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Over the last decade or so of my self-improvement journey, I’ve had a ton of really amazing experiences with a wide variety of really amazing women. At first they were just me and the girl; later, once I met my partner Immy, we’ve shared in a lot of 3somes (and a few 4somes) together and made some really amazing memories.
I’ve put a few of the stories here in a list you can read through and enjoy. As you read them, I want you to remind yourself of my motto: “If I can do it, you sure as hell can too.” All the fun sex stuff I’ve done, you are absolutely capable of doing it too – I’m not special. If you’re not at a point where you’re having much luck with the opposite sex, work hard on your self-improvement (start here), build yourself up like I did, and just aim to be 1% better every single day.
Some Adventures I’ve Shared with Women
Fun stuff women and I have done:
- A lot of very fun, adventurous sex – stories are below, with pics and videos across my site.
- Threesomes with a bunch of different women. If you wanna have as many 3somes as I have, use my how-to guide.
- Several foursomes (MFFF) – eg this one.
- I’ve been in a relationship for many years with my girlfriend Immy – she’s a truly wonderful human being. We met when she was 18, and she’s grown into a truly amazing, confident, and impressive human being over the years. She’s bisexual & seeks out other girls from her own Tinder/Hinge/etc for us to play with together (and I bring in my own girls too). We love each other to pieces & constantly push one another to absolutely crush our goals. I love her to bits. She even writes for my site and often features on my YouTube channel.
- A handful of cold approach sex (walking up to girls during the day on the street/shopping centres/etc and saying “Hey, you’re hot and I had to say hi. I’m Andy” then talking for a bit and asking for a number).
- Tonnes of BDSM sex – toys, whips, roleplays, the whole 50 shades of grey. I talk more about that here.
- I’ve coached hundreds of guys (and quite a few women!) and helped them change their lives – here’s their stories, told from their point of view.
- $50,000 USD in a month from coaching
- A myriad of interesting adventures (details below) – I’ve had 3somes, been with a few strippers, had sex in public many many times, gotten into BDSM, met some crazies, had sex with a tonne of girls within 30 minutes of meeting them, taught a few virgin girls BDSM. Best of all, I’ve met some really awesome girls who’ve changed me for the better.
- I’m so unbelievably grateful for everyone who helped me get here; I feel so blessed. Thankyou everybody.
A Few Fun Stories with Girls I’ve Met
Here’s a few fun stories I’ve written about some of the great memories I’ve shared with women so far.
Important: Bare in mind a couple of the below stories are from several years ago; I’ve changed a hell of a lot since then – especially my mindset on women & people in general. Back then I was often immature – and at times downright mean & bitter – but my past is an important part of my evolution so I’m happy to show it to you. I go into great detail about how my mindset has changed in “You and Me”.
- The OF Cosplay Queen with the World’s Biggest…
- Andy has a 4some (MFFF)
- Reigniting an Old Flame (3some)
- A Stormy 3some
- The Inexperienced Girl who Made Love to My Girlfriend (3some)
- Andy Bangs Miss Giggles + Bonus 3some
- The Ninja Dom who Become Our Sub (3some)
- The Bratty Switch who Loves Kink & Affection
- Andy & his GF Bang a 6ft1 Giant
- Andy Talks Dirty & Has a Girl Take the Lead
- Andy & Immy Have their 4th 3some in 3 Weeks
- Andy Bangs a Canadian Super-hottie & Keeps an Open Mind
- Andy Bangs a Double-Dater, and Why You Should Lose Fat + Bonus 3some
- The 18yo OnlyFans Queen (3some)
- Andy Fucks a Girl then Immediately Shags a Ginger Goddess
