MakingAComeback wrote: ↑Mon Feb 20, 2023 5:01 pmLike this?stephanos wrote: ↑Sun Feb 19, 2023 7:27 pmWhat's up good looking girls loving fellas!
Stephanos here. Serbia.
My goals is to help others.
Main topics on which I am working on: Game, Fitness, Business, Spirituality.
Achieved somewhat of a high understanding in each of these and still working on them as it never ends.
So I want to #1 Teach and #2 Learn and Grow Further.
Glad to be here.
I, Stephanos, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
OSSVery warm welcome to both of you!presolum wrote: ↑Mon Feb 20, 2023 5:58 amHi, all,
This is Pat, 26. Have some free time finally after sorting education, job, friends, and permanent relocation. Now have free time and some income to devout to some self-improvement, leisure, and trying new things.
Goal for the 2023 year:
-Improve bio, photo, and wardrobe game, so as to feed into...
-go on a date and have a beautiful women that I connect with on a deeper level
-figure out what my style should point towards with personal grooming/choice of clothes
-possibly start a routine that maintain weight and tightens figure, especially around core
-Reseting all dating apps with a strong new start
Great to see you here, and glad to have you.
Can you do me a favour?
We ask all new recruits to include the line that's in Andy's first post in their intro post.
I'd like you to edit that in within the next 3 days. We ban accounts that haven't, OK?
Thanks,
MAC
READ THIS - You MUST post here before you can post anywhere else.
Once you've posted/replied & introduced yourself in here, you'll be able to post in all the other sections of the forum.
- stephanos
- Posts: 16 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Feb 19, 2023 7:22 pm
- Name: Stephanos
- Goal: Help Others
- Age: 25
- Motto: Never Quit. Think Light. Tao Te Ching.
Follow My GLL's AA Cold Approach Challenge INFIELDs Here As I Upload Them As They Will Help You A Ton:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VY-DeuT ... 0--puwNEqO (Day 6 is up)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VY-DeuT ... 0--puwNEqO (Day 6 is up)
- MakingAComeback
- Posts: 4253 | Thanks: 4960
- Joined: Tue Jan 19, 2021 1:17 pm
- Goal: 3k Per Month Post Tax
- Age: 32
- Motto: POSITIVE SELF TALK
You're good to go @stephanos
Keep working.
MAC
Keep working.
MAC
-Your friend, Ravi
Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential
My FB Group for Consistent Performance & Goal Achievement
https://www.facebook.com/groups/ironwilltribe
Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential
My FB Group for Consistent Performance & Goal Achievement
https://www.facebook.com/groups/ironwilltribe
- normiez
- Posts: 2 | Thanks: 1
- Joined: Tue Feb 21, 2023 10:28 pm
- Name: ty
- Goal: get laid
- Age: 28
- Motto: new here
Hi I'm Ty
I'm new to taking online dating/self improvement seriously and I want a community to help me stay on course and I want to get laid.
I, Ty, am committed to taking myself and my goals seriously
I'm new to taking online dating/self improvement seriously and I want a community to help me stay on course and I want to get laid.
I, Ty, am committed to taking myself and my goals seriously
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- Joshua Tree
- Posts: 1 | Thanks: 1
- Joined: Fri Feb 24, 2023 9:05 am
- Name: Josh
- Goal: Lose Fat
- Age: 30
- Motto: It's never too late to change
Hi everyone, my name's Josh. I'm 30 years old, I live in Brisbane and I work in mental health. At the moment I'm wanting to lose fat as it's currently my biggest source of insecurity and is getting in the way of my other goals of getting laid more and spending time focusing on writing and creating music. I'm quite nervous about joining here but the reality is that I'm just not in a good mental space and I don't want to keep going around in circles year after year and getting barely any closer to the life I want for myself. I'm hoping that at least becoming part of a community of people that's also working to be better in spite of the difficulty can help me finally make the changes I want to see permanent.
