before she left the country (was here for a short term internship).

I think sex is a beautiful thing and based on my experience with these two women, I really love exploring women's bodies and just overall having fun together. I firmly believe that I am good in bed (been told that by both without asking) but it's getting to the bed in the first place that I need to figure out.
Lifetime lays - 2/10
Weight - 66/80
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Jbell98
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Joined: Mon Jan 30, 2023 11:20 pm
Name: John
Goal: Move past my Nice Guy S
Age: 24
Motto: Consistent Results, Inconsistent Lifestyle

Mon Jan 30, 2023 11:52 pm

I, Jbell98, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

(If anyone has thoughts on how to rotate the damn picture so it's straight, let me know. It wasn't uploading upright)

I am 24 and was in a long-term relationship from 18-23, all the way through college and six months thereafter. It ended unexpectedly (at the time) and since then I have been developing myself to be a better, more masculine version of myself and learn about how to attract women more.

I want to try the casual sex/hookup life for a bit before recommitting myself into a long-term relationship, but am unsure how best to pivot from one to the other. Looking for advice on that and I will go into more depth in another post.
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MakingAComeback
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Age: 32
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Thu Feb 02, 2023 8:33 am

dreamhacker wrote:
Sat Jan 28, 2023 3:03 pm
Hey all, I'm a 39 yo dude- who has a pretty awesome job and lives a very exciting and interesting life. I travel the world with rock band. I just moved from LA to NYC and have one of the best possible logistical setups in the city. (WSP)

I'm pretty decent with girls, tinder, and can get laid pretty consistently. I'm just having a difficult time approaching (though I did have my first official daygame lay the other day, AND an official night pull within 30 mins of meeting the girl)

But the goal is to be able to walk up to any girl I see and say hi, be more social in general, and get that IDGAF social freedom.

I need to get this aspect handled and this seems like a great support system and first step.

Can't wait to see everyone meet their goals!
Hey man!

Please read Andy's original post & edit your post in alignment.

We ban accounts which haven't done this within 3 days. :)

MAC
-Your friend, Ravi

Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential

My FB Group for Consistent Performance & Goal Achievement
https://www.facebook.com/groups/ironwilltribe
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Revtach
Posts: 29 | Thanks: 19
Joined: Fri Feb 03, 2023 10:21 pm
Goal: Total Freedom
Age: 34
Motto: Whatever it takes

Fri Feb 03, 2023 10:42 pm

I, Chris, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Pleasure to meet you all.
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MakingAComeback
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Goal: 3k Per Month Post Tax
Age: 32
Motto: POSITIVE SELF TALK

Mon Feb 06, 2023 11:30 am

Welcome!
-Your friend, Ravi

Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential

My FB Group for Consistent Performance & Goal Achievement
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Lucifer
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Mon Feb 06, 2023 8:24 pm
Goal: Get Laid, Get Muscular
Age: 24

Tue Feb 07, 2023 4:53 am

I'm 24, and my main goals are to get muscular and to get laid this year. I'm 6'4" with a bit of muscle mass and I do get quite a lot of opportunities when I do go out, but my problem is that I don't go out enough, because over the years, I have gotten used to staying isolated at home, which didn't help my social life or sex life. I am willing to change that this year.

I, Lucifer, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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MakingAComeback
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Age: 32
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Tue Feb 07, 2023 7:26 am

You got this bro

MAC
-Your friend, Ravi

Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential

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filbko
Posts: 202 | Thanks: 10
Joined: Mon Feb 06, 2023 7:23 pm
Goal: Fuck bitches
Age: 27
Motto: Get laid or die tryin'

Tue Feb 07, 2023 9:01 pm

Hey guys!

I, filbko, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.



About me:

I am a guy from Eastern Europe who has decided to change his life. Until this day, my only success with the girls is one making-out session with a hot 18 years old blonde and two dates. I am a virgin, and I am going to change it. I have realized that I have a shitty sexless life. I got my first date just last year, which was a massive failure. I was nervous and did not know what to say, so the worst date ever. I still do not understand why I didn't try to get laid earlier, now I am 26 and feel depressed and too old.

2023 goals:

Losing virginity
Get a job
Moving to a bigger city
Hiring a professional photographer and taking good pictures
Going to a gym regularly
Starting a new Tinder account
Getting some muscles
2024 Goals
No porn/ NoFap (73/365)
No alcohol (73/365)
Improved body
Improved Health
Make Money

Total number of dates: 24

Total number of cold approaches: 10
Total number of cold approach dates: 1
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MakingAComeback
Posts: 4130 | Thanks: 4864
Joined: Tue Jan 19, 2021 1:17 pm
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Age: 32
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Fri Feb 10, 2023 6:24 pm

Welcome!

