New here? Start with my in-depth guides:

Nash (Days of Game) on Sex, Honesty & Building Big Beautiful Things

The legendary Nash from Days of Game joins me to talk self-improvement, women, playing to win, and so much more.

Why Most People Quit Self-Improvement (COMFORTABLY UNCOMFORTABLE)

The first few weeks can be a struggle. But if you just push through, greatness awaits you.

One Tiny Act of Kindness May Change the World

I wonder how many of you have had a positive impact on other people's lives, and you'll never realise it.

How to Get a Girl into BDSM

Nervous about starting BDSM, and have no idea where to begin? Read this.

Short Coaching Call with Andy

Limited time only. Don't miss out.

The Best DATING GAMEPLANS (Should You Do 1st Date Lays?)

Andy & Cam cover five different dating styles, including first date lays, waiting a little longer before having sex, and waiting a *really* long time before having sex.

What is Coaching ACTUALLY Like? (Inside Look)

Ever wondered what the Kill Your Inner Loser experience is ACTUALLY like?

You Are In Control of the Story You Write (Extreme Ownership)

You're the architect of your own life; the master of your fate.

AI is Coming & May Wipe Us All Out. Here’s How to Make Peace with it.

My thoughts on using stoicism and self-improvement to steel yourself against your fear of death - and fear of the death of humanity.

The Bicycle & the Tree (Winners Mindset vs Losing Mindset)

Success is like riding a bicycle.


About Me

Hey, I’m Andy. I went from depressed and suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy.

I overcame depression, lost 77lbs, learned to approach women, had 100+ 3somes, taught myself BDSM, at the time of writing I’ve been in a relationship with my lovely partner Immy for 6 years, we date and sleep with women together. I learned to love myself & embrace each day with gratitude and positivity.

I’ve built a 5-figures-a-month business coaching other men & women to do what I (and hundreds of other clients) have done. More than anything, I feel peaceful, happy and full of love.

If we can do this stuff, you sure as hell can too.