I, Josh, am committed to taking myself and my goals seriously
I, Josh, am committed to taking myself and my goals seriously
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- MakingAComeback
- Posts: 4253 | Thanks: 4960
- Joined: Tue Jan 19, 2021 1:17 pm
- Goal: 3k Per Month Post Tax
- Age: 32
- Motto: POSITIVE SELF TALK
Welcome gents.
Well lads. If you want it, it's time to work.
Start a progress log.
Those who post regularly & take action, WILL suceed
The harder you work...........
The luckier you will get
KEEP HAMMERING,
MAC DADDY
Well lads. If you want it, it's time to work.
Start a progress log.
Those who post regularly & take action, WILL suceed
The harder you work...........
The luckier you will get
KEEP HAMMERING,
MAC DADDY
-Your friend, Ravi
Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential
My FB Group for Consistent Performance & Goal Achievement
https://www.facebook.com/groups/ironwilltribe
Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential
My FB Group for Consistent Performance & Goal Achievement
https://www.facebook.com/groups/ironwilltribe
- Renton
- Posts: 70 | Thanks: 9
- Joined: Sun Feb 26, 2023 11:11 pm
- Goal: Get Laid
- Age: 30
Hi all,
Renton here. I've been doing daygame in London for 2 years. I've had some decent success with it, and I've kept a Twitter log / blog throughout that time. However I've found most guys on Twitter are armchair theorists / don't actually do any game, yet try and give advice! It's quite cringey, so I'm fed up of it and thought I'd make an account here to join a community of guys who actually get laid! (or are actually trying to), and are motivated and positive.
https://twitter.com/Renton_DG
I'll be setting up a progress log here very soon.
"I, Renton, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."
Thanks
Renton here. I've been doing daygame in London for 2 years. I've had some decent success with it, and I've kept a Twitter log / blog throughout that time. However I've found most guys on Twitter are armchair theorists / don't actually do any game, yet try and give advice! It's quite cringey, so I'm fed up of it and thought I'd make an account here to join a community of guys who actually get laid! (or are actually trying to), and are motivated and positive.
https://twitter.com/Renton_DG
I'll be setting up a progress log here very soon.
"I, Renton, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."
Thanks
2 years of daygame experience, still learning, looking to make some great memories before I die!
108 lays (2016 > 2023)
Out of the game, for now.
108 lays (2016 > 2023)
Out of the game, for now.
- Sparkles
- Posts: 83 | Thanks: 20
- Joined: Mon Feb 27, 2023 10:16 am
- Goal: Happiness
- Age: 25
I, Sparkles, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
I'm currently in an 8-week program with a dating coach to learn how to attract women.
Goals for 2023
- Build a strong social circle.
- Be more authentic/honest in my relationships.
- Put on muscle in the gym.
- Improve and maintain my mental health.
- Get laid more (only 4 notches under my belt thus far...)
- Improve my looks (esp. getting sleeve tattoos)
I'm currently in an 8-week program with a dating coach to learn how to attract women.
Goals for 2023
- Build a strong social circle.
- Be more authentic/honest in my relationships.
- Put on muscle in the gym.
- Improve and maintain my mental health.
- Get laid more (only 4 notches under my belt thus far...)
- Improve my looks (esp. getting sleeve tattoos)
- MakingAComeback
- Posts: 4253 | Thanks: 4960
- Joined: Tue Jan 19, 2021 1:17 pm
- Goal: 3k Per Month Post Tax
- Age: 32
- Motto: POSITIVE SELF TALK
Let's get an avatar uploaded fella.Sparkles wrote: ↑Mon Feb 27, 2023 10:26 amI, Sparkles, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
I'm currently in an 8-week program with a dating coach to learn how to attract women.
Goals for 2023
- Build a strong social circle.
- Be more authentic/honest in my relationships.
- Put on muscle in the gym.
- Improve and maintain my mental health.
