(Roundtable Discussion) Guys Who've Gotten Laid from Cold Approach
- Adam
- Posts: 393 | Thanks: 255
- Joined: Tue Jan 05, 2021 3:53 pm
- Name: Adam
- Goal: Lose Fat
- Age: 34
- Motto: Become someone you admire
Question for Andy: Have you ever seen someone get comfortable with approaching girls by just jumping into it without doing the AA program? Or have you always seen better results from guys who went through the program?
2022 Goals:
(1) Get Abs
(2) Get to 15 lifetime lays (currently at 10)
(3) Move to a new city with lots of single girls - DONE 6/12
(1) Get Abs
(2) Get to 15 lifetime lays (currently at 10)
(3) Move to a new city with lots of single girls - DONE 6/12
- MakingAComeback
- Posts: 4253 | Thanks: 4964
- Joined: Tue Jan 19, 2021 1:17 pm
- Goal: 3k Per Month Post Tax
- Age: 32
- Motto: POSITIVE SELF TALK
You guys are a fucking inspiration, I appreciate you very much for working on getting to a high level in life.
-Your friend, Ravi
Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential
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Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential
My FB Group for Consistent Performance & Goal Achievement
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- Yaxir
- Posts: 87 | Thanks: 15
- Joined: Wed May 12, 2021 10:07 am
- Goal: Get Laid / Lose Fat
- Age: 26
- Location: Istanbul
thanks @KillYourInnerLoser , @Crisis_Overcomer (haha , the Mjolnir really made me laugh - don't worry , i will try to have as good fundamentals as possible when doing my first ever cold approach later this month ) and @SIGMA_1234 ( very detailed description and you described it very well - hits the points i was really worried about , also motivates me to approach )
also Sigma , thanks for pointing out the theorizing and mental masturbation bullshit .. it's overthinking shit too much
i have to get rid of that ASAP !
Just to provide a little bit of background;
By heritage , i am from a generally conservative Muslim country , which is why i asked these questions
I am sure other people with similar backgrounds have similar fears / anxieties - but we can only grow by overcoming them !
this forum gives me hope that i can change and i will !
great day my mates !
also Sigma , thanks for pointing out the theorizing and mental masturbation bullshit .. it's overthinking shit too much
i have to get rid of that ASAP !
Just to provide a little bit of background;
By heritage , i am from a generally conservative Muslim country , which is why i asked these questions
I am sure other people with similar backgrounds have similar fears / anxieties - but we can only grow by overcoming them !
this forum gives me hope that i can change and i will !
great day my mates !
- Yaxir
- Posts: 87 | Thanks: 15
- Joined: Wed May 12, 2021 10:07 am
- Goal: Get Laid / Lose Fat
- Age: 26
- Location: Istanbul
btw is there a main thread for this ?
where can i find this on the forum ?
- SIGMA_1234
- Posts: 951 | Thanks: 328
- Joined: Tue Jun 02, 2020 9:13 am
- Goal: Digital Nomad Income
- Age: 28
- Motto: Action > Perfection
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- Pickashoe
- Posts: 9 | Thanks: 5
- Joined: Mon Nov 23, 2020 12:52 am
- Goal: Improve my life
- Age: 22
I have a few questions:
-How to keep being motivated when there's shit weather? I just feel depressed when it's a shit weather, I don't think theres any trick except to force yourself but still I'd like your opinion.
-Do you guys live far away from the spots you approach? For me it's something like 1 hour train trajects to get to good approaching spots, so it's difficult for me to get shit done and not procrastinate. But maybe I should just force myself, don't know.
-How to keep being motivated when there's shit weather? I just feel depressed when it's a shit weather, I don't think theres any trick except to force yourself but still I'd like your opinion.
-Do you guys live far away from the spots you approach? For me it's something like 1 hour train trajects to get to good approaching spots, so it's difficult for me to get shit done and not procrastinate. But maybe I should just force myself, don't know.
- Toast
- Posts: 872 | Thanks: 1106
- Joined: Thu Feb 04, 2021 12:31 am
- Name: Devin
- Goal: Japanese Plate
- Age: 29
- Motto: The Time to Hesitate Has Ceased
- Location: Tokyo
- Contact:
Nice a time crunch. Puts the pressure on to succeed. Needed some sort of external motivation to make me push even harder.KillYourInnerLoser wrote: ↑Sun Jun 06, 2021 10:30 pmThat means you have 5 weeks to go FUCKING CRAZY with getting laid. I want to see you all rack up a couple of lays, minimum.
