New members - you MUST post in here before anywhere else.


Once you've posted/replied & introduced yourself in here, you'll be able to post in all the other sections of the forum.
Post Reply
User avatar
MoeZart
Posts: 1 | Thanks:
Joined: Fri Jan 15, 2021 12:44 am
Goal: Become more successful
Age: 24

Fri Jan 15, 2021 12:59 am

Hey i'm Hassan and I commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 24 and live in central europe.

Goals for the next year:
- Put on Muscle since i'm currently underweight and have been my whole life
- Start to a good job after finishing uni
- and be more comfortable around girls

Nice to meet you all.
User avatar
thegreatroast
Posts: 12 | Thanks: 4
Joined: Fri Jan 15, 2021 5:34 pm
Goal: Succeed on apps
Age: 20

Fri Jan 15, 2021 5:37 pm

I, thegreatroast, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My goals:
1. Bulk up even more and improve on all my lifts
2. Continue to progress in my chosen career path
3. Improve in all aspects of social interaction
User avatar
Radical
Posts: 971 | Thanks: 550
Joined: Sat May 30, 2020 12:02 pm
Goal: Build Blog
Age: 27
Motto: Take drastic action
Contact:

Fri Jan 15, 2021 5:38 pm

@thegreatroast hey dude welcome

As per our rules its a requirement of this forum that you post an avatar of yourself (it can be cropped or blurred)

If you dont do this then we will ban the account in 3 days
Headwear and style website: https://www.thehatfish.com *

*I have written a Men's Style Guide for Beginners which you can grab on my website. It will get you looking like a guy that gets laid in one instructed shopping spree
User avatar
Salsasurgeon
Posts: 2 | Thanks:
Joined: Tue Jan 19, 2021 7:25 am
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 38

Wed Jan 20, 2021 9:58 am

Hey Andy and everyone,

So happy to have found this forum and we'll get through this as we're soldiers in the same struggle.

I, Omar, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My Goals:
-Receive better quality matches on dating apps (ie: Bumble, Hinge, Tinder, Coffee Meets Bagel)
-Enjoy some casual relationships
-Eventually find the one
-Continue growing throughout the process as I always have been

Ready to do this and feel free to ask me any questions as I'll do my best to offer my perspective from my end and anything I can do to help.
User avatar
Sapere_aude
Posts: 1 | Thanks:
Joined: Thu Jan 21, 2021 3:06 am
Name: Ty
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 31

Thu Jan 21, 2021 3:18 am

Hey guys,

Goals: Defeat my depression, become more confident/less anxious, start learning the game, lead a more fulfilled life (find a better career, become better at my hobbies), and meet lots of girls for the betterment of myself and, hopefully, them.

Achieve: Have sex with at least 100 women in the next 10 years.

"I, Ty, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

I'll likely edit this as my goals become more defined. Let's get it, boys.
User avatar
GinStone
Posts: 1 | Thanks:
Joined: Wed Jan 20, 2021 11:10 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 22
Motto: Enjoy the ride
Location: Italy

Thu Jan 21, 2021 11:39 am

Hello everyone,

"I, GinStone, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

22 y-old guy from Italy. Doing fairly decent well with girls and getting laid, but I want to take it to the NEXT LEVEL.

Goals for 2021:

- Having sex with 20-30 different girls;
-Getting better at sex;
-Gaining 5-6 kgs of LEAN muscles;
-Improve in every other aspect of my life

Cheers!
User avatar
Sergio7
Posts: 2 | Thanks:
Joined: Wed Jan 20, 2021 10:22 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 26

Fri Jan 22, 2021 9:10 am

Hey Sergio's here, 26 years old.
My goals are:
- Improve my numbers (only 2 lays) with internet dating apps
- Keep pushing on daygame
- Reach 9% bodyfat (starting somewhere around 13%)
- Do my first perfect form pull-up and hold a perfect handstand
- Reach the top of expertise in my job (software engineering) [ long term goal]

"I, Sergio, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."
User avatar
double_trouble
Posts: 3 | Thanks:
Joined: Fri Jan 22, 2021 11:49 pm
Name: Gabe
Goal: Get laid
Age: 25
Motto: Nothing's impossible

Sat Jan 23, 2021 12:01 am

Hi everyone.

I've been lonely my whole life. Had a lot of ups and downs. Recently I was rejected by a girl who I've been interested in for 6 years... ugh. That was the final straw. I, Gabe, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
User avatar
kodec
Posts: 3 | Thanks:
Joined: Sat Jan 23, 2021 5:48 am
Name: C
Goal: Approach Anxiety
Age: 29
Motto: Live your life intentionally

Sat Jan 23, 2021 6:19 am

Hey All.

I, C aka kodec, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

28 in the US.

Have always been the long term relationship guy that had it burned into his head early on the adage "happy wife, happy life" and as a result have always ended up in relationships initiated by aggressive/dominant women, Last significant relationship ended in cheating after 7 years. Was able to bounce back initially and used it as fuel to secure a career opportunity that had me relocate across the country.

What started ambitiously has become ~2 years of isolation (in part due to COVID) and no strong social/intimate connections being made since. Realizing I'm the only person that can change my situation is what brought me into self improvement and this community seems to be exactly the type of accountability from like minded individuals I'm looking for.