- Get laid more (only 4 notches under my belt thus far...)
- Improve my looks (esp. getting sleeve tattoos)
Need to show us you're human. Has to be a pic of you.
You can block your face if you want.
We'll need this uploaded within 3 days, or we ban.
Thanks,
MAC
-Your friend, Ravi
Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential
My FB Group for Consistent Performance & Goal Achievement
https://www.facebook.com/groups/ironwilltribe
Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential
My FB Group for Consistent Performance & Goal Achievement
https://www.facebook.com/groups/ironwilltribe
- RizzGodKeen
- Posts: 4 | Thanks:
- Joined: Tue Feb 28, 2023 4:09 am
- Goal: Live a 1% Lifestyle
- Age: 18
- Motto: I will build myself into the man I want to be.
Before I start my post: I WILL NOT FOCUS ON MY PRIMARY GOAL, WHICH IS GAME. I WILL BE WORKING ON OTHER PRIORITIES BEFORE I START
I am currently working on my sales job. I have to finish a licensing course and training in order to start working. Once I start gaining income, I will start looking into moving out of my parent's house. Once I move out, I will start working on my game. Since working on my sales job is my priority right now, I will work on other things (like fitness) after I start my job, but before I move out.
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I, RizzGodKeen, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
18 from the US
5'6
Me right now:
- Zero Income
- Living with my parents
- 1 lay (Over a year and 9 months ago)
- 1 cold approach
- All the girls I've had a thing with have been online, in school, or in social circles
- Talking to 0 girls right now
- Most of my girlfriends have been "the best that I was able to get", not really my ideal women. I honestly didn't fully realize it back then because I had severe oneitis.
- Studied game for around 1 year, but little to no practice (Was never a priority in the past, just a hobby to learn)
- Constantly shifting from skinny to skinny-fat
- Used to do calisthenics 2 1/2 - 3 years ago, but I stopped when I got a surgery
- Got too busy for Taekwondo
- I've been to one other country besides my own
- I speak fluent English and shitty Spanish
What I want: (Deadline: Age 24)
- Own a business that makes $100k per year
- Own a successful blog
- Take at least 2 business coaching programs
- I don't care about laycount. It's not an important goal for me, but I will be tracking my numbers to make sure I have high success rates.
- At least 3,000 daygame approaches
- Take at least 3 game Mentorships/Bootcamps
- Master 2 styles of game and be solid with the rest of them.
- Have a rotation of at least 3-4 women I consider hot
- Have a roster of women (at least 2 from at least 3 countries.)
- Have a Chris Heria/David Laid-type body. I don't want to be super huge. I want to have a nice V-taper. I want my body to be aesthetically pleasing to look at.
- I want to master a lot of skills in Calisthenics; such as the muscle up, front lever, handstand push-up, and planche push-up.
- I want to be decently skilled at a martial art.
- I want to travel to at least 5 other countries
- I will be speaking 3 languages and in the middle of studying my 4th
"We overestimate what we can do in a year. We underestimate what we can do in 5."
P.S.: Admin, if you ban accounts for inactivity, please give me some time. It will take a bit for me to start all of my journeys. I promise the wait will be worth it. Give me 8 months MAX for me to start ALL my journeys (fitness, game, business, travel, languages, etc), meaning it will likely take me less time since I will be starting some journeys before others.
I am currently working on my sales job. I have to finish a licensing course and training in order to start working. Once I start gaining income, I will start looking into moving out of my parent's house. Once I move out, I will start working on my game. Since working on my sales job is my priority right now, I will work on other things (like fitness) after I start my job, but before I move out.
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I, RizzGodKeen, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
18 from the US
5'6
Me right now:
- Zero Income
- Living with my parents
- 1 lay (Over a year and 9 months ago)
- 1 cold approach
- All the girls I've had a thing with have been online, in school, or in social circles
- Talking to 0 girls right now
- Most of my girlfriends have been "the best that I was able to get", not really my ideal women. I honestly didn't fully realize it back then because I had severe oneitis.
