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backz
Posts: 2 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Thu Jun 03, 2021 7:27 pm
Name: J
Goal: Find a unicorn
Age: 32
Motto: I deserve the best and I take it

Thu Jun 03, 2021 7:35 pm

32 from Canada

Recently separated on the path to divorce.

Goals:
- Find the right woman (a unicorn) that I actually connect with and can see a future with while building relationships and some physical connections along the way
- Get into peak physical condition like a god damn adonis
- Stick to my morning routines, formulas and day routines to hit my goals physically, mentally, emotionally and financial as laid out


I'll omit financial goals for now.


I, backz, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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TheKingsGambit
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Joined: Wed Jun 02, 2021 7:38 pm
Name: Nic
Goal: Level Up
Age: 29
Motto: He Who Dares, Wins
Location: Middle East

Fri Jun 04, 2021 7:18 pm

"I, TheKingsGambit commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Lurking for too long and love the vibe and energy of this community. I turn 30 in almost 6 months to the day, which is giving me the motivation to hit some of the biggest goals before I get there.

Earn $500 from freelance writing/editing a week.
Up my photography game, take 5 photos, regardless of quality, every day.
Get to (and maintain) 12 body fat, then put on 10lb muscle.
Reach a century, and 50 flags ;)

Looking forward to connecting with the great guys on here.
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adomaster123
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Joined: Sat Jun 05, 2021 12:15 am
Name: Ado
Goal: Elite Body
Age: 18
Motto: Memento Mori

Sat Jun 05, 2021 12:22 am

I, adomaster123, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

About me:

18 year old male heading off to college. Stereotypical nerd looking to undergo a major metamorphosis.
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Chavesy132
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 5
Joined: Sat Jun 05, 2021 9:47 pm
Goal: Lose my virginity
Age: 22

Sat Jun 05, 2021 10:11 pm

I, Chavesy132 commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hey, I'm 21 living near London. Approaching 22 in couple days and I'm still a virgin.
Looking for help from you guys to hopefully change that
James1994
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Joined: Mon Jun 07, 2021 9:40 am
Goal: Improving style
Age: 26

Mon Jun 07, 2021 12:43 pm

I, James, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hi I’m James 26 from Texas. Looking forward to improving style and improving online dating profile. Recently divorced with decent success on dating apps but feel like I can do better on the apps and in person.
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Radical
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Joined: Sat May 30, 2020 12:02 pm
Name: Cam
Goal: Funnel/Product Building
Age: 29
Motto: Take drastic action

Mon Jun 07, 2021 2:17 pm

@James1994

Hi dude, a profile pic of you is required to use the forum, can be blurred or cropped as per our rules
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Yeahtheone
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Joined: Mon Jun 07, 2021 11:39 pm
Goal: Build Confidence
Age: 32

Tue Jun 08, 2021 1:53 am

I, Zack, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 32 years old. I first found KYIL about 2 months ago from Andy's videos on youtube. I really related to his back story which has motivated me to be better.

My goal summarized is very simple. Be more confident. But its a little more complex than that so I'll go over it in my inaugural post.

In 2016 my girlfriend at the time cheated on me. I was so into this chick, this really fucked me up. But after the break up it caused me to reflect on myself. I'm 6'2 and was 135lbs at the time. I got really into working out and hired a personal trainer. I got up to 170lbs, lean and shredded by 2018 and thats when my journey really began to take my self more serious and getting into the dating world. I'm now almost 180lbs(dry weight) and still very lean. This has helped my mental state ALOT, I'm not nearly as depressed or suicidial as I was back then but I still have lingering depression. I'm not still into that chick but It was just the self reflection that led me be really hard on myself then and in a lot of ways I still am.

Before I get into my "issues" I'll list some positive things I have going for me;

-My online dating profiles seem to work pretty well, I get about 5-15 natural likes a week and about 10-15 likes when I boost(if I boost at the right time).
-I make 80k(USD) a year.
-I dont really have a problem getting girls I want(I have a problem keeping them and I'll get into that below).

Now onto my issue;

I've only slept with 8 women. I dont actually consider that specifically as an issue but its honestly only 8 because of my own choice which I believe has contributed to the mentality that has led to my problem. I've turned down lots of women. The number rating system is really subjective but I would say all of the women ive slept with are 6+. Two of them I would consider 9's. Honestly all i've really ever wanted is a banging hot girlfriend who cares about me and can give me regular sex. So thats what I've been after. I've always felt like I rather go on a date with a high quality women with no guarantee of sex and work towards sex with that person rather than set up a one night stand. I've never had a one night stand, only ever slept with people I was dating. So this is where the problem comes up, unless a girl absolutely adores me, or if shes extremely attractive and I really like her, when we start to have sex I have performance anxiety(hard to maintain erection during sex). I've used viagra and cialis to combat this but its really hard to me to cum on those drugs and surprisingly this I feel bothers these women I've been with(and frustrated me). I would rather not have to resort to these drugs, I've been in a healthy relationship where I didnt need this stuff and had no problem. When I have performance anxiety with someone I really like, it makes me feel really insecure and women pick up on this I think. Im not sure if its caused relationships to fail but it does seem like my relationships fizzle out after we first have sex and this happens.

