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Sergio7
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Joined: Wed Jan 20, 2021 10:22 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 26

Fri Jan 22, 2021 9:10 am

Hey Sergio's here, 26 years old.
My goals are:
- Improve my numbers (only 2 lays) with internet dating apps
- Keep pushing on daygame
- Reach 9% bodyfat (starting somewhere around 13%)
- Do my first perfect form pull-up and hold a perfect handstand
- Reach the top of expertise in my job (software engineering) [ long term goal]

"I, Sergio, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."
double_trouble
Posts: 3 | Thanks:
Joined: Fri Jan 22, 2021 11:49 pm
Name: j
Goal: Get laid
Age: 25
Motto: Nothing's impossible

Sat Jan 23, 2021 12:01 am

Hi everyone.

I've been lonely my whole life. Had a lot of ups and downs. Recently I was rejected by a girl who I've been interested in for 6 years... ugh. That was the final straw. I, Gabe, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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kodec
Posts: 6 | Thanks:
Joined: Sat Jan 23, 2021 5:48 am
Name: C
Goal: Approach Anxiety
Age: 29
Motto: Live your life intentionally
Location: San Diego

Sat Jan 23, 2021 6:19 am

Hey All.

I, C aka kodec, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

28 in the US.

Have always been the long term relationship guy that had it burned into his head early on the adage "happy wife, happy life" and as a result have always ended up in relationships initiated by aggressive/dominant women, Last significant relationship ended in cheating after 7 years. Was able to bounce back initially and used it as fuel to secure a career opportunity that had me relocate across the country.

What started ambitiously has become ~2 years of isolation (in part due to COVID) and no strong social/intimate connections being made since. Realizing I'm the only person that can change my situation is what brought me into self improvement and this community seems to be exactly the type of accountability from like minded individuals I'm looking for.

Goals:
- Build reference experience for my social/approach anxiety (AA program)
- Build dating profile that serves as "passive income" to compliment approaches
- Finish my cut (175lb/79kg -> 155lb/71kg) then lean gain back to 165lb/75kg
- Have a clear vision where I want my career to be in ~5 years by EOY 2021
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dolan
Posts: 15 | Thanks: 7
Joined: Tue Jan 26, 2021 4:39 am
Goal: overcome dating anxiety
Age: 26
Location: GA

Tue Jan 26, 2021 5:09 am

I, dolan, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My goals have been changing pretty actively since I hit rock bottom early Fall 2019. Before that, every relationship I've ever been in kinda just fell into my lap without me having to really do much. I got lucky in one relationship (purely because of how good a person she was) but I had been dealing with depression and other things, so I wasn't really able to see what I had and how the problems we had could be fixed. I made mistakes with people who weren't as good as I thought. From August to Summer 2020, I had some ups and some downs, but mostly downs. It took a long while for feelings and anxiety to stabilize. I started lifting again in June after having essentially 3 years off. I've been going consistently and have put on pretty significant mass (160-->190 @ 6'1").

Despite being in relationships for the overwhelming majority of the time since I was 16, I have been on exactly two (2) dates with women I wasn't already in a relationship with. There's a lot in my life that I have going for me, but the romantic aspect is not where I want it to be.

My goals include, but are not limited to:
-improve my dating potential by improving what I wear and my profile
-cutting out the stupid shit I do IRL to have more time for working on my PhD and improving my well-being
-continue processing what happened in 2019 that got me in this position so that I can move on
-actually go on dates and, ideally, find either a good FWB or relationship (depending on where I'm able to be, dependent on my previous goal's success)
-improve how I handle being unhappy in relationships

I would include lifting and whatever goals that come with that but it's just part of my life (my avatar is old and from when I was doing really not well, ~160lbs) and I don't really feel like I need to actively chase those goals.
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Jake
Posts: 198 | Thanks: 26
Joined: Wed Jan 27, 2021 11:23 pm
Goal: Beat anxiety/fatigue
Age: 24

Wed Jan 27, 2021 11:46 pm

I, Jake, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously

I’ve been a GLL holdout for a little while but decided to finally check things out here

I started my journey back in 2016 and thought I was set after a while but a long hard year of depression and a 2 year dry spell brought me back to reality

My goals:
- 12 new girls in 2021
- Get back to approaching
- Start or join a band
- Take up some new hobbies
- Get the cert I need to move up in my job
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Lord Rey
Posts: 449 | Thanks: 101
Joined: Thu Jan 28, 2021 8:45 am
Name: Nicolas
Goal: Make serious money
Age: 31
Location: Switzerland/Poland

Thu Jan 28, 2021 3:25 pm

Hi everyone,

I, Nicolas, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

It's been a few months I'm lurking around here. I found this site while browsing Red Pill subreddits.
Now that I got put in quaratine because of covid, I think that it's a good idea to register here and introduce myself.

