READ THIS - You MUST post here before you can post anywhere else.

Once you've posted/replied & introduced yourself in here, you'll be able to post in all the other sections of the forum.
Post Reply
User avatar
Posts: 48 | Thanks: 21
Joined: Tue Nov 29, 2022 11:37 pm
Name: Michael
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 20
Motto: Never give up.
Location: Santa Monica

Sat Dec 24, 2022 1:29 am

michaelho068 wrote:
Sat Dec 24, 2022 1:27 am
Manganiello wrote:
Mon Dec 05, 2022 8:40 pm

Sup Michael

I recommend following @Radical's info. He's the defacto style master here.

For your first lay you could probably get it now looking how you look physique wise. Wouldn't take you that long assuming you can translate sales skills into pulling and escalation skills.

Get your style on (1 or 2weeks to do)
Get good pictures (1 or 2 weeks to do)
Get on OLD (premium accounts and boosts) should be able to get a lay within 2 weeks.

I got laid on my second date ever. So it can go pretty quick. Its all the base work that takes time. (Normalizing talking to cute girls, looking good, and being courageous enough to pull and escalate).

Having your own place or even your own car to escalate in makes life a lot easier.

Sales skills translate really well to game.

Anyways good look dude!
Hey bro,

I haven't been on the forum lately but I just saw the comments you made on my posts.

It's actually really nice to hear that you think my current physique can get me laid, because I thought I had to hit the gym for like 1-2 more years before I would consider myself attractive enough to get laid lol.

I didn't seriously consider online dating because I didn't think I looked good enough, but I think I'll put more effort into it since you're saying it can get me laid within 2 weeks.

I've been to a lot of car dealerships lately, and I expect to get my job within 2 weeks. At that point it'll be a breeze to get laid, buy fashionable clothes, etc. Can't wait.

I haven't done the AA program yet, because of the anxiety, but I'm gonna re-commit and try to balance that with my sales job as much as I can.
Self-loathing loser from 13 -> 19 years old.

I'm 20 now with much higher self esteem, higher confidence, and now I'm trying to figure out how to get better with women(and talking to people in general).
User avatar
Posts: 2 | Thanks: 3
Joined: Sat Dec 24, 2022 5:27 pm
Name: Manny
Goal: Lose my V Card
Age: 19

Sat Dec 24, 2022 6:07 pm

Goals for January
- Get a Tinder photoshoot
- Hard reset my Tinder
- Study 1hr per day for my coding class

I, Manny, am commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
User avatar
Posts: 393 | Thanks: 515
Joined: Sat May 21, 2022 11:26 am
Name: Brandon
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 28
Motto: Pursue Purpose
Location: Austin, TX

Sat Dec 24, 2022 6:10 pm

jmand wrote:
Fri Dec 23, 2022 10:54 pm
Hey Everyone! Stoked to be here.

I learned about the forum from B-man, who is in my men's group.

My main goal with being a part of this forum is to get to what I consider to be a 10/10 sex life.

To me, that looks like:
- Great consistent sex and relationship with my primary partner
- Multiple friends with benefits that I have excellent sex with (2 or more)
- Approaching and pulling women that I see out - that is, having new women enter my sex life consistently and having the confidence to make that happen with the women who attract me in my daily life.
- Exploring full expression of my sexual energy through mind-bendingly hot sessions
- Continuing on my journey of multiple orgasms (10 years in the making...) and ejaculating pretty rarely (1-2 times/month).

I've got pretty good mastery of my sexual energy, function, and pleasure right now, but it's probably at like an 8/10 - want to push that up to 10/10.

Also would love to help all of you guys reach your goals, too!

Oh, and...

I, Jesse, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Appreciate you all!
Fucking legend right here. Welcome aboard, brother.
Lay Count: 21

Public Log: viewtopic.php?f=42&t=1397
Lay Reports: viewtopic.php?f=40&t=1536
365 Day Project: viewtopic.php?f=42&t=1801

"Absorb what is useful. Reject what is useless. Add what is essentially your own." - Bruce Lee
User avatar
Posts: 7 | Thanks: 3
Joined: Mon Dec 26, 2022 2:10 am
Goal: Get Better Everyday
Age: 27
Location: San Diego

Mon Dec 26, 2022 3:12 am

27, living in San Diego.

I'd like to turn myself around. Struggled with low self-esteem and anxiety for most of my life.

