T0NY M0NTANA's cold approach daygame log

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T0NY_M0NTANA
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Age: 28
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Sun Feb 26, 2023 4:16 pm

Just had a date with a 19yo, she was very shy to physicallity in public. She wouldn't hold my hand and seemed uncomfortable with me playing with her nails but told me later she wants to come over to my place and smoke weed with me next week. So maybe in private she's a freak. We'll see...
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T0NY_M0NTANA
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Tue Feb 28, 2023 2:34 pm

28/02/2023

2 approaches today while I was in town

[2] approach, [0] blowout, [2] conversation, [0] number

1. 6/10 blonde in gym gear, front stopped, opened direct, 1 min conversation, she said she was in a rush, tried to close, bf objection]
1. 7/10 milfy blonde, walked past me with a stone face, front stopped, opened direct, she liked the compliment and said I was really brave but she has a BF.

Takeaways: Nothing to say really, very little AA. Saw hot girl, walked towards hot girl, spoke to hot girl. Monkey see, monkey do
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T0NY_M0NTANA
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Fri Mar 03, 2023 12:46 am

03/03/2023

Fucked the 19yo, she came over. We talked for about 45 mins, then got to it, used the magic wand on her and she went insane lol. We were going at it for about 2 hours.

Also did 4 approaches today while I was in town earlier.

[4] approach, [0] blowout, [4] conversation, [0] number

1. 7/10 Brunette, side stopped in the mall. Opened direct, chatted for 2 mins. She started walking away. Used the famous "One more thing before you go" line, then tried to close. BF objection
2. 7/10 Brunette, spotted her in the mall straight after the previous one, did a 180 and followed her into a shop, opened with "hey, bit random just I noticed you as I was walking out and thought you looked cute" she smiles, chatted for 5 mins. Tried to close. BF objection
3. 6/10 Blonde, opened direct, started off fun and light but turned quite confrontational when I asked her how serious it was when she said she was "seeing someone". left with a bad taste in my mouth.
4. 7/10 Brunette milf in yoga pants, open directed, chatted for 2 mins, she started to move away, I tried to close, Taken.

Takeaways: No dice today... what can you do boys, atleast I got into some conversations. Better than being blown out lol.
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pancakemouse
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Fri Mar 03, 2023 1:49 am

T0NY_M0NTANA wrote:
Fri Mar 03, 2023 12:46 am
3. 6/10 Blonde, opened direct, started off fun and light but turned quite confrontational when I asked her how serious it was when she said she was "seeing someone". left with a bad taste in my mouth.
Something I do to turn it more playful:
"Oh yeah, how long ya'll been together?"
<whatever she says>
"oh, so not that serious then ;-)"

Learned this from Ultimate Man Project.
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T0NY_M0NTANA
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Fri Mar 03, 2023 2:02 am

pancakemouse wrote:
Fri Mar 03, 2023 1:49 am
T0NY_M0NTANA wrote:
Fri Mar 03, 2023 12:46 am
3. 6/10 Blonde, opened direct, started off fun and light but turned quite confrontational when I asked her how serious it was when she said she was "seeing someone". left with a bad taste in my mouth.
Something I do to turn it more playful:
"Oh yeah, how long ya'll been together?"
<whatever she says>
"oh, so not that serious then ;-)"

Learned this from Ultimate Man Project.
I normally do try and be fun with it, dunno what was up with me today... Next time I'll use this though. Thanks
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T0NY_M0NTANA
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Sat Mar 04, 2023 9:37 pm

04/03/2023

3 approaches in the city today

[3] approach, [0] blowout, [3] conversation, [1] number

1. 7/10 Blonde, opened direct and she seemed into it, then some beggar comes into the interaction and kinda freaks the girl out and she leaves...
2. 7/10 Ginger, opened direct, chatted for 2 mins, number closed
3. 8/10 Blonde in gym gear in the station, opened direct, said she was in a rush to catch a train, tried to close anyway, bf objection.

Takeaways: Not really a good day. That beggar fucking up the first set pissed me off quite a bit... Didn't really see anything I liked after the 3rd set, walked around for another hour and it was all big group sets of girls (3+) so I just called it off.
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T0NY_M0NTANA
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Wed Mar 08, 2023 1:40 pm

08/03/2023

Walked into town today to run a few errands, did 2 approaches

[2] approach, [0] blowout, [2] conversation, [1] number

1. 6/10 Brunette, front stopped, opened direct, made a comment on her face tattoo, she said it was for international women's day or something then went on some feminist rant about how women are so underappreciated, I entertained it for a minute or two then just left.
2. 7/10 Blonde in grocery store, opened direct, fun conversation for 3-4 mins, number closed but didnt feel fully invested. Will run my usual texting model and see what happens...

