Hey y'all,
As of 21.12.23, re-starting this progress log.
About me:
-based in Hamburg, Germany (Korean-American, US Citizen)
-pursuing piano & comedy act while making money as a freelance pianist (let me know if you're interested in hearing my songs - i have 2 best ones similar to Bo Burnham)
-Karaoke Legend! Haha
Goals:
-get rid of stomach fat (close to flat-stomach)
-10k instagram followers (this is where i post my piano & comedy content as well as occasional photos)
What else? Hmmmm....well, gotta start somewhere!!
brohankwon's Progress Log - funny piano song
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brohankwon
- Posts: 70 | Thanks: 25
- Joined: Tue Nov 29, 2022 12:52 pm
- Name: Yohan
- Goal: 2-3 plates
- Age: 27
- Location: Hamburg, DE
- Contact:
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brohankwon
- Posts: 70 | Thanks: 25
- Joined: Tue Nov 29, 2022 12:52 pm
- Name: Yohan
- Goal: 2-3 plates
- Age: 27
- Location: Hamburg, DE
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brohankwon
- Posts: 70 | Thanks: 25
- Joined: Tue Nov 29, 2022 12:52 pm
- Name: Yohan
- Goal: 2-3 plates
- Age: 27
- Location: Hamburg, DE
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brohankwon
- Posts: 70 | Thanks: 25
- Joined: Tue Nov 29, 2022 12:52 pm
- Name: Yohan
- Goal: 2-3 plates
- Age: 27
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CRAZY U-BAHN STORY
So, last month, I was on my way back home from playing a show at Frozen Musical. On the U-Bahn (subway) with a colleague, there was a woman listening in to our conversation about musicals, and then she jumped in. Fast forward until about half-way back home (turns out we were getting off at the same stop), she asked for my number. That was the moment I knew she was interested -- yes, I was gonna ask for her number but near the end of the subway journey for the sake of rejecting-awkwardness lol.
To sum it up, we ended up "making music together" at her place
(I had a friend staying with me at my place). But I found this unbelievable, as it was only 1,5 hours ago that we meet. I had never thought that it would happen to someone like me, despite a shitty haircut. She even said "I don't usually do this", which I took as a big compliment, because that meant she had a genuine desire.
We ended up seeing each other 2 more times up to now. Not sure when I will see her again, as I'm waiting to hear back from another musical when I'm going to start playing with them.
Here are my takeaways:
-You never know whether a girl finds you attractive - this is where in-person approaches come in handy!
-A girl will break her rules for a man she genuinely desires - even if within the hour
-She will also make it easy!
So, last month, I was on my way back home from playing a show at Frozen Musical. On the U-Bahn (subway) with a colleague, there was a woman listening in to our conversation about musicals, and then she jumped in. Fast forward until about half-way back home (turns out we were getting off at the same stop), she asked for my number. That was the moment I knew she was interested -- yes, I was gonna ask for her number but near the end of the subway journey for the sake of rejecting-awkwardness lol.
To sum it up, we ended up "making music together" at her place
(I had a friend staying with me at my place). But I found this unbelievable, as it was only 1,5 hours ago that we meet. I had never thought that it would happen to someone like me, despite a shitty haircut. She even said "I don't usually do this", which I took as a big compliment, because that meant she had a genuine desire. We ended up seeing each other 2 more times up to now. Not sure when I will see her again, as I'm waiting to hear back from another musical when I'm going to start playing with them.
Here are my takeaways:
-You never know whether a girl finds you attractive - this is where in-person approaches come in handy!
-A girl will break her rules for a man she genuinely desires - even if within the hour
-She will also make it easy!
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brohankwon
- Posts: 70 | Thanks: 25
- Joined: Tue Nov 29, 2022 12:52 pm
- Name: Yohan
- Goal: 2-3 plates
- Age: 27
- Location: Hamburg, DE
- Contact:
TESTING INTEREST LEVELS
Wednesday Night — was supposed to meet a girl at the subway station close to where I live at 11pm. Earlier that evening she wanted to change the location to a more public place (specifically, a certain popular nightlife area with bars) because she felt more “comfortable” that way. But my instincts were telling me that she wanted to keep her eye open for a potential better option, so I pretty much said no. We ended up not meeting and unfollowed each other on Instagram.
Thursday Afternoon — met a different girl at the same subway station at 12pm, then went to the nearest coffee shop. Although she was wondering if we could meet up at the Main Station (it was closer to her), she was still cool with traveling a little bit more to meet up. We smaaaassssssshhheeeeddddd.
Takeaway: A girl with high interest won't care too much about the meeting location, even if it means traveling a bit further.
