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You are not behind. You’re beginning.

We've all got to start somewhere.

Peace comes from honesty, not perfection.

Give yourself permission to be human, and then just work on improving a little each day.

10 Things I’m Grateful For in YOU (Happy Thanksgiving!)

I'm grateful for you.

I Don’t Teach the ABCs, I Teach You Poetry (Sex/Dating)

Let’s build you into the man you know you can be.

Anger Toward Women Is Almost Always Fear in Disguise

And by admitting your fears, you can start to do something about it.

Tactics Without Heart Become Manipulation

You're allowed to just be fucking HONEST with women.

Men Are Really, Really Nice

You guys are awesome human beings.

You’re Allowed to Feel Worthy While You Grow (Self-Love)

You're doing a good job.

Honesty is So Important It’s Tattooed On My Body

Speak truth.

Yes, You Can Still Cold Approach in 2026 (and 2035, and 2075…)

Cold approach will never die.

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About Me

Hey, I’m Andy. I went from depressed and suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy.

I overcame depression, lost 77lbs, learned to approach women, explored a bunch of amazing 3somes & other experiences, taught myself BDSM, was in a 7-year amazing relationship with my past-partner Immy, and have met so many beautiful women since. I learned to love myself & embrace each day with gratitude and positivity.

I’ve built a fulfilling business coaching other men & women to do what I (and hundreds of other clients) have done. More than anything, I feel peaceful, happy and full of love.

If we can do this stuff, you sure as hell can too.