Bros I have been bad at replying lately I will try to do better.
THE HOLEDIGGER!
Thanks bro, LMFAO! We will homie, this freshly buzzed dome is changing my fricken life rn LOL
Enjoyed that makeout, but damn bro just being with your team and on your mission, running through the streets trying to achieve a mission, strategising and debriefing through the night, shit is hilarious and so much fun.
Here's to many more top nights for the boys.
Phoenix will rise from the ashes one day bro, someway, somehow.
Astronaut wrote: ↑Sun Sep 11, 2022 2:23 pm
MakingAComeback wrote: ↑Sun Sep 11, 2022 11:33 am
Business focus: most here are ambitious, trying to win big, fuck stunners and make bank. It's not a space which is just about getting laid, and Andy will be making a lot more biz content I think. I myself work on dating hardcore 6/7 days a week, and also hustle with trying to get myself rich with the same fervour.
Defzo, for biz specifically I can recommend the fastlane forums (all kinds of stuff, local/online) and buildersociety (more online oriented, building websites mostly, but also agencies/freelancing and whatever else you can do online).
MakingAComeback wrote: ↑Sun Sep 11, 2022 11:33 am
I have read your post and do appreciate your thoughts, but would like to add, that generating attraction and creating sparks and connection is something that is in the largest part influenced by the way you look IMO. Hence, yes it's an individual thing as you say, but beyond that, we still have room to move and infuence. You rightly elude to this in your post and you figured out a style that works for you. I am interested in what a guy who is low in SMV can do to overcome this: we still need to find a way to get a guy laid who is otherwise not going to be in with much of a shot.
Yeah agreed, I've put on some muscle, got lucky with the height as well at 190. Not the fuckboy vibe that most of you guys are going for here, with the chains and tats. But you're also gunning for younger chicks, so I guess the style has to match.
But man, you're by no means ugly or anything like that. I mean, you're tall as fuck. Average face - sure - but let's be honest the cards you've been dealt are a lot better than many other guys out there. I mean imagine doing dates/pickup being 150-160-170cm tall when most women are your height or taller than you.
I'm aware of the fact that you're brown-skinned and whatnot, and that probably knocks your attractiveness down a few notches for some girls. There's that and your average face. That's it. I don't think you're that massively handicapped in the physiology department when it comes to dating. With proper work, muscles, posture, etc. it's rather the opposite - you come out way above average.
So, you know, psychological & anxiety issues aside, on the genetics side of things it's really not that bad for you.
Your height can be intimidating for the girls, especially with cold approaches. Which means you'll have to be more careful with the more aggressive jokes & pick-up lines and the general tone of the conversation. Because even a hint of aggressiveness in a conversation with a tall guy will be instantly off-putting to many girls and they will not feel safe around you. Us tall guys, we have to be careful with that. But I'm sure you're aware.
Buuuuut yeah, keep slaying man
I think you'll be out of this mess sooner than you know it. Also if you go online you can try living in Thailand, literally impossible not to get laid there, especially with your level of effort.
Fastlane is a good space, haven't heard the other, but many of us are going to go ALL IN on biz soon and make enough money to live well & have access to quality.
Lookswise, we've found something that really does work wonders. I have been blown away by the consistent life-changing impacts style upgrades have on people. The chains and tats, the latter of which I don't have myself yet. are fantastic additions for adding edge,
I appreciate the breakdown: Yes, I have good height (6ft5/195cm), face is decidedly average but MAY improve if I lose 30lbs, which I am working on, and the big unlock for me IMO will be my hair transplant growing to full length & bodymaxxing. This will take a year but will pay dividends.
The good news is, I am improving, things ARE getting better.
Also, thank you for being honest and transparent enough to acknowledge that brown skin is a big DLV: IMO it knocks off 2 points from your attractiveness level. Hence, for me to get to 'above average' I will have to truly make a monumental effort in the gym all throughout 2023 and by the end, I may be in a position where the rest of this journey (I am only going to 36/37) may be fairly solid.
Regarding going for younger girls - no, man. We are not. I am trying to get a wife, dude. I want to start a family. I hence need to be able to be in the position where I can get a girl to fricken text me back - right now thats a bit of a stretch lol.
I am open minded to the possibility that I could be out of this very tricky predicant one day. I am learning to accept and let go and not worry too much about this, as this does not help me and actually makes me quite annoyed and generates a lot of bitterness and resentment.
I will just keep working, as I do........EVERY DAY :-)
I am quite happy right now from a great night last night.
Off to clean my flat, relax for a while, have a chat with
@TigOlBitties if he's around later and listen to a seminar.
MAC