It's going to be very difficult but action needs to be taken.

get better with people (having more success with women, making new friends)
become a more likable, positive, and confident individual (I'd like to attract people into my life and not repel/push them away like I tend to do)
get in shape and hit the gym again (gain muscle)

like to achieve:
a more expansive social circle
a dating life (put myself out there and have an abundance mindset)
a sense of purpose and direction with my career

Hit me up if you're in the SD area and we can talk

I, vbc, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
User avatar
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 3
Joined: Mon Dec 26, 2022 10:18 pm
Name: Matt
Goal: Start a family
Age: 36
Motto: Don't count on me; I engineer.
Location: Sacramento, CA

Mon Dec 26, 2022 10:50 pm

TLDR: 36/M/Sacramento, Committed AF.

I, Matt, am completely committed to working on my goddamn goals and taking my shit seriously.

Goal(s) when it comes to women:

I want to have sex with 20 girls
  • I want to have a 3-some
  • I want to get more experience with BDSM
  • I want to photograph beautiful girls naked
I want to socialize with girls and get more dating experience
  • I want to go on 50 dates
  • I want to date girls who are cute, fun, and not overweight
I want to find a high quality girlfriend who:
  • Puts me first
  • Is petite/slender
  • Submissive in bed
  • Has tan-lines
  • Doesn’t smoke
User avatar
Posts: 1740 | Thanks: 1272
Joined: Sat May 30, 2020 12:02 pm
Name: Cam
Goal: Funnel/Product Building
Age: 29
Motto: Take drastic action

Tue Dec 27, 2022 1:58 am

welcome @marbles__
My Style & Image Programme (Video Course + Coaching):
User avatar
Posts: 1 | Thanks:
Joined: Tue Dec 27, 2022 11:50 pm
Goal: Laid
Age: 27

Wed Dec 28, 2022 12:02 am

I’m bcap

I, bcap, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

27 from the USA, living in Florida

Current goals for 2023
- reach lifting goals, cut to 10% bf
- get 12 lays this year
User avatar
Posts: 1 | Thanks:
Joined: Fri Dec 30, 2022 5:36 pm
Goal: Lose fat
Age: 25
Motto: Can't stay comfortable

Fri Dec 30, 2022 6:06 pm

I, Leunammon, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 25 and have let life pass me by. I will achieve my goals and make something of myself.

Goals for the next year:
  • Lose weight and get back into shape
  • Take the medical admission test
  • Get into med school
  • Get laid
User avatar
Posts: 2 | Thanks:
Joined: Fri Dec 30, 2022 5:33 pm
Name: Seth
Goal: Improve Physique
Age: 20
Motto: Honesty is the Greatest Aphrodisiac

Fri Dec 30, 2022 8:31 pm

What's up people. I'm Flaneur from Boston, MA. Found this place looking for a guide on taking tinder pics and thought "oh what the hell."

My goals are as follows:
-Add on about 30 lbs of muscle over the next 3-4 years - I've always been pretty scrawny and I want to get to around 190-200 lbs when fully cut (currently 185 at 10% BF)
-Learn to box and dance
-Get online dating profiles setup with GOOD pictures
-Develop a personal style
-Get some tats, maybe an ear piercing? Gotta figure out what looks good
-Learn to go out alone and do so 3-4 times a week (this is a big one for me)
-defeat approach anxiety
-Grow my business from 'side-hustle' status to a full-time endeavor.

Super excited to be here with you all!

And of course, I, Flaneur, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
User avatar
Posts: 22 | Thanks: 13
Joined: Sun Jan 01, 2023 4:27 pm
Name: Max
Goal: to become disciplined
Age: 31

Sun Jan 01, 2023 5:31 pm

Hello everyone,
I'm Iceman But you can call me Max!
I've been called Iceman by my colleagues as i practice the Wim Hof Method and i only wear shirts hench te name! Ironically i still have to take the Icebath challenge! Which definitely is on the program.

i'm 30, almost 31 and i live in The Netherlands.

The reason i joined the forum is that i really want to better my self-discipline and willpower. I also want to work on my integrity which all are linked together.
Its not that i was that flawed with these, its more that i'm not happy with the results so far and i want to improve those results.

I currently work as a house painter which i really like. But i'm still working for a boss and i want to have my own hybrid paint company between now and 5 years. (Hybrid as in, i'm also a creative person who's a photographer and music producer. I'd like to do freelance creative jobs too in the future. But i don't want to quit painting just yet as i do really enjoy the job even if its manual labor.)

I've been working out for about 10 years now. With the main focus being health over size these last years.