- Andy Does the Funny Business with a Kinky Daddy’s Girl
- Five 3somes in 4 Weeks
- Andy’s Epiphany about Not Going All-in with Getting Laid, & the Office Toilet Rendezvous
- Andy Bones a Girl He Literally Just Met
- Andy Boinks 4 New Girls in 3 days (Including a Lesbian)
- Andy Fucks a Clown, Meets Woody Allen, and has a 3some
- Andy Bangs 3 New Girls in 10 Hours
- The 23yo Virgin with a Broken Foot & a Heart of Gold
- Andy & his GF Play with a Stripper
- Andy’s Craziest Story of All Time (Podcast Episode) (And Part 2)
- Andy, Immy & the Good Girl (from Immy’s POV)
- Andy is Spellbound by a Witch
- Andy & His Girlfriend Bang a Lesbian Virgin
- Easy Free Sex Delivered Straight to Your Couch! (Podcast Episode)
- Andy Makes a Moaner Moan & Realises He No Longer Wants Meaningless Sex
- The Bridge is Green So We Have a 3some
- Andy Orders Italian from OkCupid
- Andy Bludgeons the Flaps of a Daddy’s Girl
- Andy & Imogen Don’t Pressure a Virgin
- We Fingerblasted a Tomboy
- Andy Meets a Ghost
- Andy Has a 3some & a New Lease on Life (Podcast Episode with my Girlfriend)
- Andy Belts a Korean’s Ass
- Andy Donates an Orgasm to a Shy Asian Powerlifter
- Andy Plays with a Prostitute’s Tits in Public
- Andy has his First 3some (with a Virgin & her Best Friend)
- Another 3some with a Virgin
- Yet ANOTHER 3some with a Virgin…
- The 23yo Virgin with a Broken Foot & a Heart of Gold (3some)
- Andy Meets Another Circus Performer
- Andy Buttplugs a Girl in Public & Realises Hinge is Awesome
- Andy Nuts in the Gut of a Big-Tittied 18yo (& Runs into Her a Year Later)
- Andy Blesses the Rains Down in Africa (& Thoughts on Open Relationships)
- The Girl who Knew Nothing About Sex
- Andy gets into a 3some with a Sunflower
- Andy First Starts Screening for BDSM
- Andy Dodges Herpes
- The Time a Crazy Japanese Mistress Tried to Use My Cum for Evil
- Andy Lays the Woman in the Red Dress
- A Gentle, Teasing Day (3some)
My Current Tinder Profile (Including BDSM)
Here’s the Tinder Profile I’m currently using, including explanations of what I text girls, how I structure my dates, etc.
Here’s my comprehensive guide to How to Get Laid on Tinder, so you can follow in my footsteps.
Every nude photo on this page & in every other article on my site are photos I’ve taken together with the girls I date/sleep with.
I’ll make this abundantly clear: I ask permission before ever sharing any nude pics of anyone; I recommend you always do the same. Read my guide on how to do nude photoshoots with girls you sleep with.
I Wasn’t Always a Guy Who Had Sex…
…In fact I started out lonely, fat, depressed & suicidal. I go into lots of detail about my transformation journey here. You can do the exact same thing – go start with my Tinder guide and do exactly what I’ve done.
I started out suicidal, obese, depressed, with absolutely no hope for redemption – I really felt like a lost cause. Seriously, read through this and you’ll see how depressed I was when I first started out.
I never in a billion years thought I could do any of the stuff I’ve done. If you read through the first 30 or so pages of the detailed log I kept when I first started trying to improve my sex life, I was scared, timid, depressed and had the worst self-esteem ever. Most weeks I stayed inside my apartment and never left – at least 3 out of every 7 days I’d just drink and watch porn and stay home and cry about how much I hated my life, hated women, hated myself. I had to push myself to leave the house and hit on one girl a day just to convince myself I even deserved to TRY and get laid.
To go from that to a guy who regularly has 3somes without having to try, has a cute, ambitious and intelligent girlfriend who adores him, is getting paid for his sex/dating/business (& other) advice and actually has confidence and self-love still feels surreal sometimes.
