I was at my mom's for a week and decided to use my time there as an opportunity to take a step back and evaluate what I've done in the past few weeks.
The confidence I've gained from approaching girls, and the realization that *I* am the driver of my own car led me to believe that I can actually make my "pipe dreams" happen, and that I don't need approval from my parents or friends about what I choose to do with my life.
My pipe dream is to move to Japan for at least a year, play music live at dance clubs and shows, and busk during the day on the streets playing the drums.
I wrote the following general "main plan" with some starting tasks to do:
Become a minimalist. Get rid of as much as possible.
- Sell it on Facebook Marketplace
Pawn it off at McKays
Give it away
Continue to approach girls in the daytime.
- Builds confidence
You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take
PUSH FOR INSTADATES. Number is a last resort.
Go for highest volume possible. High volume -> more dates
In 3 weeks with ~100 approaches, you got 2 dates
Continue to go out at night.
- Don’t bother with numbers.
Physical Contact Escalation
- Hand over girl
Go for the kiss, aggressive not smooth
Get back into music production (with the aim of having a live show)
- Start 365 project to spend 2 hours a day in Logic Pro X
Give yourself permission to suck, even though you’ve been making music for 9 years. It's new software (to you).
Get back into playing drums (with the aim of busking)
- Obtain a drum kit (just kick, snare, and hi-hat)
Take it out on Sunday to busk practice.
Give yourself permission to suck.
Pass the JLPT N1 in December 2022 (with the aim of moving to Japan in 2023) (I wanted to try N2 at the end of this year also, but apparently registration closed lolzzzz)
- Find JLPT N1 study materials
Develop a study plan
- Learn how to eat 3000 calories a day with minimal prep and minimal consumption effort/time
Create a workout plan to help you get BIG (hypertrophy, rather than strength)
- Work 3 hours a day (including meetings), with NO distractions
- Set specific goals that you MUST finish in the three hours for that day
I'm also interested having an accountability partner to help me stay on track. We can discuss each others' goals and it'd be really awesome to have someone to motivate me, and someone for me to motivate. DM me if interested.