Wednesday Night — was supposed to meet a girl at the subway station close to where I live at 11pm. Earlier that evening she wanted to change the location to a more public place (specifically, a certain popular nightlife area with bars) because she felt more “comfortable” that way. But my instincts were telling me that she wanted to keep her eye open for a potential better option, so I pretty much said no. We ended up not meeting and unfollowed each other on Instagram.
Thursday Afternoon — met a different girl at the same subway station at 12pm, then went to the nearest coffee shop. Although she was wondering if we could meet up at the Main Station (it was closer to her), she was still cool with traveling a little bit more to meet up. We smaaaassssssshhheeeeddddd.
Takeaway: A girl with high interest won't care too much about the meeting location, even if it means traveling a bit further.
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brohankwon
- Posts: 70 | Thanks: 25
- Joined: Tue Nov 29, 2022 12:52 pm
- Name: Yohan
- Goal: 2-3 plates
- Age: 27
- Location: Hamburg, DE
- Contact:
JANUARY SUMMARY - Karaoke Bar Edition
(I have a feeling that I should be more active - will try to work on that!)
Before New Years 2024, I had gone to this one particular karaoke bar in Hamburg a number of times in 2023. Not once did I bring a girl home. From mid October to December 31st I had not gone at all. And then suddenly, after deciding to go there once more on NYE (Silvester as they call it in Germany), I finally took one home! She was also very cute. Not to mention that she was willing to travel a half hour back to my apartment - 200% genuine desire.
And I didn't think it would happen again...until 20 days later when the same thing happened again, this time with a nice 23-yr old Mexican who came just for a few days.
TAKEAWAY(S):
-It doesn't matter how far you live from a nightlife area - 30-45min are enough (at least they were for me). However I am planning to move closer sometime in the future
-Because I sing really well, like REALLY well, that's a place where I get to demonstrate my value. It may be different for you - it's all about where you can show your strengths within the nightlife scene
-In-person is important too (I didn't get a single lay from online that month)
-Things go really quick when a girl is truly down (both were willing to go home with me within 30min of interacting)
[Edit; BTW that new photo is from the photographer - one of the main reasons why I alway frequent this place]
(I have a feeling that I should be more active - will try to work on that!)
Before New Years 2024, I had gone to this one particular karaoke bar in Hamburg a number of times in 2023. Not once did I bring a girl home. From mid October to December 31st I had not gone at all. And then suddenly, after deciding to go there once more on NYE (Silvester as they call it in Germany), I finally took one home! She was also very cute. Not to mention that she was willing to travel a half hour back to my apartment - 200% genuine desire.
And I didn't think it would happen again...until 20 days later when the same thing happened again, this time with a nice 23-yr old Mexican who came just for a few days.
TAKEAWAY(S):
-It doesn't matter how far you live from a nightlife area - 30-45min are enough (at least they were for me). However I am planning to move closer sometime in the future
-Because I sing really well, like REALLY well, that's a place where I get to demonstrate my value. It may be different for you - it's all about where you can show your strengths within the nightlife scene
-In-person is important too (I didn't get a single lay from online that month)
-Things go really quick when a girl is truly down (both were willing to go home with me within 30min of interacting)
[Edit; BTW that new photo is from the photographer - one of the main reasons why I alway frequent this place]
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Bman
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- Name: Brandon
- Goal: Get Laid
- Age: 30
- Motto: Pursue Purpose
- Location: Austin, TX
New avatar pic is really good! Definitely worth putting in your online profiles.
Congrats on the lays from the karaoke bar.
Congrats on the lays from the karaoke bar.
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Year 2: viewtopic.php?p=66924#p66924
"Absorb what is useful. Reject what is useless. Add what is essentially your own." - Bruce Lee
Year 1: viewtopic.php?p=49033#p49033
Year 2: viewtopic.php?p=66924#p66924
"Absorb what is useful. Reject what is useless. Add what is essentially your own." - Bruce Lee
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Squilliam
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- Joined: Thu Dec 30, 2021 12:57 am
- Goal: Be happy
- Age: 24
- Motto: Pain is temporary. Greatness lasts forever
Tbh it does matter. I have similar logistics and while I have gotten laid from it, living 5 or 10 minutes away would make things way easier.brohankwon wrote: ↑Tue Feb 20, 2024 11:24 am-It doesn't matter how far you live from a nightlife area - 30-45min are enough (at least they were for me). However I am planning to move closer sometime in the future
Congrats on the lays
Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.
