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Frostituto
Posts: 4 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Sun May 21, 2023 12:10 pm
Name: Alberto
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 30

Sun May 21, 2023 12:18 pm

Hi,

I have already uploaded my avatar to my profile, you can see it now.

Im Alberto.
I, Alberto, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

30, from Spain, living in Madrid - love to travel at least once quarterly, fitness and investing.
I want to sleep with HQ girls, I don't mind anymore the quantity of girls.
Going to use online, approaching to and social to do it.
Currento short term goals
- buy my own house in less than 12 months to improve retention
- reach 3 HQ lays this year (currently 1 this year)


See you over here!
Last edited by Frostituto on Sun May 21, 2023 4:30 pm, edited 2 times in total.
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MakingAComeback
Posts: 4216 | Thanks: 4821
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Goal: 3k Per Month Post Tax
Age: 32
Motto: POSITIVE SELF TALK

Sun May 21, 2023 2:26 pm

Frostituto wrote:
Sun May 21, 2023 12:18 pm
Hi,

This is Alberto, from Madrid (Spain). After a few years getting great results on Tinder with low quality pics (selfies, etc), I've noticed that things have drastically changed, and the quality of my matches is not even similar to the ones I used to get in 2017, 2018, etc...

I have read the full version of Andy's Tinder guide and would like to give and get some feedback to make our profiles better.

See you over here!
Hey bro, welcome.

Please edit your post in alignment with Andy's instructions on the first page or I'll ban your account within 3 days.

MAC
-Your friend, Ravi

Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential

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Frostituto
Posts: 4 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Sun May 21, 2023 12:10 pm
Name: Alberto
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 30

Sun May 21, 2023 4:01 pm

MakingAComeback wrote:
Sun May 21, 2023 2:26 pm
Frostituto wrote:
Sun May 21, 2023 12:18 pm
Hi,

This is Alberto, from Madrid (Spain). After a few years getting great results on Tinder with low quality pics (selfies, etc), I've noticed that things have drastically changed, and the quality of my matches is not even similar to the ones I used to get in 2017, 2018, etc...

I have read the full version of Andy's Tinder guide and would like to give and get some feedback to make our profiles better.

See you over here!
Hey bro, welcome.

Please edit your post in alignment with Andy's instructions on the first page or I'll ban your account within 3 days.

MAC
Hi, just did it right now
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MakingAComeback
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Tue May 23, 2023 8:20 pm

Parabolan57 wrote:
Tue May 23, 2023 3:26 pm
Hello,

My name is David (24M) and I have been in game for around 2 years now. I have done cold approach and OLD and have achieved a good amount of lays from this (50+).

I'm at a point now where I am no longer getting satisfaction from mindless slaying and want to focus on 3 specific goals:

1. Improve quality of lays - I want to bang the hottest girls
2. Build a social circle - I will be moving cities in a month and want to build a social circle of guys I can cold approach and hang out with. I want to find a few good wings I can night game with as well.
3. Start an online fitness business - I have been interested in entrepreneurship for a while to want to launch my online business this year to grow my income.
You have to use a REAL avatar here, a REAL pic of you.

You've uploaded a fake one (Jeff Sied) - fix this ASAP or I'm banning you.

MAC

Edit: Banned the guy above. Please don't fraud or come here with lies. We are an honesty & ethics based community. We are real and raw.
-Your friend, Ravi

Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential

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MakingAComeback
Posts: 4216 | Thanks: 4821
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Thu May 25, 2023 9:15 am

Frostituto wrote:
Sun May 21, 2023 4:01 pm
MakingAComeback wrote:
Sun May 21, 2023 2:26 pm


Hey bro, welcome.

Please edit your post in alignment with Andy's instructions on the first page or I'll ban your account within 3 days.

MAC
Hi, just did it right now
Thanks. Welcome!

Go hustle & win.

-MAC
-Your friend, Ravi

Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential

My FB Group for Consistent Performance & Goal Achievement
https://www.facebook.com/groups/ironwilltribe
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ldoser
Posts: 224 | Thanks: 24
Joined: Thu May 25, 2023 6:15 pm
Goal: Learn Game
Age: 40
Motto: Game works but without looks you're fucked

Fri May 26, 2023 11:36 am

I, Tom, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

(I’ve been doing this since I was 16 though.)

