Category: Self-Improvement

6 Years with My Girlfriend. I’m Grateful.

Our relationship hasn’t always been smooth sailing. Here’s what we’ve learned.


It’s 2025. Relax. You’re Gonna Make It.

I promise you can achieve your goals.


TIWS Day 5 & Day 6 – Open Relationships & Boundaries / Run TOWARDS Fear

Andy and Imogen dive into fear, open relationships, jealousy – and give you a run-through of their entire relationship.


Good things are coming in the KYIL universe.

I’m excited – for myself and for all of you.


Always be Working on Something if You Don’t want to Become Depressed

Having goals you’re working towards is the antidote to depression and misery.


Screening Early vs Screening Later

Why I recommend screening earlier and being upfront with your intentions.


3 Ways to Live with a Woman and Still Be Productive

My top 3 techniques for making sure you – and she – absolutely crush your goals without distracting each other when you live together.


Be So Good that People Call You Privileged

Why I now like it when people tell me, “You’re so lucky.”


How has Dating Changed as I’ve Gotten Older?

It’s become a hell of a lot easier, that’s for sure.


You are a WARRIOR. Act like it.

You got this; I promise.


Accountability Partners & Weekly Check-ins

Want the cheat-code for self-improvement; a method to keep you on track and guarantee 10x the success you’d otherwise get? Grab yourself an accountability partner who’ll have your back and push you to crush your goals.


Recommendations / Support Me

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Why Losing Fat Matters Above All Else for Getting Laid (+Bonus 3some) [Storytime with Andy]

Andy cuts to the chase when it comes to cutting fat. Oh, and a bonus 3some.


BDSM Without the Mask

How to get into BDSM, without feeling like you have to “know what you’re doing” first.


6 Tinder/Online Dating Rules For Guys in 2026 (Essential Tips)

How to crush your online dating goals this year – let’s go!


⁠What I’ve Learned from 10 Years of Coaching Guys (Playing With Fire GUEST POST)

A guest post from Alex from Playing with Fire.


Hiding Makes You Fragile — Radical Vulnerability Sets You Free

The truth has nothing to hide.


14 Ways to Make Money Online

Andy brainstorms a bunch of ways you can make that bling bling online.


The Best DATING GAMEPLANS (Should You Do 1st Date Lays?)

Andy & Cam cover five different dating styles, including first date lays, waiting a little longer before having sex, and waiting a *really* long time before having sex.


Cut the NPC Crap: Stop Telling Yourself “I Can’t”

You are more powerful than you think you are.