Ah yes welcome to the fun world of timewastersManganiello wrote: ↑Tue Sep 28, 2021 12:35 pmShe was screened but I guess she didn't understand the message
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- Radical
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Sept 28
Date cancelled.
She was cute but said "maybe next week".
Sure. Maybe. Lol
Stats
2 new dates scheduled
3 #s
30 matches
4 boosts (1 great, 2 decent, 1 trashy)
One of the girls suggested we try the bar at a vegan restaurant where I was flirting with the bar manager there.
Should be interesting...
Pics
Put new pics on. I've been getting more matches per boost, hotter girls and more girls initiating.
Dunno if that's random or attributes to the profile update.
Time will tell.
Date cancelled.
She was cute but said "maybe next week".
Sure. Maybe. Lol
Stats
2 new dates scheduled
3 #s
30 matches
4 boosts (1 great, 2 decent, 1 trashy)
One of the girls suggested we try the bar at a vegan restaurant where I was flirting with the bar manager there.
Should be interesting...
Pics
Put new pics on. I've been getting more matches per boost, hotter girls and more girls initiating.
Dunno if that's random or attributes to the profile update.
Time will tell.
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Sept 29
Quick update.
Date with virgin girl
Pulled.
She was super uncomfortable at my place. Like down to come over but like uncomfortable at each step.
Just made out and felt her up.
Didn't really force it or whip it out.
In hindsight I probably couldve.
I was maybe being too accommodating with her. Like I'd advance then she's pull away advance a little farther etc.
It was her first makeout ever. So she was like new new.
I think it was possible to get handjob had I "checked in" with her less. Maybe I was being too empathetic.
Idk
You guys have any suggestions??
I might see her again next week. But still i feel like there were some options there.
I'll update stats later. It was a decent day, got a last minute cancel as well.
Quick update.
Date with virgin girl
Pulled.
She was super uncomfortable at my place. Like down to come over but like uncomfortable at each step.
Just made out and felt her up.
Didn't really force it or whip it out.
In hindsight I probably couldve.
I was maybe being too accommodating with her. Like I'd advance then she's pull away advance a little farther etc.
It was her first makeout ever. So she was like new new.
I think it was possible to get handjob had I "checked in" with her less. Maybe I was being too empathetic.
Idk
You guys have any suggestions??
I might see her again next week. But still i feel like there were some options there.
I'll update stats later. It was a decent day, got a last minute cancel as well.
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- Radical
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Inexperienced girls are like @KillYourInnerLosers specialty and type. Check over how he approaches it in his GLL logs, theres like 20 virgin stories at least
If you want easy sex tho i advise screening them out which is what i do, bit of a headache in my eyes
If you want easy sex tho i advise screening them out which is what i do, bit of a headache in my eyes
- Manganiello
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Sept 30
3 dates scheduled.
1 cancelled
1 rescheduled
1 went to a dog park for 30 min.
Long story short.
I double booked 2 girls. Both confirmed. So I rescheduled the uglier one. And then the hotter one cancelled. So I told the uglier were still on and came up with some excuse. Then she said oh ok perfect let's meet at the dog park!
Dumb date. 0 logistics. She was on the middle of moving. And was actually texting people where to pick up her stuff during the date. It was so dumb.
I would've been better off approaching..
Stats today:
3 new scheduled dates (incl. The rescheduled girl)
6 #s
~ 35 matches
3 boosts.
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Feels like I'm prioritizing dating too much. Which is good. But I'm also routinely leaving work early to go on dates. Which is fine. But I'm not gaining financially when I definitely should be.
3 dates scheduled.
1 cancelled
1 rescheduled
1 went to a dog park for 30 min.
Long story short.
I double booked 2 girls. Both confirmed. So I rescheduled the uglier one. And then the hotter one cancelled. So I told the uglier were still on and came up with some excuse. Then she said oh ok perfect let's meet at the dog park!
Dumb date. 0 logistics. She was on the middle of moving. And was actually texting people where to pick up her stuff during the date. It was so dumb.
I would've been better off approaching..
Stats today:
3 new scheduled dates (incl. The rescheduled girl)
6 #s
~ 35 matches
3 boosts.
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Feels like I'm prioritizing dating too much. Which is good. But I'm also routinely leaving work early to go on dates. Which is fine. But I'm not gaining financially when I definitely should be.
I'm going to opt for experience at this point. Once I hit a decent lay count I'll worry more about efficiency.
- Manganiello
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quick update
Date 1
Went on a proper date with a vegan. Reservations the whole shebang.
Funny thing was the server was a girl I matched with and flirted with last week. But she screened herself out after the "nothing serious" text.
I actually pulled...
But she had to go on 30 minutes so she just messaged me that we should get together later in the week.
So no dice
Date 2
Cute girl.
Drinks for an hour
Pulled
Made out for like 15 minutes, put my hand underneath her bra.