- Studied game for around 1 year, but little to no practice (Was never a priority in the past, just a hobby to learn)
- Constantly shifting from skinny to skinny-fat
- Used to do calisthenics 2 1/2 - 3 years ago, but I stopped when I got a surgery
- Got too busy for Taekwondo
- I've been to one other country besides my own
- I speak fluent English and shitty Spanish
What I want: (Deadline: Age 24)
- Own a business that makes $100k per year
- Own a successful blog
- Take at least 2 business coaching programs
- I don't care about laycount. It's not an important goal for me, but I will be tracking my numbers to make sure I have high success rates.
- At least 3,000 daygame approaches
- Take at least 3 game Mentorships/Bootcamps
- Master 2 styles of game and be solid with the rest of them.
- Have a rotation of at least 3-4 women I consider hot
- Have a roster of women (at least 2 from at least 3 countries.)
- Have a Chris Heria/David Laid-type body. I don't want to be super huge. I want to have a nice V-taper. I want my body to be aesthetically pleasing to look at.
- I want to master a lot of skills in Calisthenics; such as the muscle up, front lever, handstand push-up, and planche push-up.
- I want to be decently skilled at a martial art.
- I want to travel to at least 5 other countries
- I will be speaking 3 languages and in the middle of studying my 4th
"We overestimate what we can do in a year. We underestimate what we can do in 5."
P.S.: Admin, if you ban accounts for inactivity, please give me some time. It will take a bit for me to start all of my journeys. I promise the wait will be worth it. Give me 8 months MAX for me to start ALL my journeys (fitness, game, business, travel, languages, etc), meaning it will likely take me less time since I will be starting some journeys before others.
Last edited by RizzGodKeen on Thu Mar 30, 2023 1:45 am, edited 4 times in total.
Upcoming blog
My Starting Point + My Current Goals: viewtopic.php?f=43&t=49&p=52932#p52932
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The general lifestyle I want to pursue: https://www.youtube.com/@CalebJonesAlpha
The reason I got into game: https://www.youtube.com/@PlayingWithFireChannel
The reason I push hard: https://killyourinnerloser.com/ https://www.youtube.com/@AustenSummers
My Starting Point + My Current Goals: viewtopic.php?f=43&t=49&p=52932#p52932
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The general lifestyle I want to pursue: https://www.youtube.com/@CalebJonesAlpha
The reason I got into game: https://www.youtube.com/@PlayingWithFireChannel
The reason I push hard: https://killyourinnerloser.com/ https://www.youtube.com/@AustenSummers
- MakingAComeback
- Posts: 4253 | Thanks: 4960
- Joined: Tue Jan 19, 2021 1:17 pm
- Goal: 3k Per Month Post Tax
- Age: 32
- Motto: POSITIVE SELF TALK
Cool.RizzGodKeen wrote: ↑Tue Feb 28, 2023 5:24 amBefore I start my post: I WILL NOT FOCUS ON MY PRIMARY GOAL, WHICH IS GAME. I WILL BE WORKING ON OTHER PRIORITIES BEFORE I START
I am currently working on my sales job. I have to finish a licensing course and training in order to start working. Once I start gaining income, I will start looking into moving out of my parent's house. Once I move out, I will start working on my game. Since working on my sales job is my priority right now, I will work on other things (like fitness) after I start my job, but before I move out.
-----------------------------------------
I, RizzGodKeen, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
18 from the US
5'6
Me right now:
- Zero Income
- Living with my parents
- 1 lay (Over a year and 9 months ago)
- 1 cold approach
- Talking to 0 girls right now
- Most of my girlfriends have been "the best that I was able to get", not really my ideal women. I honestly just didn't fully realize it back then.