I'll be 28 years old next month and I feel it's really time for me to do things right.
I'm kind of a geek working in the IT, I was clueless about how to deal with girls since the elementary school. I suffered a lot from the Nice Guy syndrome till a couple of years ago when I discovered TRP and read the book No More Mr. Nice Guy.

I don't consider my life in general to be a complete failure but my sexual life really is a complete failure: I was living a sexless life till a few years ago when I lost my virginity to an escort.
After that, because I couldn't get any girl, I was just wasting a lot of money on escorts. Then I finally got my first girlfriend just before I was 25.
She wasn't bad but she had a kind of autism and I broke up after a few months because, except for the sexual part, we didn't really get along. Not to mention my complete lack of experience in relationships.

In 2018, I discovered TRP but really didn't swallow the pill... I let myself fall in love with a girl overseas and get into a long-distance relationship. As you can imagine, it really went toxic after a few months but I still didn't broke up until last summer.
In August 2020, I've been on vacation alone in a city I wanted to visit and I finally managed to get my very first ONS. She was hands down the most beautiful girl I had sex with and I felt I had a great vibe with her. Unfortunately, she ghosted me shortly after (I think I went a bit too needy because I really wanted to see her again...).

Now, in January 2021, I have mixed feelings about my situation. I'm glad that I did some things well last year like ending my toxic long-distance relationship, starting to hit the gym seriously and finally managed to stop watching porn.
On the other hand, I'm still a frustrated incel who can't get laid despite my Red Pill knowledge and all my efforts in self-improvement.

So my goals for 2021 are simply to just getting fucking laid as much as possible and eventually find a cool girlfriend.

Thanks for reading me guys.

Edit: fixed some grammar (English isn't my native language) and thanks for the welcome @Radical
Last edited by Lord Rey on Thu Jan 28, 2021 3:49 pm, edited 2 times in total.
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Radical
Posts: 1726 | Thanks: 1439
Joined: Sat May 30, 2020 12:02 pm
Name: Cam
Goal: Funnel/Product Building
Age: 29
Motto: Take drastic action

Thu Jan 28, 2021 3:40 pm

Welcome dude @Lord Rey

Theory does absolutely nothing for you. Only taking action towards your goals will

Worst thing about TRP is it encourages guys to rotate their lives around a subreddit and circle jerk
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insegnante
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Joined: Sat Jan 30, 2021 5:15 pm
Goal: Improve Tinder
Age: 20

Sun Jan 31, 2021 11:10 am

I, insegnante, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My goal:
- Build a tinder account
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DaCookie
Posts: 6 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Sun Jan 31, 2021 8:58 pm
Goal: 100 lays 7 or above
Age: 29

Sun Jan 31, 2021 9:06 pm

My ultimate goal is to sleep with 100 girls that I would rate as a 7 or above

I, Dan, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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JuhaniEridius
Posts: 20 | Thanks: 11
Joined: Tue Feb 02, 2021 3:33 am
Name: JuhaniEridius
Goal: Complete AA
Age: 19
Motto: Live big or eat shit
Location: Washington
Contact:

Tue Feb 02, 2021 5:43 am

Hello folks,

I am Juhani, 18 years old. An international student from Vietnam currently in US seeking self-actualization and get jacked up fully in life as much as possible.

I am seemingly ridiculously ambitious and aspiring, yet I put faith on it and will take whatever actions in order to attain these goals.

My 2021 goals:
- Earn my first million dollars before I turn 19 as an entrepreneur and earn a citizenship (currently focused no.1)
- Have 200k-1000k visitors/monthly to my website, impact millions of my readers (connected with first goal)
- Have 100k+ email subscribers (also connect with first goal).
- Go on a Vegas trip in June to July: bang 30-50 girls there & have a great birthday party in Vegas at July.
- Weigh 175lbs by the end of this year (currently 160-164lbs, which is pack in 10-20lbs of muscle); deadlift 405+ lbs, squat 315+ lbs, bench 225+ lbs.
- Read 30 books this year and internalize Stoicism into my subconscious.
- Master the basics & get good at BJJ & Muay Thai.

I just stumble upon this forum when lurking on GLL forum, I think that the OGs and active users from it are gathering and playing around here.