She stopped midway and said she couldnt get into it.
No dice
Friday Date
Another girl. Screened. But she wasn't dtf.
She was weird, she had a hard time making eye contact.
No dice
...
Last minute hookups - cancels
Both Saturday and Friday
I had a girl March out of the blue asking me to meet them ASAP.
Both times I was already on or lined up for a date. Tried to line something later.
No dice.
...
Flakes
Still getting flaked/cancelled on majority of the time.
3 on Friday
1 on Saturday
...
new pics doing well
Very good matching lately. Profile has been doing very well ever since I added new pics.
Crossed 400 match mark this morning.
These two.
current profile
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@Radical
You can use these.
Date 1
Went on a proper date with a vegan. Reservations the whole shebang.
Funny thing was the server was a girl I matched with and flirted with last week. But she screened herself out after the "nothing serious" text.
I actually pulled...
But she had to go on 30 minutes so she just messaged me that we should get together later in the week.
So no dice
Date 2
Cute girl.
Drinks for an hour
Pulled
Made out for like 15 minutes, put my hand underneath her bra.
She stopped midway and said she couldnt get into it.
No dice
Friday Date
Another girl. Screened. But she wasn't dtf.
She was weird, she had a hard time making eye contact.
No dice
...
Last minute hookups - cancels
Both Saturday and Friday
I had a girl March out of the blue asking me to meet them ASAP.
Both times I was already on or lined up for a date. Tried to line something later.
No dice.
...
Flakes
Still getting flaked/cancelled on majority of the time.
3 on Friday
1 on Saturday
...
new pics doing well
Very good matching lately. Profile has been doing very well ever since I added new pics.
Crossed 400 match mark this morning.
These two.
current profile
reactions
@Radical
You can use these.
- Manganiello
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Oct 3
Biggest contact acuqisition day ever
12 contacts. Maybe 35 matches today?
"let's be friends"
Vegan chick hit me up with a message basically saying I didn't communicate enough.
... What I think what actually appened was...
She saw me walk with a girl later that night after our date. And put two and two together and realized I wasn't seeking anything serious.
And my low investment texts tipped her over the edge.
Tbh I've texted her wayyyy more than any other girls. So if she wanted more. Id be turned off honestly.
Flake count today
3.
Date tonight
Despite the triple flake. A girl last minute
matched and wanted to go for a walk.
So we went. Had a nice chat. I was curious to see how beta I could be. So it was a nice rapport building connection building date.
In fact I probably connected more with her than any other girl on a date. Ever
Went for the pull. Nothing
I almost want her to ghost. Cuz then I can really see how dumb building a "connection" is.
being too ruthless?
I feel like especially ruthless right now. Almost too cut throat. Where i actually don't care. And that level of non-caring is also meaning there's girls I have yet to text and I'm letting them slip by.
Not sure if it's a good thing. Or how to balance the no-fucks-given with actually putting in effort with a girl.
Zero fucks
Biggest contact acuqisition day ever
12 contacts. Maybe 35 matches today?
"let's be friends"
Vegan chick hit me up with a message basically saying I didn't communicate enough.
... What I think what actually appened was...
She saw me walk with a girl later that night after our date. And put two and two together and realized I wasn't seeking anything serious.
And my low investment texts tipped her over the edge.
Tbh I've texted her wayyyy more than any other girls. So if she wanted more. Id be turned off honestly.
Flake count today
3.
Date tonight
Despite the triple flake. A girl last minute
matched and wanted to go for a walk.
So we went. Had a nice chat. I was curious to see how beta I could be. So it was a nice rapport building connection building date.
In fact I probably connected more with her than any other girl on a date. Ever
Went for the pull. Nothing
I almost want her to ghost. Cuz then I can really see how dumb building a "connection" is.
being too ruthless?
I feel like especially ruthless right now. Almost too cut throat. Where i actually don't care. And that level of non-caring is also meaning there's girls I have yet to text and I'm letting them slip by.
Not sure if it's a good thing. Or how to balance the no-fucks-given with actually putting in effort with a girl.
Zero fucks
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@Manganiello admitting that you're using a copy-paste message is completely non-consequential, I get asked that same question 3-4 times a week. Dtf girls will still meet you regardless.
Cool new pics, glad they're working for you. Your face looks leaner on your avatar pic too. Have you kept losing weight since the AA-program days?
Also, maybe I missed it in your log, but are you still telling girls you're after something casual before meeting them, or do you keep things more ambiguous? I ask because why would vegan chick suddenly realize you're not looking for something serious only after meeting you?
Cool new pics, glad they're working for you. Your face looks leaner on your avatar pic too. Have you kept losing weight since the AA-program days?
Also, maybe I missed it in your log, but are you still telling girls you're after something casual before meeting them, or do you keep things more ambiguous? I ask because why would vegan chick suddenly realize you're not looking for something serious only after meeting you?