Start a log - lets work.

MAC
-Your friend, Ravi

Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential

My FB Group for Consistent Performance & Goal Achievement
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GoldenBoy
Posts: 5 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Fri Feb 10, 2023 7:55 pm
Goal: Build a Social Circle
Age: 32

Fri Feb 10, 2023 8:12 pm

What’s up everyone thanks for letting me join the forum. I look forward to getting to know some of you on here and work together towards our goals.

My Background - I work as a Software Engineer from home. I’m 32 years old. The last couple of years since lockdown have been rough on my personally. I’m recently divorced after one year of marriage (4 year total relationship). I’m looking to work on myself and get back to self improvement. I want to make myself the version of me I’ve always wanted to be.

My Goals -
1. Beat Situational Depression.
2. Make local friends and build a Social Circle.
3. Get in shape and get a six pack for the first time in my life.
4. Be able to get laid, and have Friends with Benefits and nothing serious. I also want to have my first threesome.
5. Get the courage and confidence to travel the world as a Digital Nomad for a time period and live my dream lifestyle.
6. Start my own business.

I Michael, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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cmcarr20
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Joined: Sat Feb 11, 2023 3:52 pm
Name: Christian
Goal: Build a business
Age: 24

Sat Feb 11, 2023 4:10 pm

Hi all.

I, Chris, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.


I'm 23 and I'm from the United States. I always thought that players must be manipulative people, but after reading through the advice from the Tinder Guide (and many other articles/videos from Andy), I was mindblown on how effective honesty can be. Since implementing Andy's advice, I've been hooking up with two people consistently, and I was previously hooking up with four people for a while. I just told them exactly what I wanted, let them know I was seeing other people, and they were still up for it! No games, nothing!

However, these were all people I knew in real life. I've never had success in hookups from online apps. In fact, I've never really tried hooking up with online apps. So working the dating apps is my next main goal!

Current goals
- improve Tinder pictures
- Become comfortable with casual relationships/hookups (ideally with one new person a month.)
- heal my tennis elbow & wrist issues so I can get stronger in the gym.
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Montage
Posts: 5 | Thanks: 3
Joined: Sat Feb 11, 2023 11:23 pm
Name: Nate
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 23

Sat Feb 11, 2023 11:47 pm

What's good everyone
I, Nate, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

A bit about me:
23, living in London. My dating life in the last few years has been non-existent due to me having such a passive approach, and I know the only way to change that is by taking action. Signing up here is just the first step of me grabbing life by the balls the way I should.

Goals for the next few months:
  • Complete the GLL Approach Anxiety Program
    Start getting into activities and hobbies, starting with boxing
    Get a photoshoot done and make a Tinder account
Goals for the year:
  • Get over my fear of talking to women I find attractive
    Become more social overall
    Get laid with 5 different women
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FurtherBeyond
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Joined: Sat Nov 26, 2022 4:56 pm
Name: Tony
Goal: Addiction Business
Age: 21

Sun Feb 12, 2023 11:54 pm

I, Tony, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hey everyone. 😊
I'm Tony, 21, from Central Europe and I'm here to get over my fearfulness.

I'm someone who has always had grand aspirations, yet never got anywhere with them due to a strong fear of success. Since the age of 16 or so, I've been consuming a freakish volume of self-improvement and mental health content and I managed to transform myself from a deeply negative person to an optimist.

As a byproduct of my learning about mental health, I realized how to move on from all kinds of addiction quickly and almost effortlessly. My goal for the foreseeable future is to teach people how to do that as an online counselor while traveling the world.

Do you guys think a goal of 10k per month by doing that is achievable?
I know how f*cking sucky addiction feels and I think that people would be willing to pay me a few thousand dollars to be forever free. I'm just worried that everyone will think that I'm a charlatan because I'm not a certified psychologist.

I have other goals (fitness, women, being a better person,..), but I have almost no limiting beliefs concerning them. I know achieving them is only a matter of time. It's only money that I really struggle with and feel unsure about.

Last but not least, I'd like to thank Andy for everything he's doing for people like me (Although I know he says that he's only doing it because it's making him feel good 😁.). After all these years, you're the self-improvement content creator I feel the most connected to.

Have a great day guys and thank you for being a nice community.
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