Skelly92 Log

[Skelly92]

Thanks, MAC.

I have lost 0.5 pounds this week. I didn't drink this week, which is probably why I have lost some weight, as I have been focused on reading the emotional eating book, which advised to read it while not restricting yourself when it comes to junk food.
I also started doing a more powerlifter focused workout program this week. I was meant to have my driving test this Thursday, but last week I had a mock test and me an my driving instructor decided it was best if we postpone it for a couple of weeks.
I didn't get any likes or matches this week.
I am going to get my haircut this week and on Thursday, I will go out and get some new dating photos taken.

[Skelly92]

I finished reading the emotional eating book and did my final feast as part of it have quit junk food, specifically sugary foods. I managed to lose 1.3 pounds this week!

I got my haircut on Thursday and I took some dating photos, but I didn't take as many as I should of and they weren't very good. I have had a more through look at what my photos should look like. I have made list of poses that I am going to try and I am also going to take a lot more photos. As I just took 4 photos while Andy recommends to take a 100, so I will do that next time.

I have been working on being more social at the gym and work to help make me less anxious in general. I got 2 likes this week from boosting on Saturday night and I matched with both of them. I sent messages to both of them, but only one of them got back to me and the other is too far from me.

After reading G-man's post and watching the first interview Andy did with MAC, I think I might end up going down the route of losing it to escort, like they did.
As a first step towards this, I have decided that this week I will go to an asian massage parlour. As this will help to get me more comfortable with touch.

[Sewerdog]

I finished reading the emotional eating book and did my final feast as part of it have quit junk food, specifically sugary foods. I managed to lose 1.3 pounds this week!

I got my haircut on Thursday and I took some dating photos, but I didn't take as many as I should of and they weren't very good. I have had a more through look at what my photos should look like. I have made list of poses that I am going to try and I am also going to take a lot more photos. As I just took 4 photos while Andy recommends to take a 100, so I will do that next time.

I have been working on being more social at the gym and work to help make me less anxious in general. I got 2 likes this week from boosting on Saturday night and I matched with both of them. I sent messages to both of them, but only one of them got back to me and the other is too far from me.

After reading G-man's post and watching the first interview Andy did with MAC, I think I might end up going down the route of losing it to escort, like they did.
As a first step towards this, I have decided that this week I will go to an asian massage parlour. As this will help to get me more comfortable with touch.

I did the escort route too and it really helps. I even had ED/severe nerves but it was still a really valuable experience and it meant that I couldn't beat myself up anymore by calling myself a virgin.

It will also prove to yourself that you can take decisive action to change and improve parts of your life.

The massage parlour seems like a good first step.
Congrats on the weight loss too!

[Skelly92]

I finished reading the emotional eating book and did my final feast as part of it have quit junk food, specifically sugary foods. I managed to lose 1.3 pounds this week!

I got my haircut on Thursday and I took some dating photos, but I didn't take as many as I should of and they weren't very good. I have had a more through look at what my photos should look like. I have made list of poses that I am going to try and I am also going to take a lot more photos. As I just took 4 photos while Andy recommends to take a 100, so I will do that next time.

I have been working on being more social at the gym and work to help make me less anxious in general. I got 2 likes this week from boosting on Saturday night and I matched with both of them. I sent messages to both of them, but only one of them got back to me and the other is too far from me.

After reading G-man's post and watching the first interview Andy did with MAC, I think I might end up going down the route of losing it to escort, like they did.
As a first step towards this, I have decided that this week I will go to an asian massage parlour. As this will help to get me more comfortable with touch.

I did the escort route too and it really helps. I even had ED/severe nerves but it was still a really valuable experience and it meant that I couldn't beat myself up anymore by calling myself a virgin.

It will also prove to yourself that you can take decisive action to change and improve parts of your life.

The massage parlour seems like a good first step.
Congrats on the weight loss too!

Thanks, Sewerdog. I think I would have quite bad nerves aswell, so it is good to hear that you had them aswell and were ok with going to see one.

How long did you end up going to see the girl for? As I was wondering if an hour is long enough or should I go for a longer period of time with being nervous.

[Sewerdog]

I did the escort route too and it really helps. I even had ED/severe nerves but it was still a really valuable experience and it meant that I couldn't beat myself up anymore by calling myself a virgin.

It will also prove to yourself that you can take decisive action to change and improve parts of your life.

The massage parlour seems like a good first step.
Congrats on the weight loss too!

Thanks, Sewerdog. I think I would have quite bad nerves aswell, so it is good to hear that you had them aswell and were ok with going to see one.

How long did you end up going to see the girl for? As I was wondering if an hour is long enough or should I go for a longer period of time with being nervous.