Goals:
- Build reference experience for my social/approach anxiety (AA program)
- Build dating profile that serves as "passive income" to compliment approaches
- Finish my cut (175lb/79kg -> 155lb/71kg) then lean gain back to 165lb/75kg
- Have a clear vision where I want my career to be in ~5 years by EOY 2021
User avatar
dolan
Posts: 9 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Tue Jan 26, 2021 4:39 am
Goal: get my phd lmao
Age: 26
Location: GA

Tue Jan 26, 2021 5:09 am

I, dolan, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My goals have been changing pretty actively since I hit rock bottom early Fall 2019. Before that, every relationship I've ever been in kinda just fell into my lap without me having to really do much. I got lucky in one relationship (purely because of how good a person she was) but I had been dealing with depression and other things, so I wasn't really able to see what I had and how the problems we had could be fixed. I made mistakes with people who weren't as good as I thought. From August to Summer 2020, I had some ups and some downs, but mostly downs. It took a long while for feelings and anxiety to stabilize. I started lifting again in June after having essentially 3 years off. I've been going consistently and have put on pretty significant mass (160-->190 @ 6'1").

Despite being in relationships for the overwhelming majority of the time since I was 16, I have been on exactly two (2) dates with women I wasn't already in a relationship with. There's a lot in my life that I have going for me, but the romantic aspect is not where I want it to be.

My goals include, but are not limited to:
-improve my dating potential by improving what I wear and my profile
-cutting out the stupid shit I do IRL to have more time for working on my PhD and improving my well-being
-continue processing what happened in 2019 that got me in this position so that I can move on
-actually go on dates and, ideally, find either a good FWB or relationship (depending on where I'm able to be, dependent on my previous goal's success)
-improve how I handle being unhappy in relationships

I would include lifting and whatever goals that come with that but it's just part of my life (my avatar is old and from when I was doing really not well, ~160lbs) and I don't really feel like I need to actively chase those goals.
User avatar
KillYourInnerLoser
Posts: 1044 | Thanks: 913
Joined: Fri May 29, 2020 7:03 am
Name: Andy
Goal: Elite body.
Age: 33
Motto: "You sure as hell can too."
Location: Australia
Contact:

Tue Jan 26, 2021 5:31 am

dolan wrote:
Tue Jan 26, 2021 5:09 am
I, dolan, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
Glad you signed up dude.
Andy / Australia
My YouTube

150+ lays / 20+ threesomes / 1 foursome (MFFF)

Show me some love on Patreon
User avatar
Jake
Posts: 90 | Thanks: 10
Joined: Wed Jan 27, 2021 11:23 pm
Goal: 12 girls in ‘21
Age: 24

Wed Jan 27, 2021 11:46 pm

I, Jake, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously

I’ve been a GLL holdout for a little while but decided to finally check things out here

I started my journey back in 2016 and thought I was set after a while but a long hard year of depression and a 2 year dry spell brought me back to reality

My goals:
- 12 new girls in 2021
- Get back to approaching
- Start or join a band
- Take up some new hobbies
- Get the cert I need to move up in my job
User avatar
Lord Rey
Posts: 23 | Thanks: 3
Joined: Thu Jan 28, 2021 8:45 am
Name: Nicolas
Goal: Get fucking Laid
Age: 28

Thu Jan 28, 2021 3:25 pm

Hi everyone,

I, Nicolas, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

It's been a few months I'm lurking around here. I found this site while browsing Red Pill subreddits.
Now that I got put in quaratine because of covid, I think that it's a good idea to register here and introduce myself.

I'll be 28 years old next month and I feel it's really time for me to do things right.
I'm kind of a geek working in the IT, I was clueless about how to deal with girls since the elementary school. I suffered a lot from the Nice Guy syndrome till a couple of years ago when I discovered TRP and read the book No More Mr. Nice Guy.

I don't consider my life in general to be a complete failure but my sexual life really is a complete failure: I was living a sexless life till a few years ago when I lost my virginity to an escort.
After that, because I couldn't get any girl, I was just wasting a lot of money on escorts. Then I finally got my first girlfriend just before I was 25.
She wasn't bad but she had a kind of autism and I broke up after a few months because, except for the sexual part, we didn't really get along. Not to mention my complete lack of experience in relationships.

In 2018, I discovered TRP but really didn't swallow the pill... I let myself fall in love with a girl overseas and get into a long-distance relationship. As you can imagine, it really went toxic after a few months but I still didn't broke up until last summer.
In August 2020, I've been on vacation alone in a city I wanted to visit and I finally managed to get my very first ONS. She was hands down the most beautiful girl I had sex with and I felt I had a great vibe with her. Unfortunately, she ghosted me shortly after (I think I went a bit too needy because I really wanted to see her again...).

Now, in January 2021, I have mixed feelings about my situation. I'm glad that I did some things well last year like ending my toxic long-distance relationship, starting to hit the gym seriously and finally managed to stop watching porn.
On the other hand, I'm still a frustrated incel who can't get laid despite my Red Pill knowledge and all my efforts in self-improvement.

So my goals for 2021 are simply to just getting fucking laid as much as possible and eventually find a cool girlfriend.

Thanks for reading me guys.

Edit: fixed some grammar (English isn't my native language) and thanks for the welcome @Radical
Last edited by Lord Rey on Thu Jan 28, 2021 3:49 pm, edited 2 times in total.
User avatar
Radical
Posts: 971 | Thanks: 550
Joined: Sat May 30, 2020 12:02 pm
Goal: Build Blog
Age: 27
Motto: Take drastic action
Contact:

Thu Jan 28, 2021 3:40 pm

Welcome dude @Lord Rey

Theory does absolutely nothing for you. Only taking action towards your goals will

Worst thing about TRP is it encourages guys to rotate their lives around a subreddit and circle jerk
Headwear and style website: https://www.thehatfish.com *

*I have written a Men's Style Guide for Beginners which you can grab on my website. It will get you looking like a guy that gets laid in one instructed shopping spree
User avatar
insegnante
Posts: 1 | Thanks:
Joined: Sat Jan 30, 2021 5:15 pm
Goal: Improve Tinder
Age: 20

Sun Jan 31, 2021 11:10 am

I, insegnante, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My goal:
- Build a tinder account
Post Reply