What I believe the solution might be;

I need to sleep with more women and knock the pussy of the pedestal(so to speak). My game up until this point has just been be the "cute" quiet guy in the corner and have women come up to me. Which to be honest has seemed to work. But its not going to do me any good If I want to get over this issue. I need to work on my "game" to increase the numbers. I think what would do me good is to sleep with more women who are still up to my standard physically but women I'm not emotionally invested in. Since I've always been after women who are very pretty(my type is short and petite/fit) I've tended to be more into them then they are of me emotionally, which gives me the anxiety I think.

I look forward to now browsing this forum in its entirety and giving 110% into resolving this issue. I'm on Step 15 on here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/performa ... e-more-sex
JP3
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Joined: Mon Jun 07, 2021 11:38 pm
Goal: Overcome Fears
Age: 24
Motto: Fears are Lies

Tue Jun 08, 2021 11:56 pm

I, JP3, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I've never had intentional success with women. The only times I have ever succeeded were by pure luck, and it dawned on me after I left college that I have never walked up to a woman and said "Hi, I think your cute".

I initially wanted to work on this problem last year, but then a pandemic happened and I took it seriously. Now that it's over where I live in the Boston area, it's time to fix this fucking problem.

After watching a bunch of videos , I eventually found KYIL through his comment on a video that Ed did on a different channel. Then I watched his videos, and I was hooked. Andy deserves to be way bigger than he currently is. He gives meticulous details on just how these things are going to go without sugar coating any of it, and that style works really well for me.

Infact through his encouragement of me through a damn youtube comment that I left here [ ], I went and did my first approach ever. Getting past that gigantic wall of anxiety and fear was huge for me. But I'll make that a post on its own.

Anyways, I'm glad to have found this community and am looking forward to growing with you all.

If anybody wants to form a groupchat of sorts to keep each other accountable to getting better, let me know.
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ccrvine
Posts: 3 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Tue Jun 08, 2021 6:51 pm
Name: Julio
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 28
Motto: Keep Moving Forward

Wed Jun 09, 2021 3:56 am

Hello dudes,

I, Julio (aka ccrvine), commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

About me:
28 Years Old
Work In Digital Marketing
Brazilian living in Toronto

First would like to send Andy @KillYourInnerLoser some thanks and my love.
I came out of a relationship in March and was going on tinder with no success for about 2 months. While trying to improve my pics I came across his guide and really judged it at first thinking "oh another self-indulgent pickup artist who tries too hard" but for my own luck I decided not to be a prick and listen to the guy before judging him, and shit just by straight up following the ideas/instructions in his guide I banged 4 girls on the 1st date in 3 weeks, never in my life I had girls so easy!!!!! And besides all of that I never felt so confortable in a first date and during first time sex. I even got to dominate (BDSM) one girl and it went pretty fucking well! Because Andy praised ideas like " being honest", "having fun" and "being in the same team", this changed my whole concept on how to go about dates, sex and being way more chill with my insecurities!

Well since than I have had 3 weeks of draught, guess I got too cocky and stopped trying as much , but time to self improve again (constant struggle of life eh!).

Year Goals:
- sex w/ 25 girls this year (at 5 atm)
- Get My own Ad agency Running
- Having my Crypto Mining capabilities go up 5x
- GAINZ - get to 80KG with a BF < 10%, Currently at 76KG with a BF of about 12%

- Be able to play a whole guitar set outdoors (maybe this will be pushing it)
Completed:
- Get a better Job (done last week!)

Short Term Goals:

- Get Better Pics
- Have Better Control of my Focus (I am diagnosed with ADD, or just distracted as fuck )
- Cook my own food
- Finish the sales deck for my Agency
- Get in the habit of running
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zarathustra
Posts: 15 | Thanks: 10
Joined: Sat Jun 12, 2021 1:14 am
Name: Sebastian
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 26

Sat Jun 12, 2021 1:40 am

Hey guys. I, Sebastian, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I am 26 and a software engineer. Been living as a nomad for the past year or so, and I recently split up with a gf of six months. As of last year I have a job that pays pretty well, and while i have other career and entrepreneurial ambitions, for now I want to focus on pursuing women. It's obviously something I've always cared about, but with college, not having a job, and pandemic, I'm now finally well positioned to achieve highly in this regard.

To that end, I'm currently planning my next move and I think it will be to NYC. Having bumble passported around a bit, I've determined it's the highest value play. There are just so many hot women, in particular who seem interested in someone with my "resume", so to speak.

I discovered GLL years ago, and even lurked in Andy's original forum log there. I've been a coaching client of Andy's for about half a year, and I'm looking into getting involved in the group coaching as well.

