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Hi! It’s Immy from Kill Your Inner Loser – (Andy’s girl).
Andy has asked for some things I’d recommend that guys to do right now if they want to get laid. I’ll start by saying that my advice ‘as a woman’ to guys who want to get laid certainly isn’t groundbreaking, which is great news! It’s not complicated. Dating Andy has meant that I’ve come to have a pretty damn practical (and rather masculine) outlook on the subject of getting laid.
Women aren’t really mysterious, nor are we from Venus. Having sex with more women can be broken down into the most basic steps of:
- Look good
- Talk to more women (and actually ask them out)
- Keep trying until you get the results you want
But since three dot points aren’t super satisfying I’ll expand a little and add my two cents. One for any guys just getting started and another for those a little further along.
The most basic first step. Update your looks.
While it might be an eye-roll inducing stereotype, I am a girl that has probably watched hundreds of hours of makeover shows across my lifetime. It’s my not so guilty, guilty pleasure. And if I’ve learned anything, it’s that a makeover can transform a person.
Andy talks endlessly about this in his Tinder guide, but that’s because it’s one of the few things that actually matter when it comes to getting laid: Look good. The hotter you are, the better your chances. If you want to get laid right now but you don’t look like a Greek God you can still do as much as you can to ‘max out’ what you have right now.
While you’re working on getting leaner, or adding muscle mass, go buy a new outfit. Get something that fits you well, something that’s on trend, add some accessories. As already mentioned, Andy talks about all this in meticulous detail in his Tinder guide. Get a fresh haircut and a shave.
Investing one morning and a little money towards updating your appearance can make you immediately more attractive to women. This will drastically increase your likelihood of getting laid sooner, whether online or in person.
Hit up any women who ‘ghosted / rejected’ you.
To make it very clear. I’m not talking about the girls who plainly said they weren’t interested. I’m talking about the girls who texted to cancel a day before and you never asked to meet up again or the girl who didn’t reply to your last message.
I’ve been astounded at the number of stories I’ve heard from Andy about clients who self sabotage with women. Andy and I have our own share of stories doing this too. You might be telling a story that “every woman rejects me”. But, more often than you might think, the same guy telling this story is rejecting plenty of women without realizing it. Sometimes I have to jokingly remind Andy that in dating, guys aren’t immune from what he calls ‘girl behavior’.
Go through your old texts with girls, or old messages on Tinder. Take another look with an objective eye and check if they actually ‘rejected’ you, or if you gave up as soon as it wasn’t effortless.
At this point in our lives, Andy and I are only really interested in girls that make it easy to see them, girls who are eager and responsive. I’m all about having standards and preferences in any girls you see, but if you’re in a position where you’re not getting laid as much as you like – you might want to give this a go.
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