TimmyTurner - AA Log

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TimmyTurner
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Joined: Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:01 pm
Name: Timmy
Goal: Lay Pipe
Age: 28
Location: London

Tue Jun 23, 2020 5:54 pm

Thought it would be easier to split out my general log (where it's basically a dumping ground of all my thoughts/feelings etc.) from my current number 1 goal log (creating a new log as each goal is completed).

My current goal is to fucking finally complete the AA program & I can't have another "number 1" goal (as in to say, my main priority) until that's completed (hope that makes sense/doesn't put unnecessary pressure on me).

I plan to post in here daily (even if it's just to say I haven't done anything) whereas in my other log I post as & when I feel like it.

Anyways, yesterday (22/06/2020) was Day 1. Listened to the audio & walked around for about 45 mins to an hour. I've noticed I'm starting to struggle to hold eye-contact when walking past people which had improved in the past. I'm fine with shop attendants so I'm not 100% sure as to the reasoning.

I'm about to listen to Day 2 and I've already been outside for about 45 mins today. Moving on to day 3 (online dating) tomorrow.
#1 Goal - Complete the AA program (31st December 2021)

#2 Goal - Move out of my parents house (31st December 2021)

#3 Goal - Bulk up to 84kg (31st December 2022)
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TimmyTurner
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Joined: Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:01 pm
Name: Timmy
Goal: Lay Pipe
Age: 28
Location: London

Wed Jun 24, 2020 12:37 pm

Day 3 started. I've listened to the audio from GLL. After work, I'll dive into Andys tinder guide and recreate my profiles. Stepping out now for a 30 min walk.

Edit 1: I've read stage 1 of the tinder guide (will write a couple of notes below). I still have a lot of work to do in relation to what was said in stage 1 but I'm moving on to stage 2 & 3 just to fulfil the message some girls part of day 3. I've either posted or linked all photos I have of myself on my phone in here so any feedback is much appreciated.

Stage 1 notes:

Lose Fat/Gain Muscle - Feel like I've overestimated the number of calories I need to actually put on weight so maybe that's why I'm feeling like I'm getting fat. It was near 3000 calories a day. MyFitnessPal estimates about 2690 so we'll see how that goes for about 2 weeks and reevaluate.

Fashion Style - I'm very much into street style but only really ever wear what would be considered fashionable when I'm going out with friends. Day-to-day I usually just wear comfy clothes like a Nike tracksuit (don't judge me, I'm from London). This week I've tried to start wearing better clothes when I go out. Here's some pics just to show the outfit.
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Instagram Inspiration - Don't even use my Instagram lol. Going to start looking for some fashion inspiration as well as just using it more in general. I always hear about people sliding in DMs but I thought they were all just capping.

Accessories - I've got earrings (need more), a few necklaces, one rotary watch (bought it a while but rarely wear), two bracelets & a couple of rings.
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Hair/Facial Hair - I've posted an upper-body pic in my general log (link) where you can see my current facial hair without me brushing/combing it. Definitely isn't a full beard & I don't shave at all so I'm contemplating whether I should go clean-shaven. Right now I have my dreadlocks out and down. I can tie it up in different styles but usually, I have it braided akin to this (c-19 shut down my hairdressers).

Teeth Whitening - Got some whitening strips at home but haven't used them in a while. Not sure as to the efficacy but I can't really tell as my teeth are badly stained after years of coffee/tea and poor oral hygiene. I've also been wearing some aligners to try and straighten my teeth a bit more as the front two were misaligned after years of sucking my thumb as a kid.

Tattoos & Piercings - Currently have two piercing on both ears (so 4 in total) need to go out and buy some new earring though as I usually just use the same 4 day-in-day-out. I currently have 5 tattoos, all on my forearms but cause I'm blessed with dark chocolate skin there not that visible.
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Photos - In the next post I have all the photos I have of myself on my phone. I never take/actively avoid taking photos but as of this week, I've started taking one photo a day initially starting with a picture in front of the mirror or without posing or anything just to get comfortable being in front of a camera. Next steps once I feel a little more comfortable will be to start posing.

I've also saved the self-improvement picture to my desktop and my phone so I can refer back to it often.
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#1 Goal - Complete the AA program (31st December 2021)

#2 Goal - Move out of my parents house (31st December 2021)

#3 Goal - Bulk up to 84kg (31st December 2022)
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TimmyTurner
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Joined: Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:01 pm
Name: Timmy
Goal: Lay Pipe
Age: 28
Location: London

Wed Jun 24, 2020 10:36 pm

@KillYourInnerLoser I don’t know how to rotate pics but ya’ll can use your imaginations. Also, I get a picture comment underneath (don’t know if that’s because they’re attachments).

Here’s all the pics I can find currently on my phone:
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#1 Goal - Complete the AA program (31st December 2021)

#2 Goal - Move out of my parents house (31st December 2021)

#3 Goal - Bulk up to 84kg (31st December 2022)
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TimmyTurner
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Joined: Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:01 pm
Name: Timmy
Goal: Lay Pipe
Age: 28
Location: London

Thu Jun 25, 2020 10:03 pm

Haven't moved on to day 4 yet as I hadn't completed day 3 (was too tired to read part 2 of the guide day).

I've read it now, created my profiles on Tinder, Hinger, Bumble, OkCupid & Happn.

Onto day 4 tomorrow.

