Day 230: 28/05/2022
The Flake Prospect Report
The Flake
So my coffee date that I arranged today turned into coffee for one at my desk (saved me some time and money I suppose)
I got a text at about 08:30 Hrs this morning
from the chick I was supposed to meet saying 'I hate to be that person, but I'm gonna have to rain check today...'.
Little pissed off especially as I sent a confirmation text yesterday and she seemed all up for it. She didn't give me a reason for flaking on me or propose another date
I ended up replying 'so when do you propose we have this date?'
I'm still waiting for a reply, but I'm not getting my hopes up
Was gonna hit the gym this morning with my P.T, but had this scheduled coffee date instead
I'm gonna try and go on my own later this evening instead to try and salvage the day somewhat
Prospect Report
I haven't been having much luck with the ladies lately
Today's flake has just kinda added to the pile recently as I'll explain below
I guess that Lady Luck is really a hooker and I'm always fresh outta cash when she comes calling!
Thought I'd give a bit of a rundown here on the prospects and why things haven't worked out with them
Chinese Kitten
Wants to have a 3some with another guy who she's said 'likes to Fuck men'. Told her that's not really cool with me so I'm gonna have to pass. She keeps pushing for it so I've stopped replying
If the shoe was on the other foot, the guy would get chased outta town and lynched from the nearest lamppost torch and pitchfork style
I would never push a girl into doing something she doesn't want to, so I don't see why she thinks she can do it to a guy
Won't be meeting her again as this is a boundary for me. Nothing against the gay/bi folk, just ain't for me
Fitness Cougar
I didn't reply to a text for 2 days due to being busy and so I got voice messages with a lot of abuse and swearing. Told her I'm not putting up with that and she can find someone else to spend time with. Got called a 'Fucking C**t' and a 'Low value male loser who doesn't work and still lives at home...'.
Blocked and deleted. I could say more on this and rant, but I'm not gonna bother wasting my time on it. Not tolerating this. Got me down a bit the past couple days, but I'm moving on
Maths Teacher
This one has been Fucking guys left right and centre when she moved back up north and has given me the 'I'm starting to feel used...' speech and so she doesn't want to meet me
She's back in town this weekend, but she's said she's 'really busy' and won't be able to meet. A polite refusal. Not gonna push with this girl as if she does sleep with me, I don't want her to regret it and feel like shit. Chalking it up to a loss and moving on
Latina Milf
Stopped replying to my Instagram messages
Eventually admitted she's started seeing someone else. Told her no hard feelings and I wished her all the best. Just wish she would've said earlier instead of keeping me hanging on for a couple of weeks
Italian Pole Dancer
Took a shot at this one and dropped a photo message of a sunset I saw whilst on the cruise saying 'Pity you ain't here enjoying this romantic view with me. Still dating?'
Totally blanked which I kind of expected. Pity as this girl was smoking hot
Various Tinder Girls Worth a Brief Mention
3 or 4 all ghosted, flaked or met someone else whilst speaking to me for a brief spell
The one chick was even married which was a total no no for me. I don't go against my principles when it comes to that kinda thing
*REPORT END*
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So things haven't exactly been going well on the girl front lately
I've stopped showing myself on Tinder for the time being
Gonna take a week or two off from it. I'm also pretty much out of boosts
and I'm kind of lacking the motivation to purchase any due to the above
I think I need to look at improving my looks and my photos as I'm getting messed around a fair bit
I think I remember reading in Andy's content how the better you look, the less you get Fucked around and the more chicks want to sleep with you
I'm getting back in the gym, so this is a good start
Just need to keep up with the consistency now.
Thanks for reading
Spider 🕷