Brandon Builds - Doing a Little Kink Night Game; Found the One "Celibate" Girl in the Club

[Holden]

First post on the forums I've bookmarked for future reference

[Kerosene0943]

Your ability to conceptualise and then actualise what you want is inspiring.

[Bman]

Your ability to conceptualise and then actualise what you want it is inspiring.

Thank you. Some days I amaze myself. Speaking of actualizing...

#35 - Nurse Girl

The other model was a lead from my munch. She is actually a traveling nurse. She recently did a shoot with a body paint artist, so I asked if I could shoot her. She’s been sending me nudes this week, we’re doing a date before the shoot, good probability I’ll be fucking her but we’ll see. Shoot is tomorrow.

First photography -> lay

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We were supposed to meetup at the coffee bar before the shoot, but she was running late because of her kids, so I just had her come over to my place instead.

I did happen to already walk and be sitting at the coffee bar when she said she was going to be late. Had a funny experience watching two regular people on a date. Typical scrawny guy on a date with a chubbier girl. Classic 5/6's match with 5/6's. I tend to forget what my skill level is compared to gen pop because I'm usually comparing to you guys. I just laughed when they rolled out of the bar and they both stood there, then her asking where they should sit, and him just being "ummm...hmmm... I don't know. Where do you want to sit?" They find a table, sit across from each other of course, he sits very submissively with body tucked in (because its cold outside) and the conversation is real sloooow. Here I am sitting at a tight bench that purposley puts the girl next to me or in front of me but legs interlocked with each other, decked out in a leather jacket, and sitting there taking up massive space, listening to this poor guy. I kinda wanted to sit there the whole date and then pull him aside when nothing happened for him. But alas, had places to be and girls to see.

Anyways, Nurse Girl and I kind of did a date while doing the shoot. She did her makeup at my place and we chatted while she did so. I learned shes a hotwife with two kids, been a nurse for 8 years, her husband and her separated for a while but then got back together under the pretense that it would be an open relationship. She takes advantage of it, he doesn't. She also is very intelligent and told me that she fantasized about marrying an intellectual when she was younger, but ended up with her husband and used to feel like she was settling. She also told me I made her really nervous, and way later telling me because I was such an intellectual. Earlier in the week I had shared the video I created for my education non-profit and she was hugely attracted by the ambition.

When she was done with her makeup, she got naked and we checked out my computed to run through the poses we were going to do. This is where the psuedo date also happens. If you are setting up a photoshoot under the pretext like I am, escalation is just a natural part of the process. We were working through 5 major poses. In each one I was touching her to adjust her body. I'm also giving commands the entire time. We started with tame poses and then finished with my kitana sword between her pussy lips.

By the time I got to that pose she said "you can adjust my lips however you like..."

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Yes that is the same kitana from my avatar.

We finished all the shots I wanted to capture. I placed the camera on the nightstand. Sat down next to her and said we were all done. She said "what now?" I just gave her some deep eye contact and told her "come here." For which she eagerly crawled over and planted one on my lips.

She has a very psuedo bad bitch persona in person. Its a facade. She is extremely submissive behind closed doors.

After sex she told me that she would not have come to the munch but I had messaged her. (Standard message that I send out to all people who RSVPed, male and female, the day of. It makes it way more personable and very, very few other leaders do this.) The night she came we had all guys except her, which sometimes happens. She told me that ALL of the guys messaged her after the munch except one... Can we guess who? Of course she messaged me a few days later and I set the shoot up then. Pays to be king. She also told me she did not expect that this would happen when we first met and she was not sure if I was interested in her. Which is not a surprise given she met me under the pretext of the munch, for which I'm more in leader/ logistic mode, than seductive mode. She also kept saying I was so beautiful, it kind of was unfair. Of course I have a bunch of studio lights on in my apartment to cast the most flattering light.

This was a hell of a lot of fun. I'm pumped to do this. I don't want all of my dates like this because I'll get rusty on those skills, but if half or so are like this, I'd be a real happy camper. I believe @Paid Renegade has done something similar before? Since you don't do traditional lay reports, just curious any notes you have to compare.

