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“She’s Not Yours; It’s Just Your Turn” (The Red Pill)
Andy takes issue with the classic Red Pill saying.

Immy’s Thoughts: On Being Alpha
Andy's girlfriend shares her thoughts on guys being alpha & trying to be perfect all the time.

Discipline & Willpower Don’t Fucking Matter
Andy is the laziest bastard ever - but it doesn't even matter.

Why Your Tinder Photos are Bad Quality / Blurry
Andy explains why you shouldn't stress about Tinder lowering the quality of your photos.

Kino and Escalation During the Corona Crisis (How to be an ALPHA MALE)
Andy shows you how to Kino and Escalate like a true Alpha Male™

Recommendations – Books, Podcasts & Videos
Andy shares the books, movies, podcasts that have changed his life.

Musings of a Non-Completionist 3: Why I Write for This Site
Andy shares what he gets out of writing.

Get Laid on Tinder – Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
Andy answers all your questions about the Get Laid a Tonne on Tinder series.
About Me

Hey, I’m Andy. I went from depressed and suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy.
I overcame depression, lost 77lbs, learned to approach women, explored a bunch of amazing 3somes & other experiences, taught myself BDSM, was in a 7-year amazing relationship with my past-partner Immy, and have met so many beautiful women since. I learned to love myself & embrace each day with gratitude and positivity.
I’ve built a fulfilling business coaching other men & women to do what I (and hundreds of other clients) have done. More than anything, I feel peaceful, happy and full of love.
If we can do this stuff, you sure as hell can too.
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