Takeaways: Could of done a few more but didn't pull the trigger, gonna do a big session with a mate on Saturday.
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T0NY_M0NTANA
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Sat Mar 11, 2023 9:24 pm

11/03/2023

Big session in the city today with a wing

[8] approach, [4] blowout, [4] conversation, [1] number

1. 7/10 Brunette in train station, front stopped, opened direct, 1 min conversation, kinda rejected myself here. Ran out of things to say because she looked very vanilla, with nothing particularly that stood out and wasnt giving me much back to rif on so I just left. Should of atleast tried to close.
2. 6/10 Brunette Ukrainian, Front stopped in mall, opened direct, light conversation for 5 mins, number closed
3. 6/10 Blonde, Side stopped in mall, opened direct, instant bf objection
4. 7/10 Blonde in store, opened direct, she just seemed low interest, wouldnt make eye contact, slowly moving away, so I just left
5. 6/10 Redhead, opened direct, didn't say anything and just walked away
6. 7/10 Bulgarian Brunette, very similar to #4, no interest so I just left after trying to make conversation for a minute.
7. 7/10 Brunette in station, front stopped, opened direct, good conversation but she was only here for one day to see a friend so I just left.
8. 8/10 Brunette outside mall, Front stopped, Opened direct, instant BF objection.

Takeaways: Felt pretty good today, did what I could. Should of tried to close girl #1 and #7 regardless - but whatever, learning points ABC, always be closin'
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Renton
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Wed Mar 15, 2023 12:45 pm

Good to see others doing daygame here.

I take it you're not in London?
2 years of daygame experience, still learning, looking to make some great memories before I die!
108 lays (2016 > 2023)
Out of the game, for now.
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T0NY_M0NTANA
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Sat Mar 18, 2023 1:02 pm

Renton wrote:
Wed Mar 15, 2023 12:45 pm
Good to see others doing daygame here.

I take it you're not in London?
Birmingham atm
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T0NY_M0NTANA
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Sat Mar 18, 2023 6:41 pm

18/03/2023

6 approaches in the home town today with a mate

[5] approach, [2] blowout, [3] conversation, [1] number

1. 6/10 Brunette with a nice ass, side stopped in the mall, opened direct, she looks at me strange. I stay in the set and continue talking, then she hits me with the married line.
2. 7/10 Blonde in boots, opened direct, instant BF objection
3. 6/10 Blonde, front stopped, opened direct, 2 minute conversation, tried to close, BF objection
4. 6/10 Brunette, front stopped, opened direct, 3 minute conversation, number closed
5. 6/10 Blonde, front stopped, opened direct, 30 second conversation, married with kids apparently

Takeaways: Good session, took every opportunity I saw. Good feeling about girl #4 - She was giving me all the classic signs of a yes girl, smiling, legs crossed, hair playing etc.
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Sat Mar 18, 2023 7:33 pm

What does your game look like?

When you open direct, you say something like, "Hey, you are very attractive!"
How do you proceed in the conversation afterward?
2024 Goals
No porn/ NoFap (73/365)
No alcohol (73/365)
Improved body
Improved Health
Make Money

Total number of dates: 24

Total number of cold approaches: 10
Total number of cold approach dates: 1
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Sat Mar 18, 2023 7:59 pm

filbko wrote:
Sat Mar 18, 2023 7:33 pm
What does your game look like?

When you open direct, you say something like, "Hey, you are very attractive!"
How do you proceed in the conversation afterward?
It's basically the london daygame model with some GLL screening mixed in. I always open direct then try to calibrate to the girls response.

For example if a girl is in a shop I would say something like;

"Hey, I can see you're very focused on your shopping and I was just on the way out, but I had to come and say you look nice/cute/good and just see what you're like" (with a cheeky smirk)

This is a good one, you're calling out the elephant in the room, which is that she's shopping and this isnt a normal social interaction - This shows social intelligence, also I like to add a time constrain during indoor approaches just so the girl knows im not going to be there for long if she's not interested. The frame I use is - Yes, she's attractive but what else does she have? Is she a cool person, is she fun, is she an boring unfriendly bitch? - That's what you're there to find out.

After opening I'll typically cold read about what she's wearing, her nationally, what she's doing etc. For this example if she's shopping and holding alot of bags, you can tease.

For example...

You: "I bet you're one of those girls that has like 30 pairs of shoes, you must be a shopping addict"

Her: "Haha no I was just looking I promise"

You: "It's ok I can keep a secret ;)... you must be from here"


Blah blah blah... more fun small talk then at some point ask for her name. Shake her hand but hold it.