- Studied game for around 1 year, but little to no practice (Was never a priority in the past, just a hobby to learn)
- Constantly shifting from skinny to skinny-fat
- Used to do calisthenics 2 1/2 - 3 years ago, but I stopped when I got a surgery
- Got too busy for Taekwondo
- I've been in one other country besides my own
- I speak fluent English and shitty Spanish
What I want: (Deadline: Age 24)
- Own a business that makes $100k per year
- Own a successful blog
- Take at least 2 business coaching programs
- I don't care about laycount. It's not an important goal for me, but I will be tracking my numbers to make sure I have high success rates.
- At least 3,000 daygame approaches
- Take at least 3 game Mentorships/Bootcamps
- Master 2 styles of game and be solid with the rest of them.
- Have a rotation of at least 3-4 women I consider hot
- Have a roster of women (at least 2) from at least 3 countries.
- Have a Chris Heria/David Laid type body. I don't want to be super huge. I want to have a nice V-taper. I want my body to be aesthetically-pleasing to look at.
- I want to master a lot of skills in Calisthenics; such as the muscle up, front lever, handstand push-up, and planche push-up.
- I want to be decently skilled at a martial art.
- I want to travel to at least 5 other countries
- I will be speaking 3 languages and in the middle of studying my 4th
"We overestimate what we can do in a year. We underestimate what we can do in 5."
P.S.: Admin, if you ban accounts for inactivity, please give me some time. It will take a bit for me to start all of my journeys. I promise the wait will be worth it. Give me 8 months MAX for me to start ALL my journeys (fitness, game, business, travel, languages, etc), meaning it will likely take me less time since I will be starting some journeys before others.
Wish you well man.
Start a progress log, it's my advice to you. For the dream to materialise, you have to post man, it ingrains it into your psyche.
Your journey will be delayed for as long as you tell yourself. In truth, you could start taking action this second, and that would be what makes the difference as years go by.
Nonetheless, welcome.
MAC
-Your friend, Ravi
Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential
My FB Group for Consistent Performance & Goal Achievement
https://www.facebook.com/groups/ironwilltribe
Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential
My FB Group for Consistent Performance & Goal Achievement
https://www.facebook.com/groups/ironwilltribe
- MarkAnderson
- Posts: 1 | Thanks:
- Joined: Tue Jan 24, 2023 6:48 pm
- Goal: Fashion
- Age: 24
I, MarkAnderson, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
My goals right now are :
20 games completed before 2024
Improve my body and looks and grow my business.
Publish the website.
LINK REMOVED BY MAC
My goals right now are :
20 games completed before 2024
Improve my body and looks and grow my business.
Publish the website.
LINK REMOVED BY MAC
- MakingAComeback
- Posts: 4253 | Thanks: 4960
- Joined: Tue Jan 19, 2021 1:17 pm
- Goal: 3k Per Month Post Tax
- Age: 32
- Motto: POSITIVE SELF TALK
Welcome fella!MarkAnderson wrote: ↑Tue Feb 28, 2023 9:05 amI, MarkAnderson, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
My goals right now are :
20 games completed before 2024
Improve my body and looks and grow my business.
Publish the website.
LINK REMOVED BY MAC
I've removed your link, as we want new members to contribute and start to get into the place.
You're welcome and we want to see you get some work in ;-)
MAC
-Your friend, Ravi
Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential
My FB Group for Consistent Performance & Goal Achievement
https://www.facebook.com/groups/ironwilltribe
Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential
My FB Group for Consistent Performance & Goal Achievement
https://www.facebook.com/groups/ironwilltribe
- bloomer
- Posts: 7 | Thanks: 4
- Joined: Wed Mar 01, 2023 5:35 pm
- Goal: Get Laid.
