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Yo, Andy here. I’m an Aussie guy who went from a depressed, suicidal obese loser to a guy who has an amazing sex life (stories here, including vids and pics), has 3somes, 4somes & BDSM sex, crushes weights at the gym, coaches other guys with their own journeys & generally loves his life.

Read my full transformation story here.

I killed my inner loser. It’s my mission to get you to kill your inner loser too.

I’ve done all this stuff – and I’m nothing special. You can do everything I’ve done. My coaching clients & my readers have gone on to kick ass too – many of them have lost their virginity, others have gone from zero friends to having solid social circles. Many have overcome mental health issues including depression. Some have made massive progress in the gym & with their weight loss; others have started cold approaching girls during the daytime and having amazing sex lives with wonderful women.

None of us were anything special. If we’ve all gotten our shit together, you sure as hell can too.

So, what do you want? What are you here for?

Have sex from Tinder:

Got you covered. Start with my MASSIVE (free) 130,000-word Have Sex from Tinder guide:

Have Sex from Tinder guide

That’ll teach you absolutely everything you need to know about Tinder/online dating; it’s all in there, completely for free.

If you’d like 1-on-1 help with me kicking your ass into gear and shortcutting your success, sign up for my coaching packages and work with me personally.

Have sex from approaching in-person:

Me and a cute chicky

Easy. Start with these, my best articles/podcasts on approaching in person:

  1. My Approach Anxiety Program (learn how to talk to women)
  2. A Lot of Pickup Artists are Theatrical Wizards who Don’t Actually Want to Get Laid
  3. How I Beat My Approach Anxiety (Fear of Hitting on Girls)
  4. The Solution to All Your Problems: Go Talk to More Girls
  5. How to Make Cold Approaching/Daygame FUN
  6. How Getting Laid Makes You a Better Man (Is Having Lots of Sex a Meaningless, Shallow Goal?)
  7. Ask EVERY Girl for a Phone Number (Cold Approach)
  8. Get Laid a Tonne in Person Coaching
  9. 124 Approaches in a Day: RogerRoger Breaks Records
  10. How to Be PRODUCTIVE when You’re Not at Your Best (Suffering is OPTIONAL)

$1 to Change Your Life?

This is EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed and suicidal to living a life of abundance and joy, all yours for just $1: PlayToWinMindset.com.

Lose Fat and Look Better:

I lost 77lbs myself and went from looking average as fuck to a guy who gets laid with zero effort, so if I can do it, you can too. Start with these:

  1. How to Improve Your Looks (complete guide)
  2. How I Lost 77lbs/35kg
  3. Why Losing Fat Matters Above All Else for Getting Laid
  4. How to Get Strong/Gain Muscle
  5. How to Make Your Dick Bigger with the Bathmate
  6. Why Am I Getting Shit Tested? (Because You Look Like Shit)

If you want more help on top of that, I offer coaching to keep you accountable as well.

Overcome Depression & Mental Hurdles:

I’ve been there myself; I was suicidal for about 8-9 years, depressed as hell, life felt hopeless and I felt helpless to ever change it. I promise it’s all fixable, no matter how low you’ve sunk. Please read these:

  1. How I Beat Depression & Learned to be an Optimist (My Story)
  2. My Transformation
  3. Play to Win: How I Built a Winner’s Mindset (My $1 Video Course)
  4. What to Do When You Feel Hopeless & Helpless
  5. Don’t Kill Yourself.
  6. Don’t. Ever. Fucking. Quit.
  7. How to Be PRODUCTIVE when You’re Not at Your Best (Suffering is OPTIONAL)
  8. Questions to Ask Yourself if You Want a Successful Life
  9. How to Make Friends
  10. Take Massive Action
  11. Did Andy Ever Feel Like Giving Up?
  12. You Can’t Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought
  13. The Meaning Of Life & How to Be Happy
  14. The Slight Edge – How to Achieve Anything (How I’ve Achieved All My Goals)
  15. Don’t Worry, You’re Making Progress (Bad Days are Ok.)
  16. If You Don’t Take Yourself Seriously, How Can You Expect Anyone Else to?
  17. Discipline & Willpower Don’t Fucking Matter

If you want more help with this, join our coaching program (you can book in a FREE call with me to discuss) so you don’t feel so damn alone. Plenty of people have overcome/are currently working on their own mental hurdles, so it’s not just you. Surround yourself by people who give a shit about you and start tackling the beast that is depression.

If after all that you think you’d benefit from some 1-on-1 counselling with me, I offer a bulk discount for a 10-pack of counselling sessions. Check that out here. Again, I promise everything is fixable – you don’t have to do it alone.

Have 3somes (& 4somes):

I’ve had plenty of 3somes at this point (with over 20 different girls as of 2020), so I can absolutely help you fulfil your FFM fantasies:

  1. How to Have 3somes Training Course
  2. How to Have 3somes with your Girlfriend & Girls SHE Meets from Tinder
  3. My First 3some
  4. My First 4some (MFFF)
  5. Five 3somes in 4 Weeks

Learn BDSM/Have Wilder Sex:

Oh you kinky bastard, you want to tie girls up, spank them, have them call you Daddy, and more? I’ve got you covered:

  1. All my BDSM Guides
  2. How to Get Started with BDSM (series)
  3. My BDSM Tinder Profile
  4. How to Make Girls Orgasm with No Effort (Magic Wand)
  5. Blindfolds; The Secret Cheat Code for When You’re Nervous
  6. How to Build your Sexual Bucketlist
  7. Beginner’s Guide to Shibari Rope Bondage
  8. How to Make Your Dick Bigger with the Bathmate
  9. The First Time I Started Screening for BDSM
  10. How to Find Dominant Women
  11. Answering Your 3some & BDSM Questions
  12. How to Have Anal Sex She’ll Enjoy

Learn to be More Honest/Raw with Women:

Want to open up and stop the bullshit games with women, and just be yourself… but secretly worried you’ll be too “beta” or too “needy”? Read these:

  1. It’s “You and Me”, not “You vs Me”
  2. Honesty is an Ideal You Work Towards
  3. How to Understand & Empathise with Women
  4. There is No Such Thing as “Alpha”
  5. Immy’s Thoughts: On Being Alpha
  6. How Getting Laid Makes You a Better Man (Is Having Lots of Sex a Meaningless, Shallow Goal?)
  7. How to Breakup / End Things Amicably with Girls
  8. How to Take the Lead Without Being Controlling

Now go out there and crush your goals.

After all, if I can do it, you sure as hell can too.
-Andy