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LAST DAY OF MY COACHING SALE!

Time to change your life!

How Introverted Guys Can Get a Girlfriend

Shyness doesn't have to be a barrier.

If You’re Struggling Right Now…

A message to you.

The Confidence-Competence Loop: How Doing Builds Belief

Confidence doesn't come first - it's not required in order to achieve your goals.

Give Yourself Permission to Suck [Redux]

The long-awaited Part 2 for the first article I ever wrote for this site.

The Only Approval You Need Is YOUR OWN.

Your opinion of yourself is the only one that really matters.

Sorry I Pressured You About My Coaching…

Some thoughts on how much I used to pressure you guys in the past.

Hey, you.

A message for you.

Leave Your Sexual Partners Better than You Found Them

It's allowed to be a win-win for you - and her.

The “Chad” Trap: How Overcompensating Masculinity Sabotaged My Dating Success

Why trying to be a "Chad" often hinders your success.

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About Me

Hey, I’m Andy. I went from depressed and suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy.

I overcame depression, lost 77lbs, learned to approach women, explored a bunch of amazing 3somes & other experiences, taught myself BDSM, was in a 7-year amazing relationship with my past-partner Immy, and have met so many beautiful women since. I learned to love myself & embrace each day with gratitude and positivity.

I’ve built a fulfilling business coaching other men & women to do what I (and hundreds of other clients) have done. More than anything, I feel peaceful, happy and full of love.

If we can do this stuff, you sure as hell can too.