This will usually tell you where the girls at. If she reluctantly shakes your hand and pulls away fast shes still cold, and you have more work to do. If she just lets you hold it, it's a very good sign and after a bit more investment you can close with something like "It was cool talking to you, lets hang out some time" If yes, take number, if no, move on and do the same thing with the next hot girl.
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Sat Mar 18, 2023 9:00 pm

T0NY_M0NTANA wrote:
Sat Mar 18, 2023 7:59 pm
filbko wrote:
Sat Mar 18, 2023 7:33 pm
What does your game look like?

When you open direct, you say something like, "Hey, you are very attractive!"
How do you proceed in the conversation afterward?
It's basically the london daygame model with some GLL screening mixed in. I always open direct then try to calibrate to the girls response.

For example if a girl is in a shop I would say something like;

"Hey, I can see you're very focused on your shopping and I was just on the way out, but I had to come and say you look nice/cute/good and just see what you're like" (with a cheeky smirk)

This is a good one, you're calling out the elephant in the room, which is that she's shopping and this isnt a normal social interaction - This shows social intelligence, also I like to add a time constrain during indoor approaches just so the girl knows im not going to be there for long if she's not interested. The frame I use is - Yes, she's attractive but what else does she have? Is she a cool person, is she fun, is she an boring unfriendly bitch? - That's what you're there to find out.

After opening I'll typically cold read about what she's wearing, her nationally, what she's doing etc. For this example if she's shopping and holding alot of bags, you can tease.

For example...

You: "I bet you're one of those girls that has like 30 pairs of shoes, you must be a shopping addict"

Her: "Haha no I was just looking I promise"

You: "It's ok I can keep a secret ;)... you must be from here"


Blah blah blah... more fun small talk then at some point ask for her name. Shake her hand but hold it.



This will usually tell you where the girls at. If she reluctantly shakes your hand and pulls away fast shes still cold, and you have more work to do. If she just lets you hold it, it's a very good sign and after a bit more investment you can close with something like "It was cool talking to you, lets hang out some time" If yes, take number, if no, move on and do the same thing with the next hot girl.
I got it. Just saying you are cute is not enough and it should be combined with some situation opener.
Then some small talk, asking for a name, shaking hands, and number close.

I will try to keep it simple because I am a beginner :)
2024 Goals
No porn/ NoFap (73/365)
No alcohol (73/365)
Improved body
Improved Health
Make Money

Total number of dates: 24

Total number of cold approaches: 10
Total number of cold approach dates: 1
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T0NY_M0NTANA
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Sat Mar 18, 2023 9:08 pm

filbko wrote:
Sat Mar 18, 2023 9:00 pm
T0NY_M0NTANA wrote:
Sat Mar 18, 2023 7:59 pm


It's basically the london daygame model with some GLL screening mixed in. I always open direct then try to calibrate to the girls response.

For example if a girl is in a shop I would say something like;

"Hey, I can see you're very focused on your shopping and I was just on the way out, but I had to come and say you look nice/cute/good and just see what you're like" (with a cheeky smirk)

This is a good one, you're calling out the elephant in the room, which is that she's shopping and this isnt a normal social interaction - This shows social intelligence, also I like to add a time constrain during indoor approaches just so the girl knows im not going to be there for long if she's not interested. The frame I use is - Yes, she's attractive but what else does she have? Is she a cool person, is she fun, is she an boring unfriendly bitch? - That's what you're there to find out.

After opening I'll typically cold read about what she's wearing, her nationally, what she's doing etc. For this example if she's shopping and holding alot of bags, you can tease.

For example...

You: "I bet you're one of those girls that has like 30 pairs of shoes, you must be a shopping addict"

Her: "Haha no I was just looking I promise"

You: "It's ok I can keep a secret ;)... you must be from here"


Blah blah blah... more fun small talk then at some point ask for her name. Shake her hand but hold it.



This will usually tell you where the girls at. If she reluctantly shakes your hand and pulls away fast shes still cold, and you have more work to do. If she just lets you hold it, it's a very good sign and after a bit more investment you can close with something like "It was cool talking to you, lets hang out some time" If yes, take number, if no, move on and do the same thing with the next hot girl.
I got it. Just saying you are cute is not enough and it should be combined with some situation opener.
Then some small talk, asking for a name, shaking hands, and number close.

I will try to keep it simple because I am a beginner :)
Yup, that's the best thing to do as a beginner - keep it simple and slowly build on it. Trying to do everything at once can be very overwhelming and can actually create more anxiety because you think you need do the perfect approach. The perfect approach doesn't exist, its always going to be a little bit awkward and feel a bit strange, especially sober during the daytime
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