Some basic info about me:
- I’m 40
- I’m 5'6''
- Born, raised and living in Eastern Europe

Looks:
- I got a 6 pack, I work out 6x / week
- Squat: 1.6x bw, bench-press: 1.4x bw, deadlift: 2x bw
- My total testosterone is 441
- Outfit, grooming: in my view, at least OK

Money:
- I'm a Senior Software Engineer (earning in the upper 10% in my country)
- Msc. Electrical Engineering + MA. Economics
- I speak two foreign languages

Game:
- I'm Red Pill aware (read all 5 volumes of the Rational Male)
- Body count: 5 (lifetime total, excluding prostitutes)

Personal life:
- I used to drink and smoke heavily (sober since 2017, quit smoking in 2011)
- I don't think either of my parents loved me (I felt more loved, respected and accepted by some of my high school teachers than my parents)
- I broke almost all ties with my family about 15 years ago
- I have one person in my social circle (a Blue Pill guy I'm trying to RP with moderate success). We meet about once a month - otherwise, I live like a monk
- Most of the time, I’m in a pretty shitty mood (mainly because of my lack of success with women and to a lesser degree life in general) but I don't think I'm depressed in a clinical sense (I can get out of bed, I keep my apartment clean and tidy, I can do my 9-5, I go to the gym, I’m working on my side hustle, I read a ton etc.)

My story:

My entire life has been about self-improvement since the age of 16. My plan back then was to get myself a university degree, stay in shape and find a cute girl I can marry and have as many kids as we could financially afford. I thought that having a good job and being in shape was enough to be able to do that. I was wrong.

I read/watched books/courses from Alex Forest, Tom Torero, Nick Krauser and Troy Francis but I have been consuming PUA stuff ever since the time of Mystery. I've been doing daygame since I was 22 and I have approached several hundred women since then. Of all the women I approached, I got two girlfriends. The other 99%+ of women I approached rejected me most of the time politely, sometimes rudely.

I think I have a pretty good understanding of female nature and the world we live in by now. I also think that, on an intuitive level, I have understood intersexual dynamics from a very young age (way before I came across Rollo's work).

I think I will probably be banned from this forum quickly rather than slowly because it's in the interest of the owners that only the positive posts are shown. I don’t care if I'm banned but it's a stupid rule because - I suspect - the vast majority of guys joining this forum (or other similar communities) will never reach their goals with women (or money) and these are exactly the guys who need the most help but they have no chance of getting the help they need because they have to censor themselves. But negative outcomes can’t be sold, so no wonder that all paid or free communities have a strict no-negativity rule.

A couple of things:

Before you say that "I'm not putting in the hard work", let me tell you that:
- I'm quite obsessed with working out and meal planning
- I don't watch porn
- I rarely masturbate or go to prostitutes even though I have no sex life
- I'm trying to build a side hustle
- I go out regularly to do daygame (despite the fact that 99%+ of the girls reject me)
- I read a ton
- I generally live a disciplined life

To the positivity freaks:

I’m not a black-pill doomer. If anything, I despise those skinny-fat losers who play video games and watch porn all day and complain they can’t get laid. However, I’m not able/willing to brainwash myself to believe things that are quite obviously untrue. E.g. that I love myself. In fact, the reality is that I hate myself. I’m rejected by women even though I’ve been working hard for decades on improving myself and I have achieved things that put me in the upper 20% of men in several respects (high paying job, 6 pack, physical strength). I wouldn’t mind if I was rejected because I was fat. Or because I had a low prestige job. Or because I was a nerd playing video games all day. But I’m none of that. I’m rejected by women after a lifetime of self-improvement. That’s the dictionary definition of a low-value human male. The ultimate test of a man’s worth is how women respond to him. (And yes, I’ve bought and read “You Can’t Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought”.)