- Age: 25
- Location: UK
I, bloomer, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
About me:
-25 years old
-Got a good job as analyst at a bank (but want more for my life)
-5'9''
-In the UK. Happy to meet up
-Always a little introverted, never was a problem (had a great high school experience) but as I get older I find it gets harder to make as many connections (which is why I'm here)
-Current on NoFAP, really want to stop watching porn (pretty much down to 1 time a week)
-Still got my v-plates, but for a strange reason: any opportunity I had with a women who wanted to have sex/a relationship, I couldn't bring myself to be vulnerable with them, even if they were very attractive (people thought I was gay). This is out of my system now. So gotta go get my dick wet.
-I was down bad 2019 - 2022ish (mostly depression/existential crisis), but I got up and brushed most of myself off (still working on some stuff). Looking back now, it was the best thing that ever happened to me: I have more clarity now than ever. I think having a hard go of it made me realise what's really important.
Over arching goals:
-Get a fit, aesthetic body
-Get Laid (lose v-plates)
-Beat procrastination
-Beat social anxiety
-Find a way of making a living that is purposeful and/or gives me independence
-Build more friendship groups (filled with driven men who motivate each other)
-Move to a city (been thinking about Birmingham)
-Day game
-Night game
-Build a successful relationship and family with a beautiful woman that knows that femininity isn't a weakness
-Become a man I respect (integrate my shadow and individuate)
More specific goals:
-15+ lays
-Get a good tinder profile
-3-some (me and 2 girls of course - I ain't no homo lol)
Long term I think I just want to be independent; I want to not NEED other people but WANT people and get to choose who I associate with. I feel a lot of people (especially men) accept poor lives because they need other people; I see a lot of guys in bad to mediocre relationships because they are afraid of the possibility of not being able to find anyone else (they sell themselves short). The same goes for all parts of life (relationships, sex, friends, careers etc.) That's my nightmare: slowly letting my life be ruined by fear and insecurity, then waking up one day and have it all cave it. Pretty sure that ends up with depression, divorce, and suicide. And I don't want to be depressed (been there, done that), or divorced (I don't want to be dating in my 40s), and obviously don't want to die.
Reading List:
-EasyPeasy Method
-King, Warrior, Lover, Magician
-No More Mr. Nice Guy: The Hero’s Journey
-Attached
-And some various novels
That's all I can think up for now.
Peace out bros
About me:
-25 years old
-Got a good job as analyst at a bank (but want more for my life)
-5'9''
-In the UK. Happy to meet up
-Always a little introverted, never was a problem (had a great high school experience) but as I get older I find it gets harder to make as many connections (which is why I'm here)
-Current on NoFAP, really want to stop watching porn (pretty much down to 1 time a week)
-Still got my v-plates, but for a strange reason: any opportunity I had with a women who wanted to have sex/a relationship, I couldn't bring myself to be vulnerable with them, even if they were very attractive (people thought I was gay). This is out of my system now. So gotta go get my dick wet.
-I was down bad 2019 - 2022ish (mostly depression/existential crisis), but I got up and brushed most of myself off (still working on some stuff). Looking back now, it was the best thing that ever happened to me: I have more clarity now than ever. I think having a hard go of it made me realise what's really important.
Over arching goals:
-Get a fit, aesthetic body
-Get Laid (lose v-plates)
-Beat procrastination
-Beat social anxiety
-Find a way of making a living that is purposeful and/or gives me independence
-Build more friendship groups (filled with driven men who motivate each other)
-Move to a city (been thinking about Birmingham)
-Day game
-Night game
-Build a successful relationship and family with a beautiful woman that knows that femininity isn't a weakness
-Become a man I respect (integrate my shadow and individuate)
More specific goals:
-15+ lays
-Get a good tinder profile
-3-some (me and 2 girls of course - I ain't no homo lol)
Long term I think I just want to be independent; I want to not NEED other people but WANT people and get to choose who I associate with. I feel a lot of people (especially men) accept poor lives because they need other people; I see a lot of guys in bad to mediocre relationships because they are afraid of the possibility of not being able to find anyone else (they sell themselves short). The same goes for all parts of life (relationships, sex, friends, careers etc.) That's my nightmare: slowly letting my life be ruined by fear and insecurity, then waking up one day and have it all cave it. Pretty sure that ends up with depression, divorce, and suicide. And I don't want to be depressed (been there, done that), or divorced (I don't want to be dating in my 40s), and obviously don't want to die.