Life is really amazing – I get to explore BDSM and kinky sex, my girlfriend and I share plenty of girls in 3somes together (she even brings in extra girls from her own Tinder account) and I have a complete abundance of sex – more than I could ever need. I have a beautiful business that changes lives & pays all my bills (& my girlfriend Immy’s bills), I’ve met so many amazing human beings & I feel deep & true joy on a daily basis. Life is… peaceful. It’s beautiful.
I will repeat this until the day I die: If I can change, anyone can. I started out so low I wanted to kill myself every day, and now I’m at a point where I’m really damn happy with my life – I love being alive. If I can do this, you sure as hell can too. Start with my in-depth Tinder and Self-Improvement Guide; I cover every single step of improving yourself, meeting women, getting laid, and continuing to date them afterwards.
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(I feel like shit for posting this, and a few bits are questionable in my sense of morals, but here goes nothing,)
I feel like me and some mates need to read some of this, really fascinating how a guy can go from basically a no-one to “I’m ready to grab the devil by the horns and pull him into hell for a fistfight.” I dont know if this is genuine or not, but I get the vibe that you’ve just gotta seize the moment.
If not in sex and all that then in everyday life.
Thank you.
Go build an awesome life for yourself. If I can do it, you sure as hell can too.
-Andy
Great pictures! Very spicy and they show you know what you are talking about :-).
Cheers mate.
Kudos on the proof and all the things you’ve achieved so far. You definitely couldn’t have done it without going All In. This is something I and I think most guys struggle with. Most people are not used to going all in on anything, especially not something as non mainstream as numbers game and cold approach.
I’ve never known anyone who went all in on anything, including myself.
Side question out of curiosity: How tall are you?
If I tell you my height, will you use it as an excuse why success has been “easier” for me than it has for you – despite the fact you’ve already identified your main blockage (“I struggle with going all-in”)?
Ha! Well now that that plan is spoiled, I’ll just go ahead and assume you’re tall.
That assumption being made, I would say that you’re height is definitely an advantage, one by which most girls discriminate heavily.
Now that doesn’t change that going all in is important, but I think that it puts the results a short guy can expect in a different perspective.
Your statement is so cliche I’ve already written about it:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/my-transformation/
And:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/youre-so-lucky/
Height’s an advantage. Is being bald an advantage? Fat? Depressed? Suicidal? Abusive relationship? No muscle? Older than most guys who start improving (30 by the time I got serious)? Brainwashed to be a feminist? Zero friends?
Those were all things I’ve had to deal with – part of the hand that life dealt me. Don’t minimise someone down to tall vs short and gloss over everything else about them.
So again – are you going to say “boo hoo, I’m short so it’s haaaaard for me”? Or are you going to dig your heels in and work for what you want? The universe doesn’t reward excuse-making. You either do the work, or be the guy sitting on the sideline obsessing about his shortness, watching other guys achieving the things you want to achieve.
You’d join me, if you really wanted to. But I already wrote about that too.
https://killyourinnerloser.com/you-wont-listen-to-anything-i-say/
I’ll just screenshot that last article.
I’d really like you to prove me wrong, by the way. Like, really really. Please don’t be another guy who uses height as an excuse not to even try.
The fact that you say it’s a cliche only proves the point of its importance.
The things that you named such as being fat and depressed are things that can be changed. Height can’t be.
Also, most girls won’t know you’re depressed or conditioned to be a feminist unless they get to know you, but they immediately see your height. And I’m definitely not using height as an excuse to not try, just as a perfectly plausible reason as to why I didn’t do well even when I was trying.
Short guys can get laid, I have no doubt about that. Hell, midgets get laid. But when you’re short, your options are significantly limited and you most likely won’t get the hotties.
I’m not disagreeing with you, I think we’re both right. I’m just saying that the reality is different when you’re short, that’s all.
A poor person might make the same argument about wealth, an Asian about being white. They’d all be right. It doesn’t mean they should give up, but since it changes the reality of their expectations, its understandable that they would be discouraged.
You’re one of the few people that actually provides in-depth proof among multiple topics. Mucho appreciated!
Cheers mate. Still doing 1 approach a day?