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Short Guys Will NEVER Get Girls??

A must-read for those of you who are shorter, this is the most comprehensive answer I've ever given to the complaint, "I can't get laid because I'm short".

STOP Suppressing Your Emotions! (They’re Trying to TELL You Something.)

You've been doing emotions wrong - misusing one of the BEST tools for self-improvement you have available to you.

I Don’t Feel Great, Guys.

I've been feeling a bit down the last few days - long story. But I sat down to do this bit of content anyway...

How to Beat Your Approach Anxiety

Brandon from my forums joins me to talk about how the AA Program changed both our lives, the wildest (and funniest) memories we made along the way, and advice for people thinking of doing it themselves.

Tinder Burnout

Feeling frustrated and annoyed by your lack of results on Tinder? Don't stress, I've got the solution.

31yo Virgin Short Guy Now Gets Laid a Tonne?

You're going to love this MUST LISTEN success story from one of my long-time clients, Ed, who went from being a 31 year depressed virgin to an ass-kicking machine who's slept with 12 women so far, overcome his approach anxiety and even started taking photos with models for his Tinder photos.

Why I Advocate Honesty (Why the Truth Matters)

Spoiler: It's not because "it's the right thing to do"...

Pain and Pleasure

Why spanking and other forms of pain are a hell of a lot of fun - for her, and for you.

How I Beat Depression & Learned to be an Optimist (My Story)

Andy talks about his battles with depression, abusive relationships, misery - and ultimately - redemption.

Make the Gym FUN

Hate having to go to the gym? I do too - here's my fix.


About Me

Yo, Andy here. I’m an Aussie guy who went from a depressed, suicidal loser to a guy who gets laid a tonne (proof here, including vids and pics), has 3somes, 4somes & BDSM sex, crushes weights at the gym, coaches other guys with their own journeys & generally loves his life. (My full transformation story here).

Here’s why I write for this site. I killed my inner loser. It’s my mission to get you to kill your inner loser too.

I’ve done all this shit – and I’m nothing special. You can do everything I’ve done. My coaching clients & my readers have gone on to kick ass too – many of them have lost their virginity, others have gone from zero friends to having solid social circles. Many have overcome mental health issues including depression. Some have made massive progress in the gym & with their weight loss; others have started cold approaching girls during the daytime and getting laid pretty successfully.

I offer coaching & counselling if you’re interested. Or if you’re short on cash, go read my (completely free) 130,000-word Get Laid a Tonne on Tinder series – it’s the complete resource for improving your looks, losing weight, getting matches, messaging girls, going on dates, getting laid, and retaining girls afterwards.

I’ll repeat this so it’s damn clear: None of us were anything special. If we’ve all gotten our shit together, you sure as hell can too.