Thu Jan 05, 2023 7:47 pm
Agreed with Manga - as ever, we can focus on action as a precipitant of success, but I would like to add an angle on what my action & work taught me about empowering ways in which we can access abundance through internal, as opposed to external, means.
Abundance can go beyond things like attraction and sex. Abundance can be a level of consciousness, a state of mind.
We evolve with our thinking, because there is part of us that does not want us to suffer, and is working on realising our greatest good for us.
When I used to look at attraction and sex from a perspective of gathering the lays and working towards 'abundance', which I understood as being able to get sex with new girls regularly, funnily enough, I often ended up in the dungeon.
Why is that?
I was focused on the external results.
In the real world, women are a multi variate, and are complicated, but certain truths are self evident: there’s different levels of attractiveness in this world, some of us may have external selves which are not everyone’s cup of tea, but of course may be beautiful inside, and hence may not be able to have the flow and sort of ‘conversion’ if you like that one may seek.
....AT THAT stage of their development.
Attractiveness is malleable, subject to change, and can be improved over a time horizon, and it stands to basic principles of logic and reason that with an increase in attractiveness, communications, masculinity, vibe, and game, every male can hope very justifiably and rightly for a better day.
It will just unfold IN TIME. And with time, there will be joy, happiness, love and passionate sex. It is inevitable.
So how do you best manage that whilst keeping a sense of positivity?
….It’s still a road, and when traversing a road that is, in and of itself, a multivariate, the stories we tell and the doubts we have are prone to flare, because if it was simple, you’d not think twice. You don’t doubt your ability to lift a pen, and you as such have no fears over your ability to do it.
Because I found getting the sort of sex life I’d like quite arduous, it inevitably would become tiresome and then eat away at me, and pull me down into lower states of mind, lack, scarcity, and then the lowest levels of consciousness indeed.
That happened again and again, but for myself, and I can only share my experience, I kept working on myself at every level, and began to see things differently as I healed and grew more in my mindset, and my own healing which I do via transparency.
There is a way to turn the ‘negative’ into positive, and help get out of the dungeon: abundance can be thought of in different ways.
Abundance can be an ecosystem of internal value, positive emotions, and self love, appreciation, and belief in the goodness of the human animal, in fighting for a better world, in believing that a reduction of the world’s suffering is possible through the shining of one’s internal light.
When a certain value in oneself is held, and internalised through self improvement, you find joy in little things, feelings of success bloom within you, and I think this does radiate into our relations with women and subsequent ability to get great experiences alongside them.
The true prize is sinking into our deep masculine core.
The true prize is our state of mind, the sense of entitlement, the sense that, yes – I am enough, I deserve good things, and if I do good for myself and others, SUCCESS IS INEVITABLE!!!!
That is where deep internal abundance can flourish.
When one loves themselves, and when one truly appreciates the goodness and beauty that is within themselves, YOU CANNOT BE DEFEATED. You will bounce back and win, every time.
This approach to abundance is one I came to after almost 1.5 years of absolutely full-on, deep, hardcore self improvement, 1000+ day game approaches in this time, 100+ dates, 9 lays, and endless, endless work on myself.
All approaches are valid, and what Pancake says is valid for him, Holden’s take valid for him – we are all individual men, but my truth to you all my brothers, is that anyone on the self improvement journey is a force for good in this world and will always get my love & respect.
MAC