My plans for the future:

I’m going to continue with self improvement for the rest of my life. Maybe, the only way to be good enough for the girls one day is to get very rich. Maybe, I need to find truly new and innovative ways to meet women (e.g. setting up a business where I teach something to a predominantly female audience in the form of in-person seminars so that the “I’m a teacher, she’s a student” frame will cause vagina tingles). Maybe, I'll fail altogether and my genes will be weeded out of existence forever. I don’t know. But what I do know is that I ain’t quitting.

I’m always open to suggestions or criticism, so if you have any, don’t hold yourself back. I wish all my fellow self-improvers the best of luck.
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MakingAComeback
Posts: 4216 | Thanks: 4821
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Age: 32
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Fri May 26, 2023 12:14 pm

ldoser wrote:
Fri May 26, 2023 11:36 am
I, Tom, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

(I’ve been doing this since I was 16 though.)

Some basic info about me:
- I’m 40
- I’m 5 foot 6
- Born, raised and living in Eastern Europe

Looks:
- I got a 6 pack, I work out 5x / week
- Squat: 1.6 x body-weight, bench-press: 1.4 x bw, deadlift: 2 x bw
- My total testosterone is 441
- Outfit, grooming: in my view, at least OK

Money:
- I'm a Senior Software Engineer (earning in the upper 10% in my country)
- Msc. Electrical Engineering + MA. Economics
- I speak two foreign languages

RP:
- I'm Red Pill aware (read all 5 volumes of the Rational Male)
- Body count: 5 (lifetime total, excluding prostitutes)

Personal life:
- I used to drink and smoke heavily (sober since 2017, quit smoking in 2011)
- I don't think either of my parents loved me (I certainly never loved them)
- I broke almost all ties with my family about 15 years ago
- I have one person in my social circle who is a Blue Pill guy (trying to RP him with moderate success). We meet about once a month - otherwise, I live in total isolation
- Most of the time, I’m in a pretty shitty mood (mainly because of my lack of success with women and to a lesser degree life in general) but I’m not depressed in a clinical sense (I can get out of bed, I keep my apartment clean and tidy, I can do my 9-5, I go to the gym, I’m working on my side hustle, I read a ton etc.)

My story:

My entire life has been about self-improvement since the age of 16. My plan back then was to get myself a university degree, stay in shape and find a cute girl I can marry and have as many kids with as we could financially afford. I thought that having a good job and being in shape was enough to be able to do that.

I was wrong. All my 5 girlfriends that I’ve had so far have been of very low quality (e.g. some were fat, another had disgusting teeth). I have a good understanding of the London Daygame Model. I read/watched books/courses from Alex Forest, Tom Torrero, Nick Krauser and Troy Francis but I have been consuming PUA stuff ever since the time of Mystery. I've been doing daygame since I was 22 and I have approached several hundred women since then. Of all the women I approached, I got two girlfriends (one of those girls’ vagina smelled terrible, the other one was squint-eyed, fat and a virgin at 25). The other 99%+ of women I approached rejected me most of the time politely, sometimes rudely.

I think I have a pretty good understanding of female nature and the world we live in by now. I think, on an intuitive level, I've been having a good understanding of intersexual dynamics from a very young age (way before I came across Rollo's work).

I think I will probably be banned from this forum quickly rather than slowly because it's in the interest of the owners that only the positive posts are shown. I don’t care but it's a shame because - I suspect - the vast majority of guys joining this forum (or other similar communities) will never reach their goals with women (or money) and these are exactly the guys who need the most help but they have no chance of getting the help they need because they have to censor themselves. But negative outcomes can’t be sold, so no wonder that all paid or free communities have a strict no-negativity rule.

A couple of things:

Before you say that "I'm not putting in the hard work", let me tell you that:
- I'm quite obsessed with working out and with meal planning
- I don't watch porn
- I rarely masturbate or go to prostitutes even though I don't have a sex life
- I'm trying to build a side hustle
- I go out regularly to do daygame (despite the fact that 99%+ of the girls reject me)
- I read a ton
- I generally live a disciplined life

To the positivity freaks:

I’m not a black-pill doomer. If anything, I despise those skinny-fat losers who play video games, watch porn all day and complain they can’t get laid. However, I’m not able/willing to brainwash myself to have a high degree of self-confidence/self-love and make myself believe things that are quite obviously untrue. In fact, the reality is that I hate myself. I’m rejected by women even though I’ve been working hard for decades on improving myself and I have achieved things that put me in the upper 20% of men in several respects (high paying job, 6 pack, physical strength). I wouldn’t mind if I was rejected because I was fat. Or because I had a low prestige job. Or because I was a nerd playing video games all day. But I’m none of that. I’m rejected by women after a lifetime of self-improvement. That’s the dictionary definition of a low-value human male. The ultimate test of a man’s worth is how women respond to him. (And yes, I’ve bought and read “You Can’t Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought”.)