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Ya I was thinking that bout the copy paste message cuz @goldfish went on a date with a girl who said that...Reservoir wrote: ↑Mon Oct 04, 2021 9:38 am@Manganiello admitting that you're using a copy-paste message is completely non-consequential, I get asked that same question 3-4 times a week. Dtf girls will still meet you regardless.
Cool new pics, glad they're working for you. Your face looks leaner on your avatar pic too. Have you kept losing weight since the AA-program days?
Also, maybe I missed it in your log, but are you still telling girls you're after something casual before meeting them, or do you keep things more ambiguous? I ask because why would vegan chick suddenly realize you're not looking for something serious only after meeting you?
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I have lost weight since. But it's actually maybe only 4 or 5 kilos. Those shots had good lighting and the right angle.
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I am screening girls.
"Not looking for anything serious"
I didn't with her because I was curious. Last vegan screened herself out. So I wanted to see what happened here.
So this is the outcome of not screening.
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On weeks where I have sex with my 3 girls, I basically completely neglect the apps and lose out on amazing women just by pure chance or neglect on my part. That's just how it goes.Manganiello wrote: ↑Mon Oct 04, 2021 6:18 amI feel like especially ruthless right now. Almost too cut throat. Where i actually don't care. And that level of non-caring is also meaning there's girls I have yet to text and I'm letting them slip by.
However, at this point in my life, I'm in "consistent rotation" mode and not "getting a high notch count" mode. You should figure out which way you want to go. Then automate relentlessly and text girls during every idle moment of the day. At some point it becomes a full time job to manage this shit. I use keyboard shortcuts to save time. Like when girls ask me what my job is, I type in "work1" and my keyboard will display an entire paragraph. I do this for a lot of recurring texts/questions.
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I've thought once my profile is on point, and I have a little extra cash to spend, of hiring a virtual personal assistant to do the swiping/messaging for me. Heck maybe even just see the date booked on my calendar. I haven't read it but in Tim Ferris' book the 40 hour work week he talks about outsourcing stuff to someone in India. For him it was email stuff but tinder could be a big time sink too lol.Holden wrote: ↑Tue Oct 05, 2021 11:32 amOn weeks where I have sex with my 3 girls, I basically completely neglect the apps and lose out on amazing women just by pure chance or neglect on my part. That's just how it goes.Manganiello wrote: ↑Mon Oct 04, 2021 6:18 amI feel like especially ruthless right now. Almost too cut throat. Where i actually don't care. And that level of non-caring is also meaning there's girls I have yet to text and I'm letting them slip by.
However, at this point in my life, I'm in "consistent rotation" mode and not "getting a high notch count" mode. You should figure out which way you want to go. Then automate relentlessly and text girls during every idle moment of the day. At some point it becomes a full time job to manage this shit. I use keyboard shortcuts to save time. Like when girls ask me what my job is, I type in "work1" and my keyboard will display an entire paragraph. I do this for a lot of recurring texts/questions.
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When I went super hard with the apps I went off script ~3 times without screening. The girls were all 8+ and showed a bunch of interest in me up front so I didn't want to blow things. All three girls tragically ended things with me or got weird super fast after sex. I was glad I got to spend time with them - but I do think about the ethics of it. Makes me wonder how guys juggle women without screening upfront.
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Question for you guys.
I had the last 3 girls pull & makeout on the 1st date but not hookup.
- 2 were logistics (had under 30 min b4 they had other commitments)
- 1 said she wasn't feeling it.
How do you guys manage the 2nd date thing?
Like if you sense logistics aren't there. You arrange a future date on the spot?
Cuz like I can convince them to comeback but then I'm hesitating once theyre at my apartment because they dont have time and theyre giving bad body language (closed off).
Appreciate the input.
Ive exclusively been going for first date lays.
Honestly just cuz I don't know any other way.
I'll try it a few more times and make my conclusion. Its fun but I also don't want to be a straight up lying ass or mislead girls into something that isn't there.
I had the last 3 girls pull & makeout on the 1st date but not hookup.
- 2 were logistics (had under 30 min b4 they had other commitments)
- 1 said she wasn't feeling it.
How do you guys manage the 2nd date thing?
Like if you sense logistics aren't there. You arrange a future date on the spot?
Cuz like I can convince them to comeback but then I'm hesitating once theyre at my apartment because they dont have time and theyre giving bad body language (closed off).
Appreciate the input.
Ive exclusively been going for first date lays.
Honestly just cuz I don't know any other way.
I have shortcuts pinned on my phone's keyboard to say the basic lines. I'm constantly behind.
That's where I'm at. I got a super hot girls number by not screening today. And she seems super down. But I'm pretty sure she's relationship seeking.
I'll try it a few more times and make my conclusion. Its fun but I also don't want to be a straight up lying ass or mislead girls into something that isn't there.
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