New here? Start with my in-depth guides:

One Tiny Win Today Is Enough

The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. So, start. Now.

Getting Laid Isn’t that Complicated (And I’m Just a Dating Coach Who’s Nice to You)

Dating often feels complicated... but it really isn't.

The World is Cynical – So I Became a Hope Merchant.

I believe in you. And my goal is: to get you to believe in *yourself*.

Hiding Makes You Fragile — Radical Vulnerability Sets You Free

The truth has nothing to hide.

Fun fact: I used to overthink texts more than you do.

Texting, and dating in general, will get easier with practice. I promise.

My first approach in my 20s? I almost died.

It's ok if your first few approaches suck too.

Years ago I couldn’t even look women in the eye…

If I can change, you sure as hell can too.

If she ghosts you, it’s because she’s scared of how handsome you are.

Ghosting is almost always a reflection of THEM, not you.

You are not behind. You’re beginning.

We've all got to start somewhere.

Peace comes from honesty, not perfection.

Give yourself permission to be human, and then just work on improving a little each day.

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About Me

Hey, I’m Andy. I went from depressed and suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy.

I overcame depression, lost 77lbs, learned to approach women, explored a bunch of amazing 3somes & other experiences, taught myself BDSM, was in a 7-year amazing relationship with my past-girlfriend, and have met so many beautiful women since. I learned to love myself & embrace each day with gratitude and positivity.

I’ve built a fulfilling business coaching other men & women to do what I (and hundreds of other clients) have done. More than anything, I feel peaceful, happy and full of love.

If we can do this stuff, you sure as hell can too.