check out my blog: https://squilzpursuit.wordpress.com/
- Do 1000 approaches by end of 2024 (~444/1000)
- Get laid from daygame
- Learn game and stop being a social autist
check out my blog: https://squilzpursuit.wordpress.com/
- Do 1000 approaches by end of 2024 (~444/1000)
- Get laid from daygame
- Learn game and stop being a social autist
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pancakemouse
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- Goal: Master cold approach
- Age: 33
Great photo.brohankwon wrote: ↑Tue Feb 20, 2024 11:24 am[Edit; BTW that new photo is from the photographer - one of the main reasons why I alway frequent this place]
Context is important. New York City has island geography and snobbery regarding living off-island. Most other cities don't have this and thus many people live far out and girls are much more understanding.Squilliam wrote: ↑Tue Feb 20, 2024 2:12 pmTbh it does matter. I have similar logistics and while I have gotten laid from it, living 5 or 10 minutes away would make things way easier.brohankwon wrote: ↑Tue Feb 20, 2024 11:24 am-It doesn't matter how far you live from a nightlife area - 30-45min are enough (at least they were for me). However I am planning to move closer sometime in the future
Congrats on the lays
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brohankwon
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brohankwon
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No doubt that 5-10min away is MUCH better than my situation. When it comes to genuine desire though, my point still stands.Squilliam wrote: ↑Tue Feb 20, 2024 2:12 pmTbh it does matter. I have similar logistics and while I have gotten laid from it, living 5 or 10 minutes away would make things way easier.brohankwon wrote: ↑Tue Feb 20, 2024 11:24 am-It doesn't matter how far you live from a nightlife area - 30-45min are enough (at least they were for me). However I am planning to move closer sometime in the future
Congrats on the lays
And thanks!
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brohankwon
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Thanks!! And I have a feeling it also has to do with the general fact that it's safer in Europe than the US, and also public transportation. Also, there are girls from the dating apps who have no problem traveling to my closest subway station, and there are also girls who make excuses (too far, too late, etc.)pancakemouse wrote: ↑Tue Feb 20, 2024 3:26 pmGreat photo.brohankwon wrote: ↑Tue Feb 20, 2024 11:24 am[Edit; BTW that new photo is from the photographer - one of the main reasons why I alway frequent this place]
Context is important. New York City has island geography and snobbery regarding living off-island. Most other cities don't have this and thus many people live far out and girls are much more understanding.
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brohankwon
- Posts: 70 | Thanks: 25
- Joined: Tue Nov 29, 2022 12:52 pm
- Name: Yohan
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FOOD-BOOSTING TESTOSTERONE (from Stirling Cooper's Advice)
The following foods I take every day:
-1 cup pomegranate juice
-3 stalks of celery
-4 eggs (actually this one's from Hamza -- apparently it helps with erections?)
-sometimes 1 cup pineapple juice (for semen taste lol)
Anyone have opinions/ideas/etc. that I might be missing? I'll see what more there is, as I go to bed being 1:13am in Europe
The following foods I take every day:
-1 cup pomegranate juice
-3 stalks of celery
-4 eggs (actually this one's from Hamza -- apparently it helps with erections?)
-sometimes 1 cup pineapple juice (for semen taste lol)
Anyone have opinions/ideas/etc. that I might be missing? I'll see what more there is, as I go to bed being 1:13am in Europe
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brohankwon
- Posts: 70 | Thanks: 25
- Joined: Tue Nov 29, 2022 12:52 pm
- Name: Yohan
- Goal: 2-3 plates
- Age: 27
- Location: Hamburg, DE
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FLAKED BY 3 BUT SMASHED 1
This week was interesting, I would say. I happened to schedule 4 dates this week, but the first 3 flaked (one did get sick to be fair, but still...). But, last night I met with the 4th -- ended up being the best seggs up to now. 19-year old cute petite German with the best body I've ever seen.
TAKEAWAYS:
1) once one of them works out, you completely forget about the rest
2) The numbers game, simple as that.
This week was interesting, I would say. I happened to schedule 4 dates this week, but the first 3 flaked (one did get sick to be fair, but still...). But, last night I met with the 4th -- ended up being the best seggs up to now. 19-year old cute petite German with the best body I've ever seen.
TAKEAWAYS:
1) once one of them works out, you completely forget about the rest
2) The numbers game, simple as that.
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brohankwon
- Posts: 70 | Thanks: 25
- Joined: Tue Nov 29, 2022 12:52 pm
- Name: Yohan
- Goal: 2-3 plates
- Age: 27
- Location: Hamburg, DE
- Contact:
NEW PHOTOS (i posted these on the mega feedback thread too but I wanted to post them here too to see if it's better that way)
Current Batch I really want to add the following two:
But not sure about this piano pic replacing the current one because of the weird expression (though it scored well as a social pic)
Current Batch I really want to add the following two:
But not sure about this piano pic replacing the current one because of the weird expression (though it scored well as a social pic)
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