There's also work to be done regarding dating. I've got laid about 20 times, but as i'm approaching 31 and i haven't had that much action these last years (only had one lay in 2022) i have a feeling that i missing out on something and i want to have some additional casual experiences. I do want to find someone serious in the future though. But its not my main goal.

: Goals in 5 years (work in progres list)
- Having my own Paint/creative hybrid company.
- The paint company has to be fully focused on bio-based paints)
- Having no financial worries anymore (I don't have to be mad weathy myself. but i don't want to have any financial worries anymore either)
- Finishing the music course i will attend this september.
- having build proper integrity and a steel-like willpower/discipline
- reached impressive strength and health feats like muscle ups front back lever, one armed push-ups with good form etc.
- Had quality casual experiences (additional 20 + lays)
- Read and implimented over 100 books.

: Goals in 1 year
- stick to a weekly personal vlog here on the forum. (Integrity/discipline goal)
- Saving atleast 5000 Euro's (Financial worry goal)
- changing company/ getting a better salary deal (Financial worry goal)
- Having atleast 5 'own' paint jobs (Paint company goal)
- Starting the music Course in september (Music Course goal)
- finishing 6 bought masterclasses which just lay around. (music course/willpower goal)
- Mastered the muscle up with perfect form. (Strength and health goal)
- get to atleast 12% bodyfat (14 now), if this goes really well the goal will be shifted to 11 and maybe even 10.
- no alcohol for a year (discipline/willpower)
- no porn/masturbation for a year (discipline/willpower)
- limited bad junk foods. No take outs (discipline/willpower)
- Read 20 books and impliment the knowledge through creating a mindmap about them. (discipline/book goal)

: January Goals
- stick to a weekly personal vlog here on the forum. (Integrity/discipline goal)
- saving atleast 800 (financial worry goal)
- Finishing 1 masterclass (music/will power goal)
- Consistingly work out 3 times a week for the month without skipping a workout. A bad workout is better than no workout (strength/discipline)
- No alcohol for a month. Even if its my birthday the 20th. Nope nada. (discipline/willpower)
- reach the month without porn/fap (discipline/willpower)
- reach 70kgs again (72.5kgs now) (Strength and health goal)
- Having my morning routine back in check (waking up > reading 20 mins > meditation 10 - 15 mins > Ear training app > GTG) (discipline/willpower)
- Finishing 3 books, (How to win friends & influence people > Atomic Habits > Loving What Is) (book/discipline goal)

Damn its quite the list reviewing it back. Honestly? i'm terrified and super stoked at the same time. Especially the vlog thing, But i think its essential to do in order to really get yourself in the works with it. And also just being able to look back on the journey one went is a gift on its own.

I Max commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
: Febuary Goals 2023
- Continueing the vlogs, get better microphone
- increase savings to atleast 1200
- Finishing 1 masterclass on music production
- Keep the morning routine in check.
- Keeping up with the workout consistency.
- No take outs regarding food
- Continueing the streak of no drinking/fapping
- Reach 12% bodyfat.
- Continueing the IF protocol.
- Read 1 book and write.
- Write atleast one inquiry of The Work a day.
User avatar
Posts: 40 | Thanks: 5
Joined: Mon Jan 02, 2023 2:15 pm
Goal: Get laid & retain
Age: 27
Motto: The grass is greener where you water it

Mon Jan 02, 2023 2:28 pm

I, Mindset, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I've read Andy's Tinder guide and the Slight edge summary/guide

I found the website through a lucky google search and have been in the space for a while but have not been taking it as seriously as I should.

Goals February 6th:

1: Get laid and retain two girls
2: Make $500 in revenue with my online business

1: Finish my 20-pack of teeth whitening strips
2: Learn how to play chess
3: add 2 pictures to my dating/online profile

Look forward to learning from you guys and later on giving advice where possible.
Goals for April 24th


1. Dating
1 New Lay with online dating
1 New Lay with cold approach
Do 30 Approaches at least

2. Sales (0331 (mini-goal))
150% my monthly sales quota

365 Day Challenge Photography

4. Looks & Fitness (0320 (mini-goal))
Cut weight for a month starting with a 300 calories a day + 200gr protein
User avatar
Posts: 6 | Thanks: 4
Joined: Wed Jan 04, 2023 2:04 am
Goal: Emotionally secure
Age: 22

Wed Jan 04, 2023 2:16 am

I, Will, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My #1 goal is to be emotionally secure on relationships, had TERRIBLE experiences on heartbreaks and I'm looking forward to be a better man realizing I could have ton more options once a relationship is over.

