2 pulls
1 BJ
1 New Retained Girl
3pm Date - Scottish chick Pull + Nothing
This was date #2.
Date
Went for coffee.
Pull
Deliberately went to a place that closes in an hour. So I could say "Hey you wanna go watch that show we were talking about."
Andddd that's exactly what happened.
Pulled her back. Super easy.
Escalation
Escalated with her legs on top of mine on the couch. Rubbed her feet.
Went for the kiss
"Uhh no. I have a cold sore. They're contagious"
Didn't know what to do or say. Cuz I realized 100% of my escalation relies on us making out.
Well fuq....
So I kept rubbing her feet then she had to go.
Seeded the date for a later date. Still haven't texted her since.
LESSON:
I was being an idiot by
(1) Not taking full ownership for the escalation and getting laid. I was expecting it to be too easy.
(2) Not setting the mood. So the date was fairly platonic. And so when I pulled I had zero momentum and basically had to start from scratch, not only that I felt more timid because I was thinking, I don't know where she stands on the dtf scale.
(3) Not being a 100% solid on my pull. I was thinking I hope she says yes (embarassing to admit). And I didn't just go into date thinking. Ok let's fuck, I'm gonna fuck her. She wants to fuck me. Let's just get this trivial date out of the way and bang
...
So honestly Thank God that happened because I took all those lessons and used them 2 hours later on the next date.
7pm date - Taiwanese chick pull + oral sex
3rd date
Picked her up at her apartment.
Now the pain of the last date was fresh. So immediately grabbed her hand and started rubbing it.
Drove to a vegan fast food joint.
Ate food. Talked about stuff.
pull
Pulled within 45 minutes with
"Ok let's go"
"Where are we going?"
"Let's watch those Taiwanese game shows you were talking about."
"ok!"
Escalation
Since the Korean chick I lost.my Vcard too. This was probably the hardest escalations.
I could just tell she wasn't gonna be easy.
We sat down
Put my arm around her
She didn't do anything. Pulled her closer.
Put her legs on top of mine.
Rubbed her feet.
Went for the kiss
... She moved her face away...
Ok fuck.
But I remember something a gay coworker had told me. When they reject your escalation, but wanted everything else, sometimes it just means: I liked everything but that. Try it a different way.
I think Radical said something like that last year on one of Toasts posts.
So anyway. I de escalate. Take a break.
Escalate again. Rub feet, hands, pull closer, go for kiss and this time she does it. But it's lifeless.
De escalate again. Take a break. Run, feet, hands, pull closer, go for kiss, and this time she's actually kissing back with more nwrfy.
But it felt like I had such a small margin for error because she wasn't that into it despite making out with me.
So I put her hand underneath my shirt.
Then her hand behind my head. I put mine around her throat. Do that for a bit. Then go for her boob. Slowly she warms up, and once I felt it was clear. I pull her ontop of me, take her shirt off and run her crotch.
oral sex
Anyways.
Finger banged her. She was bleeding quote a bit. Idk if she even noticed. The blonde girl I was with almost ended the session cuz she didn't realize she was on her period. So I didn't bother saying anything or showing her my hand. Just fingered her really hard and made her cum.
3rd girl in a row to say I'm the first guy to make her come. So that's cool.
I didn't want to put in her because honestly the blood was so much it was kind of grossing me out.
Got a blowjob from her. She's never done one. So I actually had to kind of tell her how to do that.
Thank you to the Sex God book for telling me how to do that. Blowjob was actually pretty good somehow.
I don't think she's had sex with a guy since highschool tbh.
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Retention
She texted me afterwards that
"You're the only guy I want to see".
Something like that. And wanted to see me the next night. But scheduled our next date for Thursday. Still texting her each day.
- might not keep her tho, sex is bland, and I'm not that into her looks or personality. Plus she's expecting a full on relationship and has given me some flags about being really curious about my income. So ya.
...
Anyway
First time sex has been this abundant
Yesterday I had both girls trying to invite themselves over.
I said no. But then I thought about it and realized I wanted to smash the blonde girl. So I texted her saying.
"If you came over now I wouldn't stop you."
She took a shower and then came over an hour later and we fucked for 3 hours again.
Good god. First time I got deepthroat. That shit is unreal. I've heard people say it feels better than vaginal sex. But like seriously it does.
I didn't even ask. She just started doing it.
Afterwards we talked about kinky stuff we wanna do. I'm gonna see if I can arrange a date to Banff and get a BJ on the drive.
Plus we both want to try shower sex and outdoor sex.
Date tomorrow. She's coming straight over after work with her toys. Should be good.
Screenshot_20220222-185833_Tinder.jpg
Also got this message on tinder today.
Probably won't go anywhere... But it's just a cool thing, that like wow. Sex is abundant rn.
Never had this before.
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Final thoughts
- As much as I like spending time with the blonde chick. I might limit her to the old rule of twice every 10 days maximum.
- I'm not sure why everyone recommends that but the sheer number of guys recommending it is making me think I should do it.
Not the most valuable information filled post. But I'm just doing it to point out retention has been Infinitely better. And honestly just logging for the sake of having a history to look back on
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