I think an hour is plenty. I went cheap so there was no foreplay ect that you'd probably get with a high class escort but even then I think an hour would be quite a long time.
I found that my brain doesn't really differentiate from paying for sex or legit lays, they both feel good and cause endorphins to be released, just bear in mind if you go cheap they won't look as good as the pics show haha.

[Crimson]

I lost my virginity to a prostitute. One of the best decisions I ever made, it helped me kickstart my dating life, since I was no longer „held back“ by the label virgin.

Nice to see you on the self-improvement path, I wish you all the best.

[Skelly92]

Thanks, Sewerdog. I think I would have quite bad nerves aswell, so it is good to hear that you had them aswell and were ok with going to see one.

How long did you end up going to see the girl for? As I was wondering if an hour is long enough or should I go for a longer period of time with being nervous.

I think an hour is plenty. I went cheap so there was no foreplay ect that you'd probably get with a high class escort but even then I think an hour would be quite a long time.
I found that my brain doesn't really differentiate from paying for sex or legit lays, they both feel good and cause endorphins to be released, just bear in mind if you go cheap they won't look as good as the pics show haha.

Thanks, I will go for an hour then. It’s good to hear that there isn’t a difference in how you feel between the paying or legit lays.

[Skelly92]

So I went to the massage parlour today as I had planned on sunday!
I was really nervous when I went in initially, but as she started to do the massage I calmed down alot. After finishing the massage, she got on top of me sat on top of my belly. I was touching her legs and bum, she even let me suck on her nipples! Which I wasn't expecting at all. She then finished me off in that position.
We had some small talk afterwards and she was very complimentary about my body, calling me sexy, which was nice to hear. After we had both gotten dressed we hugged.
All in all it was great experience and I think I will do it again at some point as I was quite nervous. It was really nice being touched up by a woman sexually for the first time in my life and I felt a lot calmer afterwards.

I feel at the moment I would probably be too nervous to go see an escort and wouldn't be able to perform, but I will continue to work on my anxiety.

[Sewerdog]

Nice job!
I'd say don't worry about performing, it's your first time and your paying for it, there is zero reason to worry about being nervous or not knowing what your doing ect

[Skelly92]

Nice job!
I'd say don't worry about performing, it's your first time and your paying for it, there is zero reason to worry about being nervous or not knowing what your doing ect

Thanks, yeah you are right I don’t have any reason to worry about being nervous. I will go to the massage parlour again in the next two weeks, as I will be a lot less nervous about it.

[Manganiello]

@Skelly92

How many dates are you getting per month?
How many girls are you talking to per week?

[Skelly92]

@Skelly92

How many dates are you getting per month?
How many girls are you talking to per week?

Being honest I haven't been on any dates yet so far. I am not getting many matches a week, about 2 a week most if not all are coming from my boost on the weekend and outside of talking to them none. I still need to do more work on improving my dating photos, along with continuing to lose weight.

[Manganiello]

Ok sounds good.


Just to set some idea for numbers to expect with what you're doing.


When it comes to weight-loss.

I was losing 1.73 lbs on average each week. Sometimes more sometimes less. In 4 months your look will radically change.


When it comes to pictures.

I had taken maybe 2000 pictures over the span of 2 weeks.

And then I spend maybe like 2 days picking the best ones and editing them.


When it comes to boosting.

I was doing 2-3 boosts everyday around 8, 9 or 10pm.



That should give an idea of the effort needed. But like everything it's about consistency and intensity over a long period of time.

[Skelly92]

Ok sounds good.


Just to set some idea for numbers to expect with what you're doing.


When it comes to weight-loss.

I was losing 1.73 lbs on average each week. Sometimes more sometimes less. In 4 months your look will radically change.


When it comes to pictures.

I had taken maybe 2000 pictures over the span of 2 weeks.

And then I spend maybe like 2 days picking the best ones and editing them.


When it comes to boosting.

I was doing 2-3 boosts everyday around 8, 9 or 10pm.



That should give an idea of the effort needed. But like everything it's about consistency and intensity over a long period of time.

Thanks, that is good to know. I think with both my weight loss and taking pictures I could do a better job of being consistent in doing them.

[Skelly92]

I only lost 0.5 pounds this week, I haven't done a great job of sticking to my calories as only one of the days this week was equal or under my calorie target. I am going to make sure this week that the calories I intake on weekdays are at least under my target.

I got two likes this week, both from a boost on sunday morning. I matched with one of them and have sent them a message. The other person was 100+km away so I am not sure how I matched with them.

I am going to go to the Massage parlour again this week and then I might the week after go see an escort as I am off the start of that week.