Oh & outfit of the day:
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#1 Goal - Complete the AA program (31st December 2021)

#2 Goal - Move out of my parents house (31st December 2021)

#3 Goal - Bulk up to 84kg (31st December 2022)
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Motto: "You sure as hell can too."
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Thu Jun 25, 2020 10:51 pm

You have good style.
Andy / Australia
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TimmyTurner
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Joined: Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:01 pm
Name: Timmy
Goal: Lay Pipe
Age: 28
Location: London

Mon Jun 29, 2020 10:32 pm

Currently still on day 4. I’ve been making a ton of excuses while outside (e.g. no-one is going to stop and talk with all the social distancing, she looks busy, she’s got a resting bitch face etc.). Defo not giving up but need to put more effort into fighting against the excuses.
#1 Goal - Complete the AA program (31st December 2021)

#2 Goal - Move out of my parents house (31st December 2021)

#3 Goal - Bulk up to 84kg (31st December 2022)
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Mon Jun 29, 2020 10:49 pm

Every day you're out there, even if you pussy out on a bunch of girls, is still a step forward. Just keep going outside and trying to hit on girls, and you eventually will. You only fail if you stay at home.
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Goal: Fuck bitches. Get money
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Tue Jun 30, 2020 8:20 pm

@KillYourInnerLoser I can't see the pictures that people have uploaded. Is this by design?

Seeing the following message : "You do not have the required permissions to view the files attached to this post."
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Tue Jun 30, 2020 10:59 pm

boblikestacos666 wrote:
Tue Jun 30, 2020 8:20 pm
@KillYourInnerLoser I can't see the pictures that people have uploaded. Is this by design?
Should be fixed now.
Andy / Australia
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TimmyTurner
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Joined: Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:01 pm
Name: Timmy
Goal: Lay Pipe
Age: 28
Location: London

Thu Jul 02, 2020 9:31 pm

Day 4 - 3 women asked for the time in 30 minutes before the heavens opened and I had to go home (it was forecasted to only be light and only 20% chance lol). I listened to Andy's (KYIL) old day 2 video on GLL about giving yourself permission to interrupt and stop making excuses as to why you can't do it which helped. Looking to finish up and move on tomorrow.
#1 Goal - Complete the AA program (31st December 2021)

#2 Goal - Move out of my parents house (31st December 2021)

#3 Goal - Bulk up to 84kg (31st December 2022)
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TimmyTurner
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Joined: Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:01 pm
Name: Timmy
Goal: Lay Pipe
Age: 28
Location: London

Fri Jul 03, 2020 6:23 pm

Day 4 done. Moving on to day 5.
#1 Goal - Complete the AA program (31st December 2021)

#2 Goal - Move out of my parents house (31st December 2021)

#3 Goal - Bulk up to 84kg (31st December 2022)
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TimmyTurner
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Joined: Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:01 pm
Name: Timmy
Goal: Lay Pipe
Age: 28
Location: London

Mon Jul 13, 2020 1:59 pm

Don’t know whether to say I’m struggling with day 5 or to accept what I’ve been able to do.

Technically I completed the task of asking 5 then asking another 5 faster last week (split it out into two days), but, I have it in my head that it needs to be done in one day and I want to try get it all done in under an hour.

I feel like the added pressure has caused a decline in performance instead of pushing me to work harder as it’s taking me longer than usual to get started talking to the first girl.
#1 Goal - Complete the AA program (31st December 2021)

#2 Goal - Move out of my parents house (31st December 2021)

#3 Goal - Bulk up to 84kg (31st December 2022)
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TimmyTurner
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Joined: Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:01 pm
Name: Timmy
Goal: Lay Pipe
Age: 28
Location: London

Fri Jul 24, 2020 1:48 pm

Either this shot has gotten harder or I’m regressing. I can get up to and past 5 but doing all 10 in a day is still a struggle.

Back at it again tomorrow taking that 0.01% step forward until I’m done. Going to update the goal once I’ve finished “the slight edge” and Andy’s companion article.
#1 Goal - Complete the AA program (31st December 2021)

#2 Goal - Move out of my parents house (31st December 2021)

#3 Goal - Bulk up to 84kg (31st December 2022)
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TimmyTurner
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Joined: Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:01 pm
Name: Timmy
Goal: Lay Pipe
Age: 28
Location: London

Fri Jul 31, 2020 8:44 pm

FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCCCCCCCCCCCCCCKKKKKKKKKKKKKK MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE.

Day 5 is finally done to my satisfaction. Got my hair did and it has done a world of good to my confidence after I stepped out. Was doubting myself this whole week about whether I'm made for this shit and maybe I should just quit.

Onto day 6.
#1 Goal - Complete the AA program (31st December 2021)

#2 Goal - Move out of my parents house (31st December 2021)

#3 Goal - Bulk up to 84kg (31st December 2022)
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TimmyTurner
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Joined: Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:01 pm
Name: Timmy
Goal: Lay Pipe
Age: 28
Location: London

Tue Aug 11, 2020 10:01 pm

Started day 6. Still on the first set but got the time & the time + directions sorted. Took me an age to start as I was wandering around as if I was out on a stroll. Need to focus up more and execute from the beginning. On track currently to meet the goal of completing week 1 by Sunday.
#1 Goal - Complete the AA program (31st December 2021)

#2 Goal - Move out of my parents house (31st December 2021)

#3 Goal - Bulk up to 84kg (31st December 2022)
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