- MakingAComeback
- Posts: 4253 | Thanks: 4964
- Joined: Tue Jan 19, 2021 1:17 pm
- Goal: 3k Per Month Post Tax
- Age: 32
- Motto: POSITIVE SELF TALK
You've got this brothers
-Your friend, Ravi
Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential
My FB Group for Consistent Performance & Goal Achievement
https://www.facebook.com/groups/ironwilltribe
Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential
My FB Group for Consistent Performance & Goal Achievement
https://www.facebook.com/groups/ironwilltribe
- play_time_is_over
- Posts: 157 | Thanks: 94
- Joined: Fri Mar 19, 2021 11:08 am
- Name: Simon
- Goal: 30 Lays
- Age: 32
- Motto: Doing something badly is better than doing nothing
- Location: Australia
Good Motivation. Trying the tinder guide.
I don't know why I thought no girl would ever reply to this. Just have to do this 10 more times. SHE DIDNT GIVE ME HER NUMBER THO. Should I ask for it again or just set it up on tinder
I don't know why I thought no girl would ever reply to this. Just have to do this 10 more times. SHE DIDNT GIVE ME HER NUMBER THO. Should I ask for it again or just set it up on tinder
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Goal: 12 / 30 lifetime lays.
Stats: 6'5" - 88kg - 32 years old.
Stats: 6'5" - 88kg - 32 years old.
- enjoyablehat
- Posts: 282 | Thanks: 48
- Joined: Sun Nov 22, 2020 4:15 am
- Name: George
- Goal: Get Laid
- Age: 26
- Motto: Consistency is key
- Location: Boston
Right now I've pretty much just tell girls they're cute and ask for their number (12 approaches) - how long are your conversations when you're more comfortable approaching and how long did it take you to get more comfortable talking for however amount of time you talk for (I'm assuming somewhere from 1-3 minutes from what Andy mentions alot, but curious if anyone tries for more, or intentionally keeps it even shorter than that).
I think 5 or 6 out of the girls I've approached have been girls that were working - anything on pushing yourself to talk to girls that are just out and about, or does it just come with time?
I think 5 or 6 out of the girls I've approached have been girls that were working - anything on pushing yourself to talk to girls that are just out and about, or does it just come with time?
Current Goals:
Get a new job
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Stay consistent with eating and improve health habits
Get a new job
Fix Sleep
Stay consistent with eating and improve health habits
- MILFandCookies
- Posts: 1207 | Thanks: 588
- Joined: Wed Sep 16, 2020 12:29 am
- Name: Joe
- Goal: $10k+/month
- Age: 31
- Motto: Unchain your Passion & Live Life on Your Own Terms
- Location: Austin, TX/World
- Contact:
Cold approach lays: Hmm... I never counted. Probably something like 50, suuuuper rough estimate.
Lays: Something like 115. Rough estimate.
Cold approaches: Thousands and thousands.
Down as long as I'm free the day you choose.
Lays: Something like 115. Rough estimate.
Cold approaches: Thousands and thousands.
Down as long as I'm free the day you choose.
I've helped > 100 guys get laid on dating apps.
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P.S. I don't like MILFs, just the name ;)
Goal 1:
• Build + maintain $10k+ profit/month
Goal 2:
• Cut some fat to get abs again
📸🔥 Dating App Photographer - I'll get you laid, click here: https://www.DatingUnchained.com/ 🔥📸
P.S. I don't like MILFs, just the name ;)
Goal 1:
• Build + maintain $10k+ profit/month
Goal 2:
• Cut some fat to get abs again
- Toast
- Posts: 872 | Thanks: 1106
- Joined: Thu Feb 04, 2021 12:31 am
- Name: Devin
- Goal: Japanese Plate
- Age: 29
- Motto: The Time to Hesitate Has Ceased
- Location: Tokyo
- Contact:
Cold approach lays: 2 (3 if u include the BJ)
No lays from online cuz I'm not very serious about it yet. Lifetime lays is 7 now.
Cold approaches: ~500 and climbing
10 am Brisbane time I believe is 5 pm my time. I'm free around then.
No lays from online cuz I'm not very serious about it yet. Lifetime lays is 7 now.
Cold approaches: ~500 and climbing
10 am Brisbane time I believe is 5 pm my time. I'm free around then.
- Manganiello
- Posts: 1710 | Thanks: 2021
- Joined: Fri Jun 05, 2020 2:25 am
- Name: Brandon
- Goal: Career Launch
- Age: 33
- Motto: Embrace your Darkside
- Location: Seoul
- Radical
- Posts: 1726 | Thanks: 1441
- Joined: Sat May 30, 2020 12:02 pm
- Name: Cam
- Goal: Funnel/Product Building
- Age: 29
- Motto: Take drastic action
Thats like 1am start for me. I'll come on different roundtable