My primary mid-term goal is to Get Laid More*

In order to achieve that, my actionable 1-3 month goals are:

- Move to NYC (or another city to maximize getting laid)
- Improve my dating profile pictures (they are about 6-12 months outdated; I'm a lot more fit and have better style now)
- Finish upgrading my style (acquired some jewelery and better shoes lately, but still need better pants and shirts)
- Get a bit more shredded (had abs for the first time in my life starting February, but I still have work to do on that front)

*I know goals should have a clearly defined benchmark of success, but it's hard for me to know when I will feel like I've achieved it. The idea is to just fuck girls until I'm satisfied with my sexual achievement. Quantity is not something I care so much about (I've slept with ~60 girls but I don't feel like that means much), but quality is. Success could include things like

- Multiple threesomes with hot girls
- Having a "harem" situation all with girls I think are really hot

Honestly I just want to validate my ego with women, and the hope though is at some point I will feel like "ok, I've done well" and be able to put the desire past me to focus on other things. I have a lot of ambitions, but it's just so hard to focus on them when I feel like I am underperforming sexually.
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CaptainRk
Posts: 3 | Thanks: 3
Joined: Sat Jun 12, 2021 12:59 pm
Name: Dilly
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 27
Motto: Succeed or die trying
Location: Vienna

Sat Jun 12, 2021 1:33 pm

Hi guys, I'm Dilly. Currently living in Vienna as a software developer.

Most of my life I've been quite socially distant from people, rarely went to parties and didn't (still don't) have any (real) friends. After moving to Vienna last year, for the first time in my life, I started working on my social skills, going to Meetup events and attending Salsa courses. I made some improvements and had some momentum going, but had to take a 6 month break due to a brutal lock down over here.

Things are opening up again and I went out for the first time in a long time. I still suffer from social anxiety when it comes to approaching strangers (especially women). Sexually, I got lucky during an exchange abroad when I turned 23. "Lucky", because the girl did most of the moves on me.

My goal is to get laid and boost my confidence (including my confidence in social settings). I want approach women online (i.e. Tinder) and in person, and get laid until I'm basically fed up with it.

Physically, I'm quite fit and career-wise I'm doing great. But it's troubling me to no end that my love life is basically non-existent. I always get queasy when I'm with a bunch of people and we start talking about relationships and/or girls. I want to change that.
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SIGMA_1234
Posts: 951 | Thanks: 328
Joined: Tue Jun 02, 2020 9:13 am
Goal: Digital Nomad Income
Age: 26
Motto: Action > Perfection

Sat Jun 12, 2021 1:42 pm

@KillYourInnerLoser Andy! Would you believe it's about a year now since you ran this forum?

We've got 673 members now! A lot of lurkers, but a lot of action takers, too! You should seriously give yourself a pat in the back; you've grown a really special space for realistic & no BS men to pursue their goals without excuses. This is one of the few spaces that I, ironically, can safely say I can't use excuses to stop pursuing my goals. And other guys feel the same, too.

I also met people here that changed my life & the way I see getting laid & making money.

All hail our lord & savior, Daddy Andy!
Aspiring Digital Nomad

Follow my lifestyle journey log

Fitness:
-) Cut to 56 kg, then bulk after

Sex Enhancement:
-) Bathmate & Kegels

Learning goals:
-) 10 books
-) more note-taking & reviewing of past materials

^^Lifestyle habit tracker can be monitored here.

Learning Chinese Mandarin:
-) Mandarin 365 Project, monitor here.

Follow my business journey log

$ Goals:
-) US$3k/ mo nomad income
-) US$10k/ mo nomad income
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bfg73
Posts: 2 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Sat Jun 12, 2021 10:46 pm
Goal: Get laid
Age: 23

Sun Jun 13, 2021 4:13 am

I, bfg73, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Currently I'm spending a couple months in NYC and want to take this opportunity to go on dates and have sex with girls - I'll start by just saying 1 girl.

I'm here for work, so I obviously also want to excel in my career.

For some more tangible self-improvement goals, I want to limit calories to around 1700 per day and lose about 10 pounds of weight as well as work out 3 times a week. I want to buy a few new outfits that I like and start looking into accessories as well.

I also have some wrist issues, which I want to continue looking into by checking out doctors in the area.
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diamondbackbike
Posts: 10 | Thanks: 4
Joined: Sat Jun 12, 2021 7:32 pm
Name: Jon
Goal: Cultivate relationship
Age: 30

Mon Jun 14, 2021 1:32 am

I, Jon, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I think I have social anxiety and was very shy throughout my life. I thought coming to college changed that, but I was still the same. Fast forward and I've graduated for 4 years. Still, I'm finding myself working toward improving my dating life and creating more meaningful relationship with people, both friendship and romantic relationship.

I've tried approaching women in the past for 1.5 years but it never worked out for some reasons. I'm ok with that, because it's a learning and improving process.
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KingJeremy
Posts: 9 | Thanks: 7
Joined: Mon Jun 14, 2021 2:53 am
Name: Jeremy
Goal: 12 Threesomes in 2021
Age: 25
Motto: I only regret inaction.

Mon Jun 14, 2021 3:18 am

I, Jeremy, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

What's up. My name is Jeremy and I recently moved to Detroit, Michigan.
I set a goal for myself at the beginning of the year to average a threesome a month and so far I'm 4/12.
My other goals include
  • Drop down to <5% body fat.
  • Get my own place instead of living with family.
  • Start a dungeon here in the metro-Detroit area.
  • 365 Day challenge playing the cello / uploading to IG.
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