And I got fun pictures (couple unedited ones above)! I forgot to do the whole behind the scenes video for IG, but whatever. I'm learning. I also think I'm going to get a signature portrait for FetLife. with every girl in the future that has intense eye contact of her looking at the camera while she is giving me a blowjob and getting a small tattoo on my waist so you know its me.

Next shoot is tuesday with the other girl where I'll also be modeling with her. Fun times.

[Spider Jerusalem]

#35 - Nurse Girl

This is fire

Making me wanna buy a camera! Thanks for sharing this awesome content with us

@Bman out of curiosity, what camera do you use?

[Bman]

Thank you, @Spider Jerusalem! I shoot with a Nikon D750, typically with a 50mm 1.8 or a 24-120mm. I'd like to pick up a 35mm for wider shots in small spaces such as the van, but they are expensive.

Honestly though, when I first started shooting boudoir ages ago I had an entry level Nikon and a kit lens and still made some really great photos. The real magic happens when you learn lighting. The photo with her back arched was shot with a bluetooth color changing blub set to magenta use as a "key light", and then a ring light on the lowest setting used as a "fill light".

[MILFandCookies]

Hell yeah man! This is an exciting way to take advantage of your camera. I hope it continues to work out!

[Paid Renegade]

I believe @Paid Renegade has done something similar before? Since you don't do traditional lay reports, just curious any notes you have to compare.

Lol yeah man this sounds very similar to the experience with OF girl that I posted in my log. We matched on Feeld under normal circumstances and then I pitched a photoshoot when I saw that she was an OF creator. met at her studio and I'm pulling up reference photos to copy because I have no idea what I'm doing. I'll PM you some! It actually turned into an offer for a paid shoot with her and like a dozen other OF girls that she knew.

I've fallen off with the photoshoots because going through all of them and editing them was taking lots of time but perhaps I'll pick it back up at some point. It's definitely a big value add

[foducossy42]

We were working through 5 major poses. In each one I was touching her to adjust her body. I'm also giving commands the entire time. We started with tame poses and then finished with my kitana sword between her pussy lips.

By the time I got to that pose she said "you can adjust my lips however you like..."

Goddamn this is so crazy. What a way to get laid. The BDSM munch stuff really seems to be working out nicely for you.

[Spider Jerusalem]

Thank you, @Spider Jerusalem! I shoot with a Nikon D750, typically with a 50mm 1.8 or a 24-120mm. I'd like to pick up a 35mm for wider shots in small spaces such as the van, but they are expensive.

Honestly though, when I first started shooting boudoir ages ago I had an entry level Nikon and a kit lens and still made some really great photos. The real magic happens when you learn lighting. The photo with her back arched was shot with a bluetooth color changing blub set to magenta use as a "key light", and then a ring light on the lowest setting used as a "fill light".

Dude, that's awesome! Thanks for the info

I been looking at the Canon Andy recommended and as it turns out, I get a work discount in the Canon store of 10%. It would be a £1000 (Down to £900) but it's an investment and something for me to work towards. I think it's an attractive prospect for a girl if the guy is good with a camera.

I did modelling work in exchange for sex in Bangkok so it worked for me!

[Bman]

Hell yeah man! This is an exciting way to take advantage of your camera. I hope it continues to work out!

Honestly big shoutout to you. Andy, and Ed for getting me back into photography. It's so fun.

I've fallen off with the photoshoots because going through all of them and editing them was taking lots of time but perhaps I'll pick it back up at some point. It's definitely a big value add

These are fire, man. Great job. Especially on the handcuffs over the ass. The lighting split is perfect.

Yeah I just realized having more than one shoot in a week will be a problem in the future time wise.

Goddamn this is so crazy. What a way to get laid. The BDSM munch stuff really seems to be working out nicely for you.

Some of the most fun I've had yet.

I been looking at the Canon Andy recommended and as it turns out, I get a work discount in the Canon store of 10%. It would be a £1000 (Down to £900) but it's an investment and something for me to work towards. I think it's an attractive prospect for a girl if the guy is good with a camera.