My plans for the future:

I’m going to continue with self improvement for the rest of my life. Maybe, the only way to be good enough for the girls one day is to get very rich. Maybe, I need to find truly new and innovative ways to meet women (e.g. setting up a business where I teach something to a predominantly female audience in the form of in person seminars so that the “I’m a teacher, she’s a student” frame will cause vagina tingles). I don’t know. But what I do know is that I ain’t quitting.

I’m always open to suggestions or criticism, so if you have any, don’t hold yourself back. I wish all my fellow self-improvers the best of luck.
Welcome!

Go start a progress log if you're serious about success. The intro thread is purely for intros and not back and forth dialogue. Next post from you should be a progress log, with your goals, and your commitment to daily/weekly actions / next steps.

We welcome all, no matter their issues, but we demand work. You can struggle with negativity, but you must be putting in god tier grinding, and you must be coachable and listen to feedback. It is against the forum rules to be consistently negative, and not take a high level of action alongside that. We follow the ethos of Andy & Radical. We are committed to Andy's principles and upholding the values he wants to see in us.

If anyone is consistently negative, without also busting their ass doing the work, I'll ban them and root that shit out of our community.

It's not a good start that you post in your first post that you think you'll be banned soon. I am personally going to welcome you, and invite you to participate. You can have issues and struggles, and still be part of this brotherhood, but I am going to ask you to make sure you also do the work, which is consistent approaching, use of dating apps, going on dates, pulling, and driving your romantic life forward if that is your goa.

-MAC
-Your friend, Ravi

Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential

My FB Group for Consistent Performance & Goal Achievement
https://www.facebook.com/groups/ironwilltribe
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Crisis_Overcomer
Posts: 1038 | Thanks: 719
Joined: Sat Jul 25, 2020 7:25 pm
Goal: Earn $5,000/month
Age: 33
Motto: Motion beats meditation

Sat May 27, 2023 5:05 pm

incontextsadam wrote:
Sat May 27, 2023 1:37 pm
I, Adam, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
You need a profile pic that follows the rules if you want to continue posting. Got 3 days to upload one, otherwise I'll ban you.
tropicaldream18
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Goal: Know my own value
Age: 36

Sat May 27, 2023 8:35 pm

I, tropical, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hey y'all

34, USA

Main goal of being here is believing in my self-worth. I have a great career, hobbies I enjoy, and friends in my life. Dating life has been okay. Ended a relationship in December, my fourth in my adult life. My overall experience with women has left me with the perception that the selection that are interested in me is slim and I don't have much choice in the matter - I believe this is 100% due to my attitude about myself and how I broadcast it to others.

Rather than framing this as a dating issue, I want to deal with the primary problem, which is my negative self-talk and limiting beliefs. My main strategy for confronting this has been confronting and reframing negative thoughts and proactively giving myself credit for what I am doing well. This year has been a year of action for me, and I need to keep up the momentum.

What I am doing:
Sober since 12/2022
No porn since 3/2023
Cooking, reading, gardening, lifting - my introvert hobbies
Daily gratitude journaling
Salsa classes every week - this has been super fun
Climbing gym - went for the first time this week, will continue as schedule allows
Expanding social circle - Bumble BFF, local sobriety social group, FetLife groups
Photography - picked up a mirrorless Canon off of Craigslist so I can get some action shots and work on my camera presence
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Manganiello
Posts: 1742 | Thanks: 2021
Joined: Fri Jun 05, 2020 2:25 am
Name: Brandon
Goal: Career Launch
Age: 33
Motto: Embrace your Darkside
Location: Seoul

Mon May 29, 2023 12:48 pm

soaringbitestrike wrote:
Mon May 29, 2023 4:22 am
I, soaringbitestrike, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I still gotta find a pic of myself to upload, will do so in the next day or 2.



