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Yo, Andy here. I’m an Aussie guy who went from a depressed, suicidal obese loser to a guy who gets laid a tonne (proof here, including vids and pics), has 3somes, 4somes & BDSM sex, crushes weights at the gym, coaches other guys with their own journeys & generally loves his life.
(My full transformation story here).

Here’s why I write for this site. I killed my inner loser. It’s my mission to get you to kill your inner loser too.


I’ve done all this shit – and I’m nothing special. You can do everything I’ve done. My coaching clients & my readers have gone on to kick ass too – many of them have lost their virginity, others have gone from zero friends to having solid social circles. Many have overcome mental health issues including depression. Some have made massive progress in the gym & with their weight loss; others have started cold approaching girls during the daytime and getting laid like crazy.

None of us were anything special. If we’ve all gotten our shit together, you sure as hell can too.

So, what do you want? What are you here for?


Get Laid on Tinder:

Got you covered. Start with my MASSIVE (free) 130,000-word Get Laid a Tonne on Tinder guide:

Get Laid a Tonne on Tinder guide

That’ll teach you absolutely everything you need to know about Tinder/online dating; it’s all in there, completely for free.

If you’d like 1-on-1 help with me kicking your ass into gear and shortcutting your success, check this out: Get Laid a Tonne on Tinder Package.


Get Laid In Person:

Easy. Start with these, my best articles/podcasts on getting laid in person:

  1. How I Beat My Approach Anxiety (Fear of Hitting on Girls)
  2. The Solution to All Your Problems: Go Talk to More Girls
  3. How to Make Cold Approaching/Daygame FUN
  4. A Lot of Pickup Artists are Theatrical Wizards who Don’t Actually Want to Get Laid
  5. How Getting Laid Makes You a Better Man (Is Having Lots of Sex a Meaningless, Shallow Goal?)
  6. Ask EVERY Girl for a Phone Number (Cold Approach)
  7. Get Laid a Tonne in Person Coaching
  8. 124 Approaches in a Day: RogerRoger Breaks Records

Lose Fat and Look Better:

I lost 77lbs myself and went from looking average as fuck to a guy who gets laid with zero effort, so if I can do it, you can too. Start with these:

  1. How to Improve Your Looks (complete guide)
  2. How I Lost 77lbs/35kg
  3. Why Losing Fat Matters Above All Else for Getting Laid
  4. How to Get Strong/Gain Muscle
  5. How to Make Your Dick Bigger with the Bathmate
  6. Why Am I Getting Shit Tested? (Because You Look Like Shit)

Then sign up to my forums and start an accountability log on there. Nobody loses fat or improves their looks completely on their own; you need other people to push you, give you advice, give you motivation when you’re struggling, etc.


Overcome Depression & Mental Hurdles:

I’ve been there myself; I was suicidal for about 8-9 years, depressed as hell, life felt hopeless and I felt helpless to ever change it. I promise it’s all fixable, no matter how low you’ve sunk. Please read these:

  1. How I Beat Depression & Learned to be an Optimist (My Story)
  2. My Transformation
  3. What to Do When You Feel Hopeless & Helpless
  4. Don’t Kill Yourself.
  5. Don’t. Ever. Fucking. Quit.
  6. Questions to Ask Yourself if You Want a Successful Life
  7. How to Make Friends
  8. Take Massive Action
  9. Did Andy Ever Feel Like Giving Up?
  10. You Can’t Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought
  11. The Meaning Of Life & How to Be Happy
  12. The Slight Edge – How to Achieve Anything (How I’ve Achieved All My Goals)
  13. Don’t Worry, You’re Making Progress (Bad Days are Ok.)
  14. If You Don’t Take Yourself Seriously, How Can You Expect Anyone Else to?
  15. Discipline & Willpower Don’t Fucking Matter

Then come sign up to my forums so you don’t feel so damn alone. Plenty of guys on there have overcome/are currently working on their own mental hurdles, so it’s not just you. Surround yourself by people who give a shit about you and start tackling the beast that is depression.

If after all that you think you’d benefit from some 1-on-1 counselling with me, I offer a bulk discount for a 10-pack of counselling sessions. Check that out here. Again, I promise everything is fixable – you don’t have to do it alone.


Have 3somes (& 4somes):

I’ve had plenty of 3somes at this point (with over 20 different girls as of 2020), so I can absolutely help you fulfil your FFM fantasies:

  1. How to Have 3somes (series)
  2. How to Have 3somes with your Girlfriend & Girls SHE Meets from Tinder
  3. My First 3some
  4. The 4some (MFFF)
  5. Five 3somes in 4 Weeks

Learn BDSM/Have Wilder Sex:

Oh you kinky bastard, you want to tie girls up, spank them, have them call you Daddy, and more? I’ve got you covered:

  1. How to Get Started with BDSM (series)
  2. My BDSM Tinder Profile
  3. How to Make Girls Orgasm with No Effort (Magic Wand)
  4. Blindfolds; The Secret Cheat Code for When You’re Nervous
  5. How to Build your Sexual Bucketlist
  6. Beginner’s Guide to Shibari Rope Bondage
  7. How to Make Your Dick Bigger with the Bathmate
  8. The First Time I Started Screening for BDSM
  9. How to Find Dominant Women
  10. Answering Your 3some & BDSM Questions
  11. How to Have Anal Sex She’ll Enjoy

Learn to be More Honest/Raw with Women:

Want to open up and stop the bullshit games with women, and just be yourself… but secretly worried you’ll be too “beta” or too “needy”? Read these:

  1. It’s “You and Me”, not “You vs Me”
  2. Honesty is an Ideal You Work Towards
  3. How to Understand & Empathise with Women
  4. There is No Such Thing as “Alpha”
  5. Immy’s Thoughts: On Being Alpha
  6. How Getting Laid Makes You a Better Man (Is Having Lots of Sex a Meaningless, Shallow Goal?)
  7. How to Breakup / End Things Amicably with Girls
  8. How to Take the Lead Without Being Controlling

Now go out there and crush your goals.

After all, if I can do it, you sure as hell can too.
-Andy