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Musings of a Non-Completionist

Andy sucks at finishing what he st...

Andy’s Guide to Fixing Erectile Dysfunction (ED) & Performance Anxiety

Andy's had his share of performance anxiety in the past, and dealt with it in a rather unconventional manner...

How to Breakup / End Things Amicably with People

Andy makes breaking up with a girls a little easier for you (and her).

My Current Tinder Profile (including 3somes/BDSM)

Andy posts his current Tinder profile, the rationale behind it, and a general guide for getting your own Tinder set up.

This is All Just a Big Experiment

Andy's just here to experiment and have fun - and you should too.

Pump Out a Tonne of Content (and Some of it Will be Gold)

Andy cranks out 5 articles in less than a day, making a case for quantity over quality.

You Can be Better than Your Idols

Andy wants you to go 20 times the distance he ever did.

Eventually You’ll End Up Slowing Down

Andy did what he never thought he'd do - he settled. You will too, when you're ready.

Assorted Tidbits from My Dating Past [Storytime with Andy]

Andy shares some random musings & goofy stories from his bed.

Honesty is Always the Best Policy

Andy aims for honesty at all times, because it's a million times easier than keeping a bullshit lie going.

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About Me

Hey, I’m Andy. I went from depressed and suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy.

I overcame depression, lost 77lbs, learned to approach women, explored a bunch of amazing 3somes & other experiences, taught myself BDSM, was in a 7-year amazing relationship with my past-girlfriend, and have met so many beautiful women since. I learned to love myself & embrace each day with gratitude and positivity.

I’ve built a fulfilling business coaching other men & women to do what I (and hundreds of other clients) have done. More than anything, I feel peaceful, happy and full of love.

If we can do this stuff, you sure as hell can too.