Hey @soaringbitestrike.

The profile is pic IS MANDATORY.


I get it. Your gonna put one up later. But you have to find it before you post not after.

I'm deleting your post until you fix it.

And get that pic up asap. Your account might get deleted if you don't (within 72 hours)

You can remake a reintroduction post once you've done that.
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Past Goals:
🗡️ AA Program Log
☀️ Lost vCard from Day Game Post
🇰🇷 Moved to Korea Post
🔥 OLD Log & Lays Log


How I got 9 lays in the first 6 weeks on Tinder
[Guide]

.
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soaringbitestrike
Posts: 32 | Thanks: 9
Joined: Mon May 29, 2023 3:41 am
Goal: goth girls
Age: 19
Motto: I will not lose

Tue May 30, 2023 3:40 am

I, soaringbitestrike, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously. Second time posting here. Did not know that I needed to uplaod my pic before posting lol. Here's my main goals to work on:
- Working Out
- PE
- School
- Addressing Health Issues
Not really focusing on girls since i gotta gf rn plus I have health issues that I gotta work on before I can even think about dedicating myself to girls full time. Consistency seems like it is the #1 important thing by far and has also been something that I've struggled with my whole life. I'm going to change that though and that starts with this post.

Hoping it is ok that my face is blurred out lol.
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Manganiello
Posts: 1742 | Thanks: 2021
Joined: Fri Jun 05, 2020 2:25 am
Name: Brandon
Goal: Career Launch
Age: 33
Motto: Embrace your Darkside
Location: Seoul

Tue May 30, 2023 3:52 am

soaringbitestrike wrote:
Tue May 30, 2023 3:40 am
Hoping it is ok that my face is blurred out lol.
Perfectly fine.

Thanks for fixing this and welcome.
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Past Goals:
🗡️ AA Program Log
☀️ Lost vCard from Day Game Post
🇰🇷 Moved to Korea Post
🔥 OLD Log & Lays Log


How I got 9 lays in the first 6 weeks on Tinder
[Guide]

.
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shairp
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Fri Jun 02, 2023 9:44 pm
Goal: Hello
Age: 32

Sat Jun 03, 2023 4:57 pm

I, Shairp, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Early 30's American tech entrepreneur. Growing from engineer role to CTO of my somewhat successful startup.

I need to find the balance of sharing goals versus privacy within this forum. I want to share everything transparently but don't want it to bleed into discovery by my existing contacts, though I'm leaning towards that doesn't matter.
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pancakemouse
Posts: 1761 | Thanks: 1049
Joined: Sun Nov 14, 2021 4:14 pm
Goal: Master cold approach
Age: 33

Sat Jun 03, 2023 6:04 pm

shairp wrote:
Sat Jun 03, 2023 4:57 pm
I, Shairp, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Early 30's American tech entrepreneur. Growing from engineer role to CTO of my somewhat successful startup.

I need to find the balance of sharing goals versus privacy within this forum. I want to share everything transparently but don't want it to bleed into discovery by my existing contacts, though I'm leaning towards that doesn't matter.
I have a similar professional profile to you and no issues so far. There are less than 200 active guys on this forum. Biggest thing I would recommend is cropping your entire head instead of just censoring your face. I also keep my log in the private section and leave out a lot of identifying info in my reports.
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Ranger
Posts: 11 | Thanks: 4
Joined: Sun Jun 04, 2023 11:52 am
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 30

Sun Jun 04, 2023 12:36 pm

I, Ranger, commit to working on myself and taking myself seriously.

German, 30, IT Office drone, interested in outdoor sports, tech, fashion and intellectual discussion of history, politics etc.

After getting my life in order I finally want to lose my Virginity and have a sex life. On paper I have a stable job, ample free time and some money to burn while living in a centrally located apartment in a major metropolitan area. In clothes and physique I think I am somewhat above average. Biggest problems are my social anxiety and inexperience plus major tendency to procrastinate. I appreciate the focus of this community on taking action and holding each other accountable. Still working on building a social circle in my new city.
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