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I'm so grateful for all the time we had together.

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Sometimes I'm great at giving out advice, but forget to take it myself...

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About Me

Hey, I’m Andy. I went from depressed and suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy.
I overcame depression, lost 77lbs, learned to approach women, explored a bunch of amazing 3somes & other experiences, taught myself BDSM, was in a 7-year amazing relationship with my past-partner Immy, and have met so many beautiful women since. I learned to love myself & embrace each day with gratitude and positivity.
I’ve built a fulfilling business coaching other men & women to do what I (and hundreds of other clients) have done. More than anything, I feel peaceful, happy and full of love.
If we can do this stuff, you sure as hell can too.
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