Honestly its been a great investment for me to have a camera. I've used for dozens of things over the years. Who knew it would also help me get laid.

[Bman]

One model was an inbound on FL. She’s an OF girl and one of her videos just hit 20k on pornhub. We are doing a more classy shoot together as she has particular niche in her marketing she'd like to fill. High probability I’m fucking her (so if you see me on your OF subscriptions, Hi!) Shoot is on Tuesday, no date, straight to my place.

Had the shoot with this girl.

Long story short, she just got prescribed Adderall and was basically up all night before coming over this morning. So by the end of the shot, which took about 2.5 hours, she was dead ass tired.

It was cute though because late last night she sent me a paragraph text about how nervous she was and then texted me several times this morning before coming over about being shy and nervous. She said she never gets nervous. She shoots content all the time so I found it suprising she was so nervous. But she told me again when texting that I was so hot, so I guess it was just another example of flipping the script with me being the "hot girl on a pedestal". When she got here I gave her some comforting, almost like boyfriend hug and rubbing. It was actually kinda weird because we knew what was going to happen, so it was like trying to short circuit comfort.

We also chatted some, but most of the attraction was physical. The first pose we were doing was a hands above head pose with me kissing, holding her wrists. Which after the first one or two kisses, you could tell they went from for the camera, to for each other. And then she was completely comfortable.

Anyways, I learned that there is an optimal amount of poses to go through. If you have too many, you lose the momentum of the escalation. This shoot was also interesting because I was also modeling for it AND shooting. I was shooting tethered so I could see the shots on the computer as I took them, however I still had to get up and adjust the camera or whatever during poses.

I should have stopped at the pose where she was straddling me and we were doing intimate shots, because that was the peak as both of us were kind of forgetting we were taking pictures and just sneaking in kisses. And I was hard as rock.

It was actually a challenge to think logically about the shoot and also keeping myself from fucking her right there. Probably should have, but there were a couple more poses to work through and logical me was like "Oh we have to get all these cause she's using them for her stuff..." No I didn't, and I could have gotten them afterwards anyways. Whatever. Learning.

Afterwards she asked if I wanted to come to her place. I told her she could hang here for a while. But she was practically falling asleep. I told her she should go sleep and I have work to get done. Reminder to do these shoots in the afternoon/evening only. So we agreed to meetup later in the week.

Even if we don't have sex later though, I'm still winning because I get photos for Fet/ Insta to feed the preselection funnel. And I actually learned a lot about what kind of positions turn me on in a bedroom escalation. Also, if I'm doing this all the time, I'm going to have 0 nervousness about ever touching a girl to escalate.

Here's an unedited test shot I got between poses that I actually really like.

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So, this is my life now.

[Kerosene0943]

It was cute though because late last night she sent me a paragraph text about how nervous she was and then texted me several times this morning before coming over about being shy and nervous. She said she never gets nervous. She shoots content all the time so I found it suprising she was so nervous. But she told me again when texting that I was so hot, so I guess it was just another example of flipping the script with me being the "hot girl on a pedestal". When she got here I gave her some comforting, almost like boyfriend hug and rubbing. It was actually kinda weird because we knew what was going to happen, so it was like trying to short circuit comfort.

You are absolutely hot as fuck dude, especially in the weirdo sex spaces full of Asperger kings and coomers. The girls obviously find it super refreshing to be led by a masculine man who doesn't act like their fav porn star has come to life. You are adding value to their lives as well as yours.

[Lord Rey]

Fuck man, you're slaying it! I'm really getting jealous now!

I always wanted to do the same, getting laid with my camera, but I've never had luck with OnlyFans girls. Besides, I'm out of the BDSM community now, living in the Swiss Alps where the last local munch was attended by 5 people, including me lol. The Swiss BDSM community is too far from me and the logistics make it not worth it to attend events in bigger cities.

But yeah, I really miss shooting kinky girls! I'll just enjoy seeing your content for now.

[Bman]

You are absolutely hot as fuck dude, especially in the weirdo sex spaces full of Asperger kings and coomers. The girls obviously find it super refreshing to be led by a masculine man who doesn't act like their fav porn star has come to life. You are adding value to their lives as well as yours.