Reading List:
-EasyPeasy Method
-King, Warrior, Lover, Magician
-No More Mr. Nice Guy: The Hero’s Journey
-Attached
-And some various novels
That's all I can think up for now.
Peace out bros
- MakingAComeback
- Posts: 4253 | Thanks: 4960
- Joined: Tue Jan 19, 2021 1:17 pm
- Goal: 3k Per Month Post Tax
- Age: 32
- Motto: POSITIVE SELF TALK
WELCOME.bloomer wrote: ↑Thu Mar 02, 2023 7:09 pmI, bloomer, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
About me:
-25 years old
-Got a good job as analyst at a bank (but want more for my life)
-5'9''
-In the UK. Happy to meet up
-Always a little introverted, never was a problem (had a great high school experience) but as I get older I find it gets harder to make as many connections (which is why I'm here)
-Current on NoFAP, really want to stop watching porn (pretty much down to 1 time a week)
-Still got my v-plates, but for a strange reason: any opportunity I had with a women who wanted to have sex/a relationship, I couldn't bring myself to be vulnerable with them, even if they were very attractive (people thought I was gay). This is out of my system now. So gotta go get my dick wet.
-I was down bad 2019 - 2022ish (mostly depression/existential crisis), but I got up and brushed most of myself off (still working on some stuff). Looking back now, it was the best thing that ever happened to me: I have more clarity now than ever. I think having a hard go of it made me realise what's really important.
Over arching goals:
-Get a fit, aesthetic body
-Get Laid (lose v-plates)
-Beat procrastination
-Beat social anxiety
-Find a way of making a living that is purposeful and/or gives me independence
-Build more friendship groups (filled with driven men who motivate each other)
-Move to a city (been thinking about Birmingham)
-Day game
-Night game
-Build a successful relationship and family with a beautiful woman that knows that femininity isn't a weakness
-Become a man I respect (integrate my shadow and individuate)
More specific goals:
-15+ lays
-Get a good tinder profile
-3-some (me and 2 girls of course - I ain't no homo lol)
Long term I think I just want to be independent; I want to not NEED other people but WANT people and get to choose who I associate with. I feel a lot of people (especially men) accept poor lives because they need other people; I see a lot of guys in bad to mediocre relationships because they are afraid of the possibility of not being able to find anyone else (they sell themselves short). The same goes for all parts of life (relationships, sex, friends, careers etc.) That's my nightmare: slowly letting my life be ruined by fear and insecurity, then waking up one day and have it all cave it. Pretty sure that ends up with depression, divorce, and suicide. And I don't want to be depressed (been there, done that), or divorced (I don't want to be dating in my 40s), and obviously don't want to die.
Reading List:
-EasyPeasy Method
-King, Warrior, Lover, Magician
-No More Mr. Nice Guy: The Hero’s Journey
-Attached
-And some various novels
That's all I can think up for now.
Peace out bros
Birmingham, I'd advise against.
MAC
-Your friend, Ravi
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- RizzGodKeen
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- Joined: Tue Feb 28, 2023 4:09 am
- Goal: Live a 1% Lifestyle
- Age: 18
- Motto: I will build myself into the man I want to be.
Thanks, man. I'll do my best on these things
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My Starting Point + My Current Goals: viewtopic.php?f=43&t=49&p=52932#p52932
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The general lifestyle I want to pursue: https://www.youtube.com/@CalebJonesAlpha
The reason I got into game: https://www.youtube.com/@PlayingWithFireChannel
The reason I push hard: https://killyourinnerloser.com/ https://www.youtube.com/@AustenSummers