Here’s a topic that’s extremely close to my heart – guys in their late 20’s or 30’s feeling like it’s “too late” for them, feeling like they’ll never get laid, feeling like that ship has sailed.
And look, I get it – I myself didn’t really start trying to get laid and working on my self-improvement until I was about 28. And god knows I had a lot of anxiety (“terror” is a better word for it) around whether or not I’d ever be able to get laid. I was convinced it was “too late” and I’d missed out on too much time to ever be able to build the life I wanted.
And guess what?
I was fucking wrong.
Getting laid in my 30’s is not only possible – it’s really freaking easy. By dedicating myself to my own self-improvement and making sure I was just a little bit better every single day, I built myself a sex and dating life I’m incredibly pleased with. I get laid now far easier than I ever could in my 20’s – completely blowing my fears of “it’s too late for me” out of the water.
All those fears I had, all those insecurities, all the worry that women wouldn’t like me in my 30’s or that it’d be too late to change… That was all complete BS.
Completely unfounded.
Complete nonsense.
I’ve never been so unbelievably glad to have been wrong about something in all my life.
If you find yourself with the same fears – “I missed out on my 20’s!” – I’m here hat you need is a dose of harsh reality; a pep talk. That’s what I’m here for:
Now get out there and build the life you want. Build a life that’d make the 20-year-old you incredibly jealous; and incredibly happy.
And if you need some coaching to get your mind right – click here.
-Andy
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This is me. I’m trying to change but it’s hard. Every time I try to improve my life I end up getting depressed and losing my progress. Your site does give me hope but it’s hard to keep pushing when I’ve been struggling with nothing positive in my life for so many years.
Like you mention in your vid, I wasted a lot of time worried about small age differences, thinking early 20s women wouldn’t date a guy in his late twenties. Which I now realize was dumb. But now I’m in my thirties and wondering if I’m actually hitting the realistic limits on attracting prime-age women. I don’t want to keep making the same mistake and wasting more time, but do they really go for 15+ year age gaps as easily as 5-10 years? I know you said you’re 33-34 but I’m just barely starting at the same age, even worse than you were in your mid twenties.
It would take me at least a couple years to really turn my life around but by then I’d be in my mid thirties. Is it possible at all to go for 18-24 year-olds in your mid-late thirties or 25-30 in your forties? Just seems like a big stretch which kills my motivation to even try. Even ~20-year-olds I see with much older guys, they’re usually early thirties at most.
Sorry for venting/whining but these things weigh on me a lot.
Instead of wondering whether it’s possible, why don’t you try and find out? Nobody’s stopping except the bullshit fears you’re letting hold you back.
You’re your own worst enemy. You’re the only one stopping yourself from banging 18 year olds. I’ve literally done fucking videos and testimonials from guys who were VIRGINS AT AGE 31 who now bang 18-21 year old girls.
So, no more excuses. Go out and work on yourself and bang some hotties. Hit me up for coaching (you clearly need it) – here:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching
But no more bitching. Either fix your issues or don’t. But choose one. “I’m not sure if I can do it” is you wasting my time and your own time. I’m going to ignore anything else you write unless it’s “Ok I’ll do coaching” or “I took your advice and I’ve now had sex with an 18yo”.
-Andy