Haha. Thanks man.

There is a Jack Harlow song that the opening line is "have you ever raised the value of everyone around you?"

I think one of the coolest parts of running the munch has actually seeing people come and then hearing later or seeing in their behavior that they have hooked up with other munch attendees. Most of these have people have poor social skills, only because they never really learned them. When they come to my munch, I meet each person personally, shake their hand, good eye contact, regular social stuff. Then I get everyone in a big circle talking with each other. Most of the time I'll go first when vulnerable topics get brought up or share my experiences in the scene, that way they have seen someone else do it and know how to do it. I find it to be no surprise that people end up making connections. I have always felt a true leader is there to serve his people.

But of course, the king always gets his just rewards, too.

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Alright, couple interesting things happened last couple of days.

Spiritual Girl, who I broke up with at the beginning of December, texted me yesterday that she missed me, thinks about me often, and hoped I was really well. I texted her some of the major life things I had been up to. She told me that after we ended things, she shared transparently about our relationship with her primary partner (of which I can only imagine what those details were...) and apparently that led to them getting engaged at the end of the month. This is most likely my ego talking but it sounds like a reaction from that guy thinking "oh shit! My girl can get with guys like that, I better lock her down before she drops me". However, their relationship is still open and she would really like to share one more night with me before my departure.

A while back I got cold DMed by a "certified" (whatever the fuck that means) ENM matchmaker. She wanted to network with me because I was well networked in the scene here in Austin. She asked if we could have a call and collaborate. So, I chatted on the phone with her today. Basically she has high paying clientele who are looking for something specific with people who are into non monogamous lifestyles and needs local people in areas who are well connected to point her to leads for that person. She then screens them with questions and sets up the date. Apparently her husband and her also do dating coaching for some of the guys, too. The collab part is that if I send her leads, either as dates for her clients or to be clients, I get a monetary kickback. I told her I'm meeting people all the time, so its no sweat off my back to send them over, considering her service actually sounds good and unfortunately the gen pop needs some serious help with dating. She asked if there was anything she could do on her side for me. Told her not at this moment. Just seemed like a good person to be networked with and in my back pocket. If my circles both professionally and in dating take me to higher status circles, knowing someone like her will be a value add with other people I'm networking with. "For to every one who has will more be given, and he will have abundance"

Things with the OF girl above that I just shot with have been weird. Honestly, every single time I potentially date one of these girls, they are wild cards. I feel like I'm on "Whose Line is It Anyways?" I'll let you guys know how it plays out.

But the photos turned out awesome. I like this one, which kind of looks like the cover of a romance smut novel. Which is kind of the point. I'm trying to market for the female gaze, not male.

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Also plan on getting a crash course on OnlyFans from OG OF Girl since she is literally one of the best on that platform. I don't plan on monetizing like that, but it does not hurt to be educated.

[Bman]

Had Nurse Girl back over yesterday afternoon. I used to strictly have girls over in the evening after getting work done. But during the day is just so much better because I'm not tired after the first round and want to spend more time with them. I might start pushing for more day time first date, too.

Went two rounds and had a very intimate conversation with her in between. She said she felt so safe and comfortable with me, but also was still a little nervous. I told her I do like to make girls just a little uncomfortable because its cute to watch them get nervous and squirm a bit. She said she doesn't really do cute and is normally a bad bitch, but said she can't really do that with me. With me she is giggly and VERY submissive, to the point she's getting almost all her pleasure from pleasing me. She told early when she came over that she respects me a lot. Suppose this is the first brat that I have actually enjoyed taming, only because it was not a struggle to tame her.

Been posting photos from the two shoots on FetLife. What I've noticed is you get an initial round of likes when you first post, then another when the person accepts the tag. I've gained a few followers, including a cute blonde which I immediately opened. For those looking to use FL, if a girl likes more than one of your photos with you in it (especially sexual or shirtless ones), follows you, or friend requests you, immediately open her. Her buying temperature is high. So much so, that you can have a pretty mundane conversation, you just need to follow the number one rule of moving the conversation forward. Setting a date for Friday.

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