Look great.
5 things I've learned:
- Just do shits first and think less. (even if it's seemingly stupid/you look stupid)
- Consistency & progress = Success.
- Go with the gut instincts and take risks are all worth it.
- Fail? Do again.
- Be indifferent to situations.
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Toast
Posts: 872 | Thanks: 1100
Joined: Thu Feb 04, 2021 12:31 am
Name: Devin
Goal: Japanese Plate
Age: 29
Motto: The Time to Hesitate Has Ceased
Location: Tokyo
Contact:

Thu Feb 04, 2021 12:34 am

I Devin Am taking this seriously and trying to beat my approach anxiety. I'm also currently working on building muscle and losing fat, which is definitely easier then approaching girls lol
Japanese Lay count -10

Toast's AA Log
viewtopic.php?f=42&t=517&p=9840#p9840
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sundleboro
Posts: 143 | Thanks: 64
Joined: Tue Feb 09, 2021 10:45 am
Name: Bill
Goal: Social freedom
Age: 26
Motto: The key to life is progressive overload

Tue Feb 09, 2021 11:26 am

Hello everyone. I'm Bill, 25, from the United States. I'm an engineer and a wannabe entrepreneur. I'm becoming more and more interested in my ethnic spirituality and ancient philosophy. I am insanely ambitious and single-minded. I look younger than I am.

I, Bill, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Might be a bit different, but my main interest is entrepreneurship, and only after that, girls. I've had 5 girlfriends, no real casual lays to speak of. I've gone on seduction forums since high school, and never did anything about it because I didn't understand that action/exposure seems to be the key to everything. I started off on the GLL forums last year, but stopped because of covid and completely wasted last year in terms of this stuff. Now I'm back and committing barring any fresh act-of-God.

My goals for the next 6 months are:
  • Complete the GLL Approach Anxiety program and log it here over the next few months (I got to day 10 last year right before covid hit and circumstances were dire, and I'm starting over today; it's my priority 1b, as Chris says)
  • Get more used to giving speeches in front of people without tripping over my words
  • Start my business
  • Lose the final 15 pounds of weight (down 30 pounds already in the last 6 months)
  • Avoid politics and news, it just brings me way down
  • Avoid masturbating, if I can, and anything else that I use as a dopamine rush when anxiety hits
  • Find a community here, especially for when the AA program/life gets into its downs
I've seen Andy's stuff over the past year, and want to stick it to the end.
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Radical
Posts: 1726 | Thanks: 1439
Joined: Sat May 30, 2020 12:02 pm
Name: Cam
Goal: Funnel/Product Building
Age: 29
Motto: Take drastic action

Tue Feb 09, 2021 12:13 pm

@sundleboro

Hey dude welcome

As per our rules you need to post an avatar of yourself (can be cropped or blurred)

If you dont your account will be banned within 3 days
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drz
Posts: 62 | Thanks: 44
Joined: Tue Feb 09, 2021 8:10 pm
Goal: Improve cold approach
Age: 31
Location: UK

Tue Feb 09, 2021 8:45 pm

Hey All. I came here after finding some of the interesting mental health/depression articles (of Andy's), and thought that maybe some of my "game" experiences (or lack of, more correctly) would contrast here.

I come from an academic background, obtaining a PhD in a pharmaceutical field in 2016. Despite this, I graduated with no sexual experience (no pun intended). I eventually developed depression as a result of seeing pretty much every guy around me fall into relationships, and things got pretty dark. After about a year of cognitive behavioural therapy and a flirting class later, I got my first sexual experience and girlfriend shortly after turning 28. I found her via a cold approach, and were arguably some of the richest months of my life.

Fast forward to now, and I've done over 1500 cold approaches in the past 2 years. With one dissatisfying lay and nothing meaningful at the end of it, It's pretty apparent that my "stats" are very below-average. I suspect this' because I have a strong level of anxiety, feeling unsafe whenever I'm around others and thus can't really form connections with total strangers. I've been trying various things to overcome that. I'd say more here, but I've written enough for one post, and am better off starting a new thread.

I, Z, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My goals (next 4 years):
  • - fix the poor approach-to-date ratio
  • - get into a relationship
  • - move to a detached house (I don't get on with my neighbours)
  • - Find a way of perma-reducing anxiety when I'm out.
Yours,
Z
My goals (next 4 years):
- fix the poor approach-to-date ratio
- get into a relationship (done, in one from March 2021)
- move to a detached house
- Find a way of perma-reducing anxiety when I'm out.


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Hakan
Posts: 3 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Wed Feb 10, 2021 11:46 am
Goal: Get laid
Age: 22
Motto: Keep going

Wed Feb 10, 2021 2:38 pm

I, Hakan, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously, 22/Turkey

My goals are:
-Lose my virginity
-Improve my English
-Improve my software skills
-Go to a gym and gain some weights
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