Came from DC7 yt channel to GLL and completed half of the AA program (realized I was able to hit on girls already) and migrated here for an active community.
User avatar
Posts: 5 | Thanks: 5
Joined: Wed Jan 04, 2023 9:50 pm
Name: Bradley
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 21
Location: Orlando, Florida, USA

Wed Jan 04, 2023 10:06 pm

My number one goal is to lose my virginity in 2023. I am autistic and have difficulty interacting with women, and have some body fat to lose as well. I am around 187 lbs (85 kg), down from 286 lbs (130 kg) four years ago. I am skinny fat and my goal is to lose ~15 lbs (7 kg) in two months by implementing a strength training routine and adhering to a 1,800-2,200 calorie/day, high-protein diet. Unfortunately, I developed a oneitis for a crush I met on a group trip. She has a vivacious personality and great smile, and I am obsessed w/ her. My goal is still to interact with more women and try to get laid, despite the effort required to find a girl like her and attract her. I will continue attend group therapy once a week, in addition to regular therapy and psychiatry sessions, to deal with my issues relating to obsessive crushes and autism. My goal is to earn $50-70k+ for my first job out of college. I had a intro phone call for a remote analyst role today, and have multiple job interviews next week. I plan to hit the gym as soon as I recover from being sick. I hope 2023 is a year full of prosperity and love :)

I, dedicated individual, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
Last edited by 1prctbetterdaily on Fri Jan 06, 2023 12:44 am, edited 1 time in total.
"My happiness is not the means to any end. It is the end. It is its own goal. It is its own purpose."-Ayn Rand, Anthem
User avatar
Posts: 3 | Thanks: 4
Joined: Tue Dec 27, 2022 11:54 pm
Name: Ketan
Goal: Love Myself
Age: 33
Motto: Just. Beasting.
Location: Oakville, Ontario, CA

Wed Jan 04, 2023 10:16 pm

Hey Guys, very excited to finally be on the forums!

My name is Ketan Seth and my Social Media/YT Handles are @intellectual.muscle or IntellectualMuscle across different platforms.

I've been listening to Andy's podcasts and YT for a while now, first finding it through the Approach Anxiety program and then realizing there is actually an active community on here that is working together to better themselves!

I've been in self-improvement for over 15 years now (Zyzz & GLL were my first ever idol/mentor) and started Pick Up about 2 years ago as a means to get over my fears of "not being good enough".

I have since documented my journey on my Youtube channel :-
my IG :-

I've learnt from and worked with Alex from PWF, John Sonmez from Bulldog Mindset, John Anthony, Todd V and Zebotta, a bunch of their podcasts have been posted on my channel.

In the past 3 years I've made a crazy body transformation.

Wr.t. Pick Up moved from a Socially Awkward Retard with crazy Approach Anxiety & done a BUNCH of Day Games with some AMAZING interactions. Did a little bit of night game too but not enough.

Started off helping others via my Youtube and Podcasts where I share every bit of my journey and my successes and failures and coach others like us going from heartbroken, low self-confidence etc Incels to Getting Laid.

My Goals

Wr.t. Game these are all the things I haven't done that I wish to explore :
-Pull from Clubs/Bars repeatedly
-Greater engagement with Higher Quality Women
-Older Women (LOVE Cougars and need to find my Mrs. Robinsons <3 )

I am looking to get back into Game BIG time for a period of 3-6 months at least and see what's capable with a 100% focus on nothing but Game (which has pretty much NEVER been able to happen so far). At some point, I would maybe even want to take a "world tour" or at least hop on the top few countries with a bunch of guys all looking to slay together.

I am actually looking for active wings in the GTA, I live in Oakville currently myself and would love to have someone to team up with to hit the Night Game locations.

I, Ketan/Intellectual Muscle, commit to working on my next goals of exploring night games and a crazy debaucherous sex life SERIOUSLY.
I'm the big brother with tough love you didn't even know you needed.

Youtube :-

Instagram :-
User avatar
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Fri Jan 06, 2023 12:27 pm
Name: Toni
Goal: Get laid more
Age: 21
Motto: Cupid ready to shoot

Fri Jan 06, 2023 12:34 pm

I, Toni, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I have some experience (20 lays) but have been in a dry spell for the last few months and I am commited to changing that for good. I am a Uni student (21 years) in a medium/small city in Europe

Current goals:
-Sleep with at least 10 new girls in 2023 and retain the ones that I enjoy spending time with.
-Gain 6 kg of muscle and hit 87 kg (current weight 81 kg)